moved to coldweatherheater

im here now <3

i would be soooooo powerful if i wasn't so deeply afraid of people and places and also things

The most attractive thing u can be is be 30 years old

honestly + unfortunately I am never surprised by men laughing at a woman’s expense

like marilyn frye said: “to say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). all or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. the people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and love they desire… those are, overwhelmingly, other men. in their relations with women, what passes for respect is kindness, generosity or paternalism; what passes for honor is removal to the pedestal. from women they want devotion, service and sex. heterosexual male culture is homoerotic; it is man-loving.”

do you ever think oh actually i am never going to stop being eleven years old and lonely