(Queer)platonic and familial self-shipping central

° Queerplatonic f/os that are physically affectionate towards you.

• Queerplatonic f/os that will hug and cuddle you when you desire it.

° Queerplatonic f/os that find you aesthetically/sensually/etc. attractive.

• Queerplatonic f/os that live with you.

° Queerplatonic f/os that share a bed with you.

• Queerplatonic f/os that sleep in separate beds.

° Queerplatonic f/os that want to be married to you and/or be your life partner.

• Queerplatonic f/os that are polyamorous with your other f/os.

° Queerplatonic f/os that exclusively have you as their only partner.

• Queerplatonic f/os that go on dates with you.

° Queerplatonic f/os that keep in non-physical with you.

• Queerplatonic f/os that kiss you (on the lips or otherwise).

° Queerplatonic f/os that have ambiguous feelings for you.

• Queerplatonic f/os that are long-distance and/or live separately from you.

° Queerplatonic f/os that share anniversaries with you.

• Queerplatonic f/os that raise children or care for pets with you.

° Queerplatonic f/os that have seggs with you.

• Queerplatonic f/os that keep it casual.

For aromantic self shippers, your f/o respects your boundaries as well! They will also defend you and understands that you care about them in a way that is not romantic. Your f/o is just happy to be with you and it doesn’t need to be romantic.

Gosh, they really do have so many nice things about you to say, they could literally go on for hours.

"I know it hurts. I know. I'm here.

you do not need to be a part of adding pictures to those posts if you are too afraid to, you don’t need to reblog every imagine you see just to be a part of something, you do not need to publicly continuously gush about your f/o if you are far too scared to, you don’t need to do anything you are too afraid to do or haven’t reach that step yet.

if you are public about gushing about your f/o, your selfship, absolutely anything, that is so valid and awesome! if you reblog countless imagines because they make you feel happy, you are valid and you do not need to always add tags to it if you don’t want to! if you are timid and shy on gushing, posting anything about your f/o or selfship, you are so valid! if you are private about your selfshipping, and enjoy liking the content the selfship community provides, you are so valid.

they'll treat you with so much love and care, exactly as you deserve, and they're very eager to show it.

you can put all of your trust into them because you know that they love you so much and you're the one that has meant the most to them out of everyone they've ever met and nothing and no one will ever be able to change that.

they can't even stand the thought of ever replacing you, they'd get a bit self concious for even thinking about that.

Feel free to do any amount of these idm ou

-imagines for emetophobic reader

-imagines for polyamorous ships

-imagines for genderfluid reader and/or transfem f/o

There is absolutely none of these content online and it makes me sad thankyou ilysm/p

HI CHERI 💕 /p

I gotchu :)

1.

Your f/o would always make you safe food! They’d gently encourage you to eat and never tire of reassuring you that it’s safe. They’d be so proud whenever you managed to eat, and tell you as much. They’d always make sure everything is clean and keep anyone sick well away from you. If there’s something triggering, they’d hold you close and reassure you and make you feel as safe as they can.

2.

Your f/os love you and each other so so much, and are always finding new ways to show that. You’d always be getting random gifts and trinkets from your partners. If you all live together, there’d be so much love and care. You’ll always have someone looking out for you! It’s also not uncommon to walk into a room and two of your f/os are just gushing about you. Also, dinner table conversations with the polycule would be the BEST

3.

Imagine your f/o asking what gender/pronouns you prefer every morning, and then immediately giving you a complement based on this. They think you always look (and are) amazing, and often joke that you’re so lucky to pull of every gender. They’ll often mix terms too, like ‘this is my boyfriend, she-‘ (if you’re comfortable with that! It’s just smtng that makes me happy as a genderfluid person)

4.

Tw: mention of past abuse

Your f/o would always comfort you and make you feel safe

-they’d promise you that you’re safe now, you’re safe with them, and they’ll never let anyone hurt you

-they’d be so proud of you for opening up to them about what happened and they’d be so supportive

-if you need a laugh, they’d make fun of the person/people who hurt you with you

-and they’d assure you that that person/people didn’t deserve you

-if that person/people ever did find you again, your f/o would keep you safe and be very protective no matter what

-they’d come to recognise your triggers and would subtly put an arm around you if someone unknowingly said/did something that makes you nervous

-they’d reassure you that they love you so much, too much ever to hurt you, and that they want what’s best for you. They’d wonder how anyone could ever want to hurt you, someone they love so much

-if you stutter, your f/o would never make fun of you. Even if they’re usually impatient, they’d be happy to wait for you to finish what you’re saying, and if anyone made fun of you or rolled their eyes, your f/o wouldn’t hesitate to tell them off (or just GLARE in their direction)

-if your f/o senses that you’re nervous while you’re in public, they’ll gently put an arm around your shoulder/waist and subtly pull you a little closer to reassure that they’re right there and they’ve got your back

-if anyone decides to be a jerk to you, your f/o won’t hesitate to call them out and tell them they’re being totally unfair.

-whether you’re normally pretty sturdy and thick-skinned or you’re always easily affected, your f/o would always back you up and comfort you if something that seems small made you upset. They’ll never think you’re ‘too sensitive’.

imagine you accidentally say u love them (platonic ofc)

Whether you’re calling them and accidentally say ‘love you bye’ or you’re falling asleep and tiredly say ‘I love you’