failure by design

Tumblr Hates Cis People by Claudia Boleyn

Tumblr is supposed to be a place of tolerance and diversity. Get your act together please.

(I speak for myself only. I hope I am not speaking over anyone. This video is made by a cis woman for other cis folk. All opinions are my own. I am a humble blogger.)

is that it just never ends

and its the same shit over and over again

people just continually fuck your shit up

and you have to smile and grit your teeth and go, ‘yo thats actually fucked, please don’t do it’

and when people you like and admire do it

do and say the same stuff you are forced to devote your energy to fighting

its like being kicked in the teeth

this is why people have flash temper reactions to bullshit, even if it was done without malicious intent

a thousand micro aggressions building up over your life

'why are you so angry' 'why can't you just explain it calmly' 

maybe its because it never ever ends

and you explain it to one person and they get it and you feel good, because thank fuck, someone listened! someone grew! someone changed! someone genuinely meant it when they said sorry

turn around

and there are more people doing the same thing

what are you supposed to do

do not fucking call me by it

do not fucking mention it

do not fucking think about it

just fucking dont

dont do it

my name is the name i say i go by

fucking respect that

im not asking for you to rip your arm off and give it to me