Pain Slut Lois

Someone asked me recently what submission means to me and I have my usual answer of ”it’s just the way I am, it’s my natural state”. I sometimes go into more detail about how I struggled with it for a long time and just wanted to be a “normal” girl and all of that stuff I’ve talked about on here before but it’s been a while since I’ve actually thought about this, what it means to me to be a…

On occasion Mistress Fiona and I will have a long weekend away somewhere in the UK just for a little break. Obviously that hasn’t been possible so much int he last couple of years but as things are starting to return back to normal we booked an impromptu weekend in sunny Manchester (spoiler: it wasn’t sunny!). On Friday morning we packed our bags and then as we were about to leave Mistress…

Sorry I’ve not written in a little while, it’s been a busy time and it will likely be this way, periods of consistent writing and then gaps when I get busy at work or with Mistress. It’s better than nothing though right? I have though finally managed to finish a story I’ve been thinking about for a while. It’s actually a sequel to a story I wrote years ago called “The Geek Slave” (terrible title…

There is something that I have eluded to before on this blog but have never really talked about in detail and I feel like it is time to be open about it. For years, since before I was with Fiona or even some of the other partners I’ve talked about, there has been a guy on and off in my life. I’ve spent many hours playing with him and he has brought me a great deal of enjoyment and pleasure, he’s…

I started writing a different post but I got half way through and then got distracted for a couple of days I now I’m finding it difficult to get back into it so I’m just going to tell you about an embarrassing experience I had a while ago, before lockdown. It was about six month after I’d got married and I’d arranged to go for a meal with my sister. For those of you that don’t know my sister…

For much of my youth I was extremely sure about my sexuality, while I held no prejudice against any other sexuality I considered myself to be completely straight right up until I was confronted with the fact, or rather that I acknowledged the fact, that I wasn’t. In the very first post on this blog, which is actually a post from 2006 that I recovered from a previous (now deleted) blog, I talk…

There are a number of holes in my body beyond the obvious three so I thought I’d write about them all and how my Mistress sees fit to put them to good use! I’ll start with the ones I was born with and then talk about the after market ones that Fi decided my body needed. Beyond my dietary and communication needs my mouth is there to service Mistress however she wants, I’ve used it to give her…

Learning from my mistakes

If you’ve visited the site you’ll see that I’ve started to make some changes to it to bring it a little more up to date, it’s still a work in progress so bare with me but one of the things I wanted to do was give it a title, and I decided upon “Learning from My Mistakes” because a lot of the stories I seem to write about are the result of me doing something silly or being punished for doing…

Well if you insist…😊

Thank you so much for all of the kind words and encouragement I have received over the last couple of days both in comments and through my other means of contact (Twitter/FetLife), it has been really lovely and has meant a lot to me. So it is decided, I will dust off the old journal and get back to writing about some of the adventures I go on with Mistress Fiona. I’ll spend some time making the…

The last time I wrote a proper post I was about to get married and now we’ve just celebrated our two year anniversary! And what a strange time it’s been! Fingers crossed we’re nearly done with it though, I’ve had one jab and it won’t be too long before I have my second one. I’ve been thinking for a while that I’d quite like to get back to writing again, I’ve got no idea if anyone really looks…

I just wanted to post a note to say that my blog is still here, just not at the painslutlois.com address anymore.

Unfortunately while I was away with work the domain expired and someone managed to purchase (aka steal!) it before I could get it renewed and I’ve been unable to acquire it back, consequently the blog is back on it’s original address of https://secretsubslut.wordpress.com/.

Whi…

The big day approaches

It has been some time indeed since I have written here, there are lots of reasons for that none of which are all that interesting really, the overriding one being a lack of free time and if I’m completely honest my drive to continue with the blog has waned somewhat.

Things in my life have progressed at quite a blistering pace since I met Fiona, the events of which you are all familiar with as…

Hey everyone, Happy New Year, I hope you had a great time on New Years Eve and are looking forward to 2019, I certainly am! I’m getting married this year, how weird is that?!

Anyway, whilst I do intend to post here more often then I have been, starting with an update on my 2018 goals (spoiler alert, I didn’t complete them all!) this isn’t that post. This post is about helping someone I know…

I’ve decided to focus my limited social media presence on FetLife for now so if you want to continue to follow me in a “post pornographic tumblr world” then come find me here: https://fetlife.com/users/491495