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if for some mental or physical health reasons you have to skip some events or arrangements please try your best to remember that it is absolutely okay; please try your best to not blame yourself - you well-being will always be important, so please take care of yourself

Did you remember just now because of this post? Go do that now and earn this badge!

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Girls, for once this post is not for us but likes and reblogs will be appreciated for support

[Image Description: Annie standing in a small alley with her cane wearing a black T-shirt with the text “the future is accessible”. She is also wearing fingerless gloves and reflective sunglasses.]

If someone comes up to you in this scenario and says, “Well have you tried spicing your food? Using different ingredients? Eating foods you used to love?” It isn’t necessarily helpful because the reason you stopped doing all that in the first place is that everything…tasted…like mashed…potatoes.

I may be a big ball of anxiety and depression but I'ma make it look sexy 😂

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is fed up with surviving.

Why Does he DO That: Inside The Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft

And if you’re still standing around going “but how does something like GamerGate happen?” or “but why do men hit their wives?” or whatever – please read that book and learn something.

Reading any of these books does not mean you don’t love your parents or family.  It’s just self care for helping you cope and not repeat the behaviors. 

“Doing your best” does not mean working yourself to the point of a mental breakdown.