This idea that you are harming, destroying, wasting, or like otherwise abusing books by dog-earing the pages, highlighting things, writing on them, etc. is really whack and makes no sense and literally no one should be beholden to it when they own books.
Literally every single humanities/social science teacher or professor I’ve ever had has books that are covered with sticky tabs and notes in all the margins. Books are meant to be enjoyed. You make a book yours by covering it with your thoughts.
That’s just a part of reading. I don’t know why there’s this aversion to enjoying them but like... books are t decorative. Who are you “preserving” them for by not leaving marks on them?
write in your books!
This a very chaotic evil thing to say.
#blasphemy#Imagine doing this to your favorite books#This is why notebooks exist
you’re 25 get a better personality than “uses big words from a thesaurus and pretends liking books is a religion” why don’t you?
look write in YOUR books all you like but do not come into my house and demand I write on mine. or write on mine if I lend it to you. kthxbye
shut the fuck uuuuup nobody is forcing you to do shit shut the fuck up!!!
It’s wild how no where on the op does it say you are less than for not writing in books it’s literally about breaking the stigma about writing in YOUR OWN BOOKS
Why are these nerds so defensive??
For many of us, books took the place of something in our lives that we lacked. For me, it was love. Everyone has their own reasons for cherishing their books. We love them like family because when we read them, for a short while, we don't remember that we're lacking anything. I think that might be why.
I occasionally write in books, and I personally LOVE when I find writing in a book. It’s like a small insight into another person. Why is this particular passage highlighted? Like a tiny mystery for me to solve.
I feel the exact same way. I love finding writing in books.











