INTRODUCING...THE COMIC RELIEF
"it ain't easy bein' cheesy"
Nathan Anderson. 22 (born october 24th, 1976)
He was born into a poverty-stricken family as the youngest of three. His parents loved him and his siblings and they loved each other too - though there was always some tension. They were often emotionally and physically exhausted, often always working or finding ways to lower costs. Arguments were common, even when they quickly made up. Nathan grew accustomed to hand-me-downs and going without.
His brother, Gregory, 8 years older than him, was often left in charge of him & his sister Monica (4 years older) - which was fine until Greg, feeling the burden of taking care of his family, wanted to make extra cash and was attracted to drugs - both taking & selling. Monica also seemed to be attracted to trouble; though more getting into fights and skipping school than anything else.
Seeing the additional stress his parents felt dealing with his siblings, Nathan strived to be the "easy child" - he bottled up his feelings & leaned into comedy. Laughter is the best medicine, right? Better than drugs & alcohol..and maybe, he felt, it would keep his parents from succumbing to anger and depression. When he could get his brother to double over laughing, his sister to snort, his father to crack a tired smile, or bring joyful tears to his mother's eyes...there was no better high.
Often labelled the class clown in school, teachers wrote him off as a distraction or unserious. They didn't see the empathy or intelligence in humor - the code-switching, room-reading, quick-wittedness. Except for his junior-year English teacher, who saw how hard he was working. Maybe not at school, but at keeping his family together, at trying to make friends and fit in, at pleasing others, and joining the job force at Starline Cinema. When he expressed a desire not only to not go to college, but to drop out and work full-time to help support his family, he pulled him aside and took him under his wing. He told him that he saw him - not the clown mask he put on, but underneath. The hardworking and caring human he was. His teacher challenged him to think deeply before leaving school - about the opportunities he would miss out on, the potential financial ramifications, the lifestyles he might fall into...
So Nathan found himself staying - telling himself he'll just finish senior year and then work full time. But his mindset had shifted - he locked in his senior year and realized how gratifying he found learning to be. He decided, for the rest of his life, he wanted to help others see what his teacher saw in him and become a teacher himself.
He still had to work. He had lost his job at Starline Cinema due to tardiness and misconduct (on a dare, he hopped the fence to the starlight carousel and jumped onto a horse while it was still moving; his crowning achievement) - but was able to find work at Slice House, which definitely proved to be a better fit. It was fast-paced and challenging, provided free meals, and gave him room to grow. His first year he was a crew member, the second and third a shift lead, and now his fourth year here, after the previous assistant manager quit (or was fired, if you believe gossip), they offered the job to him.
He didn't really want the extra work, but the pay raise was nice. He was putting himself through college, though he did receive a small scholarship and his parents offered what they could...and as he was driving back from Purdue University, his car broke down. The only mechanic he could afford would fix it - but likely with bubblegum and duct tape. The pressure of being home in a poor neighborhood, feeling like he needed to help his parents with bills, save his siblings, and somehow fix his car - which was his only escape from this town, was overwhelming.
Not that he'll let anyone see these situations break him. Instead, he'll paint a smile on his face, even when he feels like crying, crack jokes when he wants to disappear, and take care of others when they're breaking because he refuses to add weight to the already-burdened shoulders of his parents. It didn't feel like a choice, but a responsibility he took on when he was younger - he needed to succeed. He needed to be 'the easy child' - the one that never made his parents worry, who carried them on his still small shoulders, whose laugh was deemed infectious and positivity, inspiring.


















