Like my coworker would run her mouth to all my other coworkers and she'd paint me as a liar. Theyd believe her over me bc Im new.

I had no choice but to only address the panic/anxiety attack allegations. It fucking sucks for me, but it's a contained situation.

If I was like "lol no here's what actually happened" and threw my coworker under the bus, it's turn into this huge ordeal.

Like as long as I don't lose my job over an "your coworker says you had a panic attack that made people uncomfortable" lie that isn't true.

Why the fuck would I be panicked all bc this fuckass hoe went to keke w her friends while I had to stall for 15 minutes only to have to hunt her down? Like it dont make sense. If anything, I was a bit flustered and irritated bc this is your guy and you've fucked off.

But see like if I said that directly, the situation would spin of out of my court and into her's. So all I can do is be like "i dont have anxiety and I wasn't having an anxiety attack in that moment. I didn't know it was perceived as that, thank you for bringing it to my attention. Im shocked. No one told me about this". Bc I was.

Like this lying ass hoe will get her karma. Trust. She lying about this and about another situation.

Im literally in some lose-lose type shit rn ig.

Mind you, this is all bc I disagreed with this lady whos strangely over-invested in a situation thats not our business and weirdly "pro alleged domestic abuser"/"anti dv victim".

I had one actual disagreement with her and she gets really petty / hypercritical w me in front of customers. Nothing I say is absolutely perfect so she corrects it like Im some kind of moron/bad/unfit for my job. Now, I find out shes lying to my boss and lying to random mfs about why this shit w this guy fell through. It wasn't my call but mfs apparently think it is.

I don't talk about my work in detail to anybody, so if theyre naming me by name/role then I know shes been trash talking me.

i know she been shit talking me to mfs too bc i dont talk about what tf be going on at work to anybody. smh lady dont fw me.

Like i do like my job and enjoy working there

Bc mfs talk and if I say "hey why did you do this?" It lets her be able to create a narrative. Idgaf about this it's as settled as it can be.

Sis retiring in two months idgaf whay she do as long it don't impact my bread.

If I don't confront her, she can't shit talk me potential ally. Ima act like nothing wrong bc sis I genuinely don't care Im not saying at this job for longer than two years max.

they can think whatever they want, but I didn't try to flip it. I just told my boss: "I don't have anxiety, I wasn't having an anxiety attack but that I'm grateful someone brought it to my attention bc I wasn't aware of ppl perceiving it like that. No one told me that they thought I was until now. Thank you for telling me, i understand youre doing your job"

thats the only shit i could do that wouldn't devolve this into some kind of "senior employee vs new hire" situation. like i did want to take it on the chin? absolutely not. but it was the only option to not de-rail shit into a situation that I couldnt control.

the lady been working there for three decades. If we got into it all bc i was like "no, it happened like this. not what she said". Like the Supervisor involved and shit, i'd come out as the loser.

lady i aint a mf moron. i didnt accuse my coworker of lying or try to set the record straight. All i did was make it clear that I wasn't having a panic attack but this is my first time hearing that ppl thought I was.

hoe why is you beefing w me bc im taking the neutral take of "it doesnt matter who started it, catching a charge is a contractual liability". I'd never seen her so emotionally invested in some shit that she wasn't involved in. she dont know the parties incolved. why is you claiming immediately that the gf provoked this man to hit her? shit lowkey irked me but idgaf what this old lady think

this old lady nearing retirement and that idgaf bc ima be finding a new job soon. im just here long enough to make the money, build a lil resume, so i can move out and get more money

like this old ass lady been petty with me in front of customers over the stupidiest shit she disagree with for the whole week before this. Noticeably so too . like really testing my patience bc it aint hard for me to argue back. why you making me look bad in front of these radnom customers?

its crazy that she acted like this immediately after we had a cordial (but actual) disagreement about this DV shit, then she gets petty and tries to make me look dumb in front of random customers, and now apparently I had "an anxiety attack at work that made ppl uncomfortable" even tho if I told my supervisor what tf actually went down, she'd look bad.

I peeped game tho when my supervisor told me that bullshit story. I coudlve turned it "he said, she said" but all I said was "I don't have anxiety. I wasn't having a panic attack or aware it was perceieved as one. Thank you for bringing it to my attention.."

bc i couldve easily ratted to the supervisor abt how my coworker was keking with random ppl outside of our office as I was tryna burn time so that I didn't have to ask her to do her job with the client SHE was assigned to. Like i couldve gone low and made some beef and trust a mf will if I have to.

Sorry I was telling you the client smelt like smoke bc youd told me a mf who smelt like smoke triggered your serve asthma and you had to go to the hospital. sorry for being nice

like sis idgaf enough to even get down in the dirt with you. but a mf will if I have to. I'll tell the supervisor how you be leaving mfs waiting in our office who are specifically looking for you.

i didnt say the shit i wanted to when my boss was asking me if I had anxiety or anything bc if I wouldve told what tf actually happened, itd be some shit i wanna deal w. hoe i want money. im paid to follow guidelines

see, this lady thought that I'd turn it into a "my word vs her word" situation but im not a fucking moron. ima just say "i dont have anxiety issues. I wasn't anxious, im sorry if it was perceived as that though. I wasnt aware that it was".

like sis i know you want me to defend myself so you can cry victm and turn everybody against me. but im not a mf moron. im the new employee there, if I did some "lines in the sand" shit then nobody would take my side and it'd make me ostracized.