hand-me-down martyrdom

Dont ask me whats up i have done nothing since we last talked 3 years ago

you used to be able to get a job just by circling a listing in a newspaper in red pen

btw dating sucks as a concept.

meeting up with someone with the explicit goal of figuring out whether or not you want a relationship with them spoils the dynamic. it sucks. it's terrible. fall in love with your friends like normal people.

as expected this one is a hit with the autism website

digital selfharm is real. do NOT check up on that ex-partner/ex-friend. do NOT reread those old messages/conversations that you know will hurt your feelings all over again or that will otherwise make you feel like shit. do NOT block evade to see if you’re being talked about. inhale. exhale. let it pass and you’ll be better for it.

Stop reconsuming your trauma in media and again wondering why it repeats in your life and people see it as synonym with you.

I can always post worse

sometimes your distress does indicate you should stop and respect your limitations. at other times it's more of a baby aquatic mammal being introduced to water for the first time thing. Too bad the difference is so hard to tell.

who wanna be friends with drawbacks

friends with consequences

there’s just something so awesome about a character you love getting really badly hurt

problematic rage gap. one partner tries to bring nuance and understanding to a tough situation. the other wants to blow up the earth about it.

they wanted him dead for his sad brown eyes and his slut waist

every character will be on the aro/ace spectrum by the time im done with them

going to scotland would fix me I know it