I'm gonna say it, I do think that even the laziest person imaginable should have a roof over their head, food in their stomach, and access to healthcare

everyone has parasites and nobody can afford a house

The self coddling goes crazy like sometimes it’s about you, other times it’s not. It’s very situational and that’s the problem that comes with the pop psychology interpretation of self love, is that people are so focused on operating from a main character lens that they can’t even differentiate between whether it IS about them or if it has to do with other circumstances the person is going through. Ultimately the inability to read the room because of this neurotic self absorption does nothing but hurt your capacity for human connection. Like who wants to befriend or be in a relationship with someone whose ability to decode situations stretches only as far as “what does this mean for me” .

Controversial take but I think we more often need to accept that sometimes it’s not personal, but that a person still doesn’t fuck with us. They don’t want a relationship with us, they don’t wanna be our friend. We’re not their type for whatever reason. They don’t hate us but they aren’t interested in building something with us in any capacity. It’s not that they have a lot going on, it’s not that they can’t receive love, it’s not what a lot of people concoct just not to deal with the sting of rejection. Sometimes we’re just not somebody’s type. And that’s okay and we don’t have to curl up in fetal position in a corner about it. We will not be the type of every person we encounter and that is natural and nothing to lose sleep over

you make one fucking post where the point is “women are encouraged to develop disordered eating from a very young age and that impacts how we view the ‘natural’ size and shape of women” and too many reblogs later i am being accused of saying short people wouldn’t exist if they ate better growing up. i’m sorry but if you genuinely think i was saying that you are just a buffoon. i cannot and will not sanction your buffoonery.

misunderstood and not looking for understanding