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Dear Poundnstulla, 

I enjoy reading ur blog and i realize you aren't a sex therapist but maybe you can help me out with my situation. I am in a relationship with a really good guy. Handsome, hung and freaky. The problem is that he was a late bloomer and masturbated so much in his early years that his body is only used to cumming if he jacks off. I have been working on my body--he likes big butts and i have one--and when i work out i do kegels so i can be extra tight for him but he just got so used to his death grip no matter how long i go without getting fucked or how tight i try to grip his dick with my ass it just doesn't compare to his hand. It is frustrating because i would like to see him cum from fucking and getting a blow job but we've tried different positions, verbal, foreplay and it doesn't work. He always has to finish himself off. i feel inadequate. I've even suggested him finding a super slutty bottom because maybe i am not doing something right but he doesn't want to. I don't want him to but at the same time if we both aren't getting fully satisfied sexually then maybe we just aren't really connecting at some level. What do you think would help this situation?

Answer. 

Dear reader. 

So many times as bottoms we give tops the impression that they must fuck, and fuck and fuck and fuck. Many tops believe they must fuck for hours. Porn is sending the wrong message and we are sending tops the wrong message. sit your man down and tell him what pleases you in an honest way. Do it over date night so he takes it seriously. Do not mention a slutty bottom to make him nut. You are the only man he should be coming home to. During date night, if you don’t have the courage to say the words, write it, show him this answer if you must. As a top, his main objective should be to please you. And coming at the end of a good sex session is ideal. 

As a top, I do feel the need to outdo, outperform and out-fuck the bottom until he cries for mercy. But that is the sex I give casual fucks. When I am dating one guy, my soul purpose is to please him. So if as the bottom, wanting your man to cum while he is still fucking should be very easy for the top. Most tops, do not think about the bottom they are pleasing. Sad but true. 

QUESTION

 Hello,

I have a question for you. I am bisexual and I'm kinda nervous to put myself out there to let a hot guy know I'm into him. How do I let a guy know I like him without letting it be known to everybody and women around? Can u help me out please!

ANSWER

Thanks for your question. Most gay men and bisexual men have been where you are. You would like to introduce yourself but how discreet can I be? A few weekends ago I was at a bar and restaurant chilling with friends. I started flirting with a guy across from me. He was looking and I kept looking at him. Our eyes were intense. It was as if he wanted me to eat his ass and I kept looking at him like I wanted to fuck him on the table at the bar. I found him online (long story for that). We kicked it off on Whatsapp and we are still friends today. You have to become vulnerable to meeting a hot guy. This is better if you know the guy you want to meet is gay or bisexual. Start by flirting with the eyes. If you send the right signal, he will come over and make the first move or flirt with his eyes in return.

Secondly, join a website to meet new guys. There are men online who are not interested in sex and those who just want to fuck. 

Do not be shy about meeting a guy. I like a confident man. So if you like someone, make a move, say hi, shake a hand, introduce yourself. You don’t have to hold a long conversation, do something. 

As a shy guy, learn how to flirt. You don’t have to become sleazy and disgusting throwing sex every where. Be respectful of the other guy. All the best in meeting the hot guy. 

ONE 

TWO

THREE

FOUR

FIVE 

1. This BOOTY Is REAL - CLEAN REAL THAT IS

2. It’s a SCIENCE - YOU HAVE TO DOUCHE RIGHT 

3. I’m The FIERCEST BOTTOM RIGHT NOW 

4. WHICH TOP IS NEXT?

5. I’m THE BADDEST BOTTOM IN THE GAME 

6. MY BOOTY WANTS WORLD PEACE 

7. HAIL THIS CLEAN QUEEN BOTTOM

8. MY ASS RRR RRR IS THE BEST RRRRRRR

9. HOW THE BOTTOM ACTS AFTER THE DICK EXITS THE ASS CLEAN....YIPPEEE

10. CLEAN BOTTOMS ROCK - WE ARE BAD BITCHES 

This is the news that shocked the entire world, albeit the entertainment world. Charlie Sheen was coming out to speak the open truth about his HIV status. He is positive.

December 1 is internationally celebrated as World AIDS Day. It is a day to highlight the importance of HIV testing and ensuring the awareness of this infection to those who put themselves at risk. As a porn observer, blogger, consumer, watcher, student and critic, the use of condoms in porn have been a hot topic debate. Indeed, the gay porn industry has progressed with using semantics such as “condom free porn” to “raw” to “bareback”. Five years ago when gay porn studios ventured in “condom free” porn as the scenes were titled, they had come under sustained attacks from those advocates who demanded porn stars wrap it up. 

The customer is king. The fact is bareback porn grosses more than porn movies and scenes using condoms. Ask any CEO of any major studio and they will admit that going raw brings in more money and media attention online. Gay porn studios have expenses too in operating a successful business - a production team and actors to remunerate for their services. This however, does not erase the need to protect those involved from a virus that has wreaked pain and suffering on millions of people worldwide. 

As we celebrate World AIDS Day in 2015, there are measures the gay porn industry can take to advance this raw conversation of condom free or not. Sure, the studios  will want to protect their bottom line in creating more profits. Barebacking appears to be an entertaining trend online with on and off screen lovers. 

Here are 5 steps the gay porn industry can take to advance the conversation on HIV and AIDS:

Promote gay porn stars as HIV advocates.

Ensure gay porn stars become more open online on their own platforms about steps they are using to protect themselves from contracting HIV.

The gay porn studios must use their platforms to talk about this epidemic hurting vulnerable communities and how they are protecting the actors they hire.

Implement tighter testing measures. 

Protect the people you employ.

Will we have an AIDS-free world? While that question is still up in the air, the world leaders in HIV/AIDS have set a deadline for 2030 to cure HIV. There are several measures you can use like using PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis), condoms and other measures like abstaining from sex to remain negative. 

Whatever you do, protect the partner you share love, fuck or a one night stand with. 

Respect | Love |Protect

#WorldAIDSDay