5 languages of love
It’s important to not only know your love language but also the love language of those closest to you especially a significant other. Knowing a person love language will help you build and maintain healthy relationships and is very easy to understand
1.Words of Affirmation
hearing “I love you” and other compliments are what they value the most.
Words hold real value within this language.
Furthermore, negative or insulting comments cut deep — and won’t be easily forgiven.
2. Quality Time
is all about giving the other person your undivided attention.
Talk is cheap and being a loved one’s main focus leaves quality timers feeling satisfied and comforted.
Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful to these individuals.
Being there for them is crucial.
3. Receiving Gifts
what makes them feel most loved is to receive a tangible gift.
This doesn’t necessarily mean the person is materialistic, but a meaningful or thoughtful present is was makes them feel appreciated.
4. Arts of Service
actions speak louder than words.
Those who want their partner to recognize that their life is rough and help them out in any way possible.
Lending a helping hand shows you really care.
People who thrive on this language do not deal well with broken promises — or perceived laziness — and have very little tolerance for people who make more work for them.
Basically, if you’re not willing to show your appreciation by doing them a favor, you’re saying you don’t value them
5. Physical Touch
nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch.
That doesn’t mean only in the bedroom — everyday physical connections, like hand-holding, kissing, or any type of re-affirming physical contact is greatly appreciated.
Physical touch isn’t necessarily an over-the-top PDA'er, but getting a little touchy-feely does make them feel safe and loved.
Any instance of physical abuse is a total deal breaker.
