1# shapes and colors lover 🌈

if they take a nap and ask you to wake them up in an hour, when you wake them up they might be a bit groggy but theyre not going to get mad at you for waking them up.

when your f/o says "let's pick up dinner after work" and then comes home to you hanging out waiting to make the pick up order, they're not gonna get angry for not seeing dinner being cooked.

when your f/o says theyre really not upset, that theyre just tired? They mean it. Theyre not gonna come barging into the room minutes later yelling at you for not checking up on them more.

your f/o will always mean what they say with things like that. Theyll never leave you wondering if you should wake them up or have that dinner made, or walking on eggshells around them.

No, you are not "crashing out" when you see a double. You can talk about being upset or having a meltdown, or if you enjoy making a joke about your situation, that you're losing your marbles or going batshit.

And if I see you using "simp" I am at least considering blocking. That is not a word that you should be using for yourself or for others. In its original context*, simp is used as an insult against men who have feelings for women beyond seeing them as sexual objects. It is a word with explicitly misogynist intention. Using it as a joke or term of endearment is not reclaiming, especially if you are not black yourself.

if you have a comfort plushie, especially one that you bring in public- your f/o loves it, by the way. it’s not childish or embarrassing. honestly, they think it’s cute! and if anyone tries to tease you about it, i can promise they’ll stand up for you