Ough...

Happy pride to all TransID / PermaID / Etc users (with inclusion for ALL IDs, not just the ones beings find "non-problematic")

Happy Pride to all radqueer age regressors, pet regressors and so on!!

Happy Pride to all Disabled Radqueers

Happy Pride to all Adult Radqueers, Teenage Radqueers, Child Radqueers, Ageless Radqueers, and so on!!

Happy Pride to all Radqueers that are only partially Radqueer, and happy pride to queer folk that are NOT radqueer but are respectful and either don't interact with Radqueer beings or act respectful and kind to radqueer beings!!

Happy Pride to all paraphiles, including those with paraphilias that are frowned upon by most!!

Happy Pride to those with any and all kinks, fetishes and so on!!

Happy Pride to those neutral on being Radqueer!!

Happy Pride to Black, Asian, and so on, Radqueers / TransID Users!!

Paraphile ≠ Predator.

I am so tired... I want to be open about who I am. I want to be open and talk about how I cope with things. But I can't. I have no where to talk about it. Discord restricts me every time. Antis on Tumblr will term my account. I just want to talk about things I struggle with. I just want to talk about how I have found coping mechanisms. I just want to talk about how I found ways to be a safe person. But I can't. I can't talk about how my wife and I genuinely believe we should have siblings. I can't talk about how he helps me cope with my paraphilias. I can't talk about how I am a paraphile and how that interacts with my job. I can't talk about how I have found coping mechanisms. I can't talk about how I have found ways to be a safe person to those around me. How is that wrong? How is it wrong that I want to help others find ways to cope? How is my personal relationship with a consenting adult is dangerous? How is my personal relationship with a consenting ADULT is disgusting?

It.. almost hurts more that I can't be open about it. It makes me feel dangerous. It makes me feel like I'll never be able to escape. It makes me feel like I will inevitably do something terrible. It.. makes me question what the point of me doing all the work is. What's the point of I'll be seen as dangerous anyway? What's the point if people will assume I'm a predator anyway? What's the point? (The point is not hurting another being and being someone safe)

PARAPHILE ≠ PREDATOR

Being a Paraphile does not equal being a Predator. Paraphiles are not inherently predators.

That is such a bad and dangerous mindset...

I am rotting, my decaying body is nothing more than a vessel for others. A body to be defiled, dirtied, beaten until nothing but blood , guts and bones are left. Broken, knocked out teeth and shrieks of pain are all that remain.

Not sure if this one's been done yet, but after doing a bit of digging, I found an original, full-size version of Angus Mcbride's art of Saruman and his orb, aka "Pondering My Orb" meme. (Yes, this is actually Saruman.) Unfortunately, I could not find the original title, if there ever was one.

After comparing a couple others, this was the best version I could find in high quality.

Now you, too, can ponder Saruman's orb in full, high-quality wizardry.

Please please make sure to take care of yourself guys!! :]

happy pride to all my queer friends who taught me to love others above all else and to never judge others for their identities