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Building an intimate relationship with yourself is the foundation for cultivating deep intimacy with a lover. Because the deepest intimacy with another actually begins inside our own hearts. By turning inwards and listening to our hearts, feelings, and intuition, we develop the courage to express and be more vulnerable in life. We begin to forge an inner connection that transforms how others relate to us–see and experience us. ‘To love and be loved’ means that first you have to get into right relationship with yourself.

“I’m starting to realize that people lack good mirrors. It’s so hard for anyone to show us how we look, and so hard for us to show anyone how we feel.”

“No-one will love you exactly the way you want them to. You just have to let them do their best.”

“Be very, very careful what you put into your head, because you’ll never, ever get it out.”