OSAMAULANA

Can you understand English ? "YES".

Do you master English Grammar ? "YES".

Can you speak English ? "NO, I'M SHY".

What's going on haha? It's a common problem that is faced by the English Learners. It is not because they can't speak English well, but it's because they're too shy to speak English. They're too frightened if they will make a grammar mistake then they'll be judged by other people.

That's the problem of my students too. I have some students ,I can say that they're super smart in English but then when I ask them to speak English , they're suddenly shy !

Well, I would like to give you some ways to speak English Confidently :

You should believe in yourself !

Now, you must think about it ! You've learnt all English grammar such as tense, parts of speech, phonology, syntax etc. It means that you've had the ability in English, then you just need to believe in yourself that you can speak English.

You should practice speaking English !

Alright guys haha !! I know you're too shy to speak English if you speak it in front of many people, right ?

Then if you are , you can try to speak English in front of a mirror ! You can practice your speaking skill. It's too easy, isn't it ?

Stop overthinking about your English Grammar.

Well, I'd ever met some English Learners who had the best English Grammar but they were too shy to speak English. And I'd ever met some English Learners who weren't good at grammar but they were brave to speak English.

As a result, I can conclude that it's alright to speak English even if your grammar isn't really good because "speaking english" is also the way you practice and study English. And you can also learn the grammar automatically.

You must try those 3 ways in order to make your English better !

I know you can do it, I know you can pass it.

Together we're getting better !

Hi kalian yang sekarang ini sedang membaca blog ku ,iya kalian haha! Semoga kalian semua dalam keadaan yang baik-baik saja ya. SELAMAT MENIKMATI LIBUR SEKOLAH haha!!

Nah, sudah sangat lama sekali ya aku tidak upload blog. Mohon dimaafkan ya! I am so busy lately till I can't spare my time to blog. Tapi gapapa ya, by the way selama liburan kalian ngapain aja nih?

Stay at home? Mabar bersama bestie? Scrolling tik-tok? Scroll instagram? Bosan sama kegiatan yang gitu-gitu aja?

Nah jikalau kalian sudah cukup merasa jenuh dan bosan dengan liburan sekolah kalian, Osa punya solusi supaya kalian gak merasa bosan lagi. Wah sorry sorry ya, bentar lagi mau masuk sekolah nih haha. Tapi gapapa ya aku buat blog mengenai liburan sekolahnya sekarang, alright yuk disimak solusi-solusi dari Osa ya:

Making a daily schedule.

The first solution is to make a daily schedule, why should you make a daily schedule? Karena jikalau kalian sudah membuat jadwal atau kegiatan seharian dan waktu kalian akan terasa lebih terarah. Seperti contohnya, pada pukul 7.00-8.00 kalian akan berencana untuk jogging, pukul 8.00-10.30 kalian membaca buku dll. See! Your daily activity will be more managed.

Doing something that makes you happy.

I personally think that the second way is one of the best ways karena ketika kalian menyukai suatu aktivitas, seperti contohnya aku nih ya. So I love teaching English and making an English video nah dengan aku mengajar bahasa inggris aku sudah bisa membuat diriku senang karena aku bisa belajar bahasa inggris lagi serta aku mendapatkan uang hasil mengajarku sendiri! Serta dengan aku membuat video berbahasa inggris, secara tidak langsung aku juga mengasah skill "Public Speaking". Selain membuat aku senang kegiatan-kegiatan tersebut juga sangat bermanfaat.

Joining an organization.

Nah jika kalian suka mengikuti organisasi kalian tidak akan pernah luput dari kegiatan. Sekarang ini adalah eranya globalisasi, jikalau kalian tidak ikut serta dalam kegiatan organisasi sekolah kalian bisa ikut serta dalam organisasi diluar sekolah. Aku mengikuti organisasi internasional secara online dan aku juga bisa melatih skill bahasa inggrisku, serta aku juga turut serta dalam organisasi yang ada di sekolahku. Walaupun aku sedang libur sekolah tetapi kegiatan organisasi sekolah dan organisasi internasional ku tetap jalan.

Nah semoga dengan 3 solusi yang aku berikan tersebut bisa kalian lakukan in coping kebosanan kalian saat libur sekolah. Break a leg guys!!

"Together we're getting better"

Are you an English Learner? Are you still Learning English ? Do you know that Learning English has many benefits for your life ?

If you are still Learning English then you must know the benefits you get in Learning English!

As we know that English is an international language and English is used in many countries either as a main language or second language. And English is also added as a lesson in school, I have an English Lesson too haha. As a result, if you Learn English and you can speak English fluently then here are the benefits you get :

YOU CAN HAVE A BETTER JOB .

It is undeniable that the company you are in will choose a worker who can speak english better, why so?

It is all because nowadays are globalization era and it is definitely that the company will face an international workteam / relationship.

YOU CAN HAVE AN INTERNATIONAL FRIENDSHIP.

If you are Learning English and you have a good english also, you can have a friend from other country. It means that you can practice your english with your friend! You're not only Learning English but you're also learning your friend's culture. It is extremely fun, isn't it? Haha

YOU CAN TEACH ENGLISH.

If you can understand and speak english fluently , people will think that you're smart . They will definitely ask your help to teach them english, on the other hand if you want to be an English Teacher then it is your turn!

If you're still Learning English too and you worry of Teaching English then you must remember my words "Teaching English doesn't mean we have a perfect english, Teaching English means we learn twicely". In other word, if we Teach English it means that we Learn English.

YOU CAN IMPROVE YOUR PUBLIC SPEAKING SKILL.

Public Speaking is also important nowadays, it will be better if you can speak more than 1 language especially English. When you can speak english fluently, you can be a speaker of a seminar by speaking english. You can gain your salary by being a speaker! It is very perfect.

YOU HAVE A WIDER KNOWLEDGE.

It is undeniable that if you're Learning English and you have a good english as a result you're getting wider knowledge. If you're Learning English, it means you're also learning the grammars of english such as linguistic, literature, phonology, morphology, syntax, pragmatic etc. See , you will automatically widen your knowledge!!

How ?? Come on!! You must learn english more!

Together we're getting better!

What comes in your mind if you hear the word "English" ?

I believe that all of you have ever heard about "English" , don't you? English is frankly an international language in all over the world and there are many countries who use English as its language. As a result ,no wonder why people nowadays must learn English so that it'll ease them to cope with the future life. English is dreadfully important language and it's a must to be learnt. And if you have a question "Is English easy" ?

Well , it's actually depending on your self. It depends on how much do you learn and input english. What does it mean? It means ,as long as you are still learning with it , it won't be hard . English isn't a hard thing to be learnt but instead of being confusing ,it's totally fun and benficial for you. Perhaps there will be some difficulties during learning , but it'll vanish as soon TRUST ME!!

I guess , I must give you some benefits of learning English .

The benefits of learning English :

You can take a scholarship to study abroad.

Have a lot of foreingers to practice your english with.

You'll have bigger possibilities of having a job you wanted.

You can go abroad without being blinded ,because you can speak english and you may communicate with the people around.

People will think that you're totally clever of being able to speak english!

Etc

As I told you that there are actually countless benefits more than I wrote , and you can feel all of those benefits after you learnt English!!!

Trust me! Then do it!

Together we're getting better

Hello everyone!! How's life? Eventually I'm back now to do blogging because I think it's been a long long times for me not to blog right ?

Anyway, do you have someone or people who you love? If you do , then. How much do you love them? Have you ever careesed their hand and you guys are holding each other ? Is that the sign that you love them ? I believe that even a little tender thing that you do for the people who you love , it's definitely the way you love them .

By being there to accompany them , it's the sign which shows that you admire them. And your partner can feel it too ,they can feel that you really admire and love them. And I believe that by admiring and loving each other ,the relationship that you've built with them will be longlasting even if it's long distance relationship. You live far away from your partner. But it's actually alright to live far away with your partner , but I understand perhaps sometimes in a long distance relationship ,the doers will be sometimes hard to trust each other due to the distances that seperate them. I understand it might happen . But you're actually can handle with it as long as you guys trust and being loyal each other , the relationship will be aced by the two of you . And also being loyal is the crucial thing.

So it means that every relationship will catch the goals up if there is a believing between the two of doers and also the loyality . Because so far the loyality is the key of the relationship.

Last but not least , happy valentine's day everyone!!! Keep spreading delightness,indulgence,happiness to others to create an ecstasy.

Together we're getting better.

Well do you know what is "confident" and have you ever felt confident? Or are you confident right now?

In my opinion "confident" means when a person believe in its self that he/she have an ability to deal something . And as a human we must be confident to do the challenges given in our own life because by being confident we won't be frightened of blewing it ,even sometimes we blew it but we still have a faith to keep our self up.

And then WHAT MAKES OUR SELF CONFIDENT?

1st of all is our self . Why? Yeah definitely because we are who living in right? Why must be our self ? Because everything is started from ours if we start thinking positively and feeling confidently in a next step it'll be what we imagined and instead of it.

2nd one is people around us. If the people around us support and cherish us ,we're going to feel that everyone loves us and everyone hopes us as being a great person. But instead of it,we're going to feel that we're not needed.

But however and beside all of it ,we are the one who runs our own self and as a clever human we must be confident and believe or trust our self that we're having an ability to do something.

Together we're getting better.

Sebagai manusia haruslah kita selalu bahagia dalam menjalani hidup ini ,karna dengan rasa bahagia kita mampu memiliki hidup yang tenang dan damai . Selalu awali hari dengan senyuman yang ikhlas dan hati yang bahagia .

Karna hati yang bahagia bisa membuat tubuh kita semakin sehat dan semangat . Because so far the way to increase our immunity is depends of our delightness. Jadi jikalau kita bahagia maka imunitas tubuh kita juga akan bertambah, karna beberapa penelitian telah membuktikan bahwa orang yang bahagia itu tubuhnya kebal akan berbagai macam penyakit .

Lalu ,apakah bahagia itu harus dengan materi atau uang yang banyak?

Tentu saja TIDAK atau BIG NO you can't assess a delightness from one side (treasure). Jadi kita tidak bisa menilai kebahagian hanya dari satu sisi . Bahagia itu cukup hanya dengan cara yang sederhana saja tapi terkadang kita sering lupa atau (without our concsiousness) tanpa kita sadaripun sebenarnya kita sudah cukup bahagi. Seperti contohnya kita memiliki tempat untuk berteduh dan berlindung ,kita masih bisa bersekolah , kita masih bisa makan , kita masih bisa melaksanakan ibadah agama kita, masih diberikan kesempatan sehat dan menghirup udara segar and especially we're still alive and survive. Itulah kebahagian yang sering kita lupakan.

Jadi mulai sekarang ini kita harus tingkatkan rasa GRATEFULLNESS kita kepada Tuhan .

Ingat "Delightness isn't measured from you treasure" . Jadi , kebahagian tidak diukur dari harta/uang. Awali pagi dengan rasa syukur dan kebahagian.

Together we're getting better.

Inspired by something that appear is actually alright because by being inspired we can be better even we can inspire other people to be better for their live .

What's INSPIRE actually ?

In my opinion INSPIRE is an action which you can show to others that something is good and useful to be done . Now you know about what does INSPIRE mean right .

And now ,how come the action inspire others ?

Because when someone did an action the others could see and assess that the action which someone did is suitable to be re-done by others .

Must people be inspirational to inspire?

Well I believe that without your consciousness you're actually have ever inspired others . Really????

Yeah I'm sure because all of you are mostly own cellphone and social media right? And all of you've ever published some "inspirational quotes" which's sometimes you created your own "quotes" .In addition when your followers in social media read your "quotes" they will feel "This is relating to my life and I must be stronger and it's suitable" .It means you inspire them by sending your inspirational quotes. See by doing something small you can inspire others people to be better . Could you imagine if people in all over the world see your own inspirational quotes?

Together we're getting better.

Do you know what is "aspiration" ? Well it is actually simple . "Aspiration means HOPE/DESIRE".

Well , have you ever hoped or aspired for somethings ? I strongly honestly definitely 100% believe that people will always have a hope or aspiration.

It is very common that people have a hope because people always hope for their better life. have you ever had a hope in 2020 but you still can't reach the aim of your hope ?

Well I honestly think that at least there is 1 of your hopes that isn't reached by you in 2020 right? Because I've not reached my other hopes that I hoped for . And then what would you like to do to reach your hope that you've not reached yet? Of couse you'll struggle for it .

Today is the last day of 2020 and tomorrow will be 2021 and I'm sure that your hopes which you haven't reached yet ,they'll be reached by you in 2021 right ?

And in 2021 people will also have a new hope for their life. It's totally alright to own a new hope because life will go on including me . So as long as we struggle for our hopes ,just believe that oneday your hopes will be tangible.

Together we're getting better.

Apakah kalian pernah mendengar berita mengenai kejadian tersebut ? Atau mungkin pernahkah kalian mengalami kejadian seperti itu? Well I believe that you all have ever heard that news karena beberapa pekan yang lalu telah diinformasikan bahwa ada seorang siswi muda yang bunuh diri karena frustasi akan "online school" nya yang disebabkan karena dampak pandemic ini . Well actually ,saya juga pernah merasakan hal yang sama seperti itu .Saya merasa overwhelm dan frustasi karena hal tersebut. Tetapi saya bisa survived dari hal-hal tersebut karna saya memiliki hal-hal yang seru untuk dikerjakan selama pandemic ini dan hal tersebutlah yang membuat saya tidak overwhelm atau bahkan sampai frustasi .

Apakah kalian tau penyebab siswa-siswi kebanyakan stress atau frustasi? Dan apakah kalian tahu bagaimana cara mengatasinya?

Well actually It's a piece a cake to find the way out.

Penyebab siswa-siswi overwhelm hingga frustasi :

Penyebab utamanya adalah rasa bosan yang berkelanjutan di diri mereka. Mereka mengira bahwa mereka tidak bisa melakukan kegiatan-kegiatan yang biasanya mereka lakukan sebelum pandemic ini berlangsung. Mereka merasa "Trapped" atau terkurung dalam suatu keadaan yang mana mereka harus "stay" pada suatu tempat yang cukup lama,dan itu membuat mereka jenuh dan frustasi.

Lalu bagaimana cara untuk "handling" hal tersebut ?

Based on my experiences.

Akan lebih baik jika kita melakukan suatu kegiatan yang mengasikan dan yang mana kegiatan tersebut belum pernah kita lakukan sebelumnya .Dan kegiatan itu harus dilakukan didaerah kita of course because during this Pandemic kita tidak diperbolehkan untuk keluar except for a neccessary things. Seperti contohnya saya , saya sebelum ada pandemic saya gak tau apa itu hal mengenai

"Pedagogy" , "Cooking time" , "Blogging" , "Community" , "International interpretation " ,"Youtuber" , "Vlogger" , "International duty " . Tapi semenjak ada pandemic ini saya jadi bisa mengetahui apa maksud dari semua itu karna apa? Karna saya mengikuti kegiatan tersebut selama pandemic bahkan sampai sekarang ini saya masih aktif dalam kegiatan "Pedagogy" atau menjadi guru bahasa inggris online ,"Community" , "Blogging", "Youtuber" , "Vlogger" dan masih banyak lagi.

Nah itu adalah contoh dari kegiatan-kegiatan baru saya disaat Pandemic ini. Mulai dari "Youtuber" , "Pedagogy" , "Blogger" dan sebenarnya masih banyak lagi

So kalian bisa melakukan apa yang saya lakukan , "Find out an acitivity that can activating your self during Pandemic not to frustrate you" .

Jadi bagaimana ,mudahkan untuk menjalankan aktivitas-aktivitas dimasa sekarang ini.

Together we're getting better.

What a splendid farming there .What do you think of that farming? I believe that you all are going to say that the farming is totally enchanting and natural isn't it ?

By the way ,have you done something good for keeping your earth save? I believe that you all are wondering "What does that mean" ,well what I actually mean is "have you saved your earth by doing something" .

something like what ?

Well actually you can do something small for a big impacts ,how come??

Let's say for example ,you throw a trash in a garbage to keep your environment spotless right? Nah ,that's what I meant. If you throw the trash in a garbage it means you keep your environment stay spotless or clean but instead if you throw the trash in another place not in garbage ,you throw it in a ditching .It means you ruin your own environment ,you create your environment life becomes mess up .And especially if you keep throwing the trash in a ditching repeatedly it makes your environment more mess up but instead if you keep throwing the trash in a garbage repeatedly it means you make your environment life becomes better because you make it becomes spotless and clean . And also if you keep your environment clean you will not be caught any other illness.

And actually by doing those little things we are keeping save our earth ,we make our earth becomes clean and preventing from any other illness that comes from the trash that people litter them.

Do you know what is a good impact of keeping our environment spotless ?

Well of course by keeping our environment spotless we will be always as fit as fiddle or we always be healthy and we are avoided by any other hazardouz illness.

In addition ,if we plant some trees it means we accelerate the producing of the healthy air because furthermore the trees can catch a pollution that can make people's breath broken.

In addtion .Do you know what is the horrible impact of not keeping our environment spotless ?

I think you all can answer that question , definitely we can be caught any other hazardouz illness and it can cause a death .What a terrible is that. And especially our earth will be unhealthy and it can make other people becomes ill. To be honest I've ever seen people throw a trash not in a garbage but instead they throwed it in the amidst of forest ,it was making me piss off . Perhaps they haven't known about the horrible impact by doing that. We are as a human,we must keep our Forest,Beach,Bay,Mountains etc to make a better future.

I think that is enough ,I hope that it'll be useful for your life.

TOGETHER WE'RE GETTING BETTER.

" Can we make our aspiration become tangible? "

Apakah kalian pernah bermimpi untuk menjadi sesuatu atau pernahkah kalian berharap sesuatu pada diri kalian? lalu apakah harapan dan mimpi kalian itu bisa kalian wujudkan dan kalian dapatkan?

Sebenarnya banyak sekali orang-orang atau bahkan semua orang yang ada di dunia ini memiliki harapan dan mimpi tapi terkadang mereka hanya memendam mimpi dan harapan tersebut tanpa membuat itu menjadi "tangible" atau terwujud. Itu semua dikarenakan mereka tidak tau bagaimana cara membuat mimpi dan harapan mereka terwujud dan tidak yakin akan mimpi dan harapan yang mereka miliki. Lalu apakah sebenarnya kita bisa mewujudkan mimpi dan harapan kita tersebut tanpa harus memendamnya?

Well actually in my opinion we can make our dream becomes tangible as long as we live, jadi pasti kita bisa membuat mimpi dan harapan menjadi terwujud selama kita masih hidup. Maksudnya selama kita hidup kita pasti bisa melakukan apapun yang kita inginkan dan kita bisa membuat mimpi dan harapan kita menjadi terwujud atau nyata. Lalu bagaimana cara yang paling efektif untuk membuat mimpi dan harapan kita terkabul?

Well in my opinion (based on my experience)

Cara yang paling efektif untuk membuat mimpi dan harapan kita terkabul adalah :

Kita harus terus berjuang dalam mendapatkan dan meraih mimpi itu ,maksud dari berjuang adalah kita harus berusaha semaksimal mungkin dalam meraih tujuan kita dan jangan pernah menyerah walaupun terkadang kita sering menyerah tapi sebelum kita menyerah ,kita harus melihat kembali APA TUJUAN KITA BERADA DI TITIK SEJAUH INI?

" Adequate worship to God ", selalu berdoa dan beribadah kepada Tuhan karna hanya Tuhanlah yang bisa memberikan kita "precious blessing" .Dan selalu ingat bahwa kita adalah makhluk ciptaan Tuhan dan kita juga akan kembali ke Tuhan .Jadi apapun yang kita harapkan dan mimpikan selalu berdoalah kepada Tuhan dan tanyakan pada Tuhan "Is this thing suitable on me" .Maka Tuhan akan memberikan kita "Directions".

Belajar untuk tidak menjadi sombong ,untuk meraih sebuah harapan dan mimpi kita perlu memiliki ilmu sebagai pendamping kita ,ilmu yang seperti apa? Ilmu yang mengajarkan kita bahwa "semakin padi tumbuh semakin mereka merunduk" ,karna kebanyakan dari orang yang telah sukses dalam meraih harapan dan mimpinya tetapi mereka sombong/ "showing off ".Maka dari itu kita perlu belajar untuk tidak menjadi pribadi yang sombong.

Yakin pada diri sendiri ,kita harus selalu yakin dan "confident" terhadap apasaja yang kita harapkan dan mimpikan bahwa suatu saat hal yang kita impikan dan harapkan akan terjadi ,karna jika kita memiliki "mindset" bahwa mimpimu akan terwujud maka kamu akan mereka percaya dan yakin dan sebaliknya.

Jangan dengarkan kata orang yang "underesrimate" atau merendahkan kamu , jadi jika ada orang yang berkata bahwa kamu hanyalah orang yang selalu bermimpi dan bermimpi maka biarkanlah saja karna manusia hidup untuk bermimpi dan mengabulkan mimpinya tersebut.

Bagaimana ,apakah 5 cara tersebut sudah kamu lakukan dalam meraih harapan dan impian kamu?

Sebenarnya masih banyak sekali cara-cara yang bisa kita lakukan dalam meraih dan menggapai harapan dan impian kita . Semoga kalian bisa selalu "keep in faith" dengan harapan dan impian kalian ya .

TOGETHER WE'RE GETTING BETTER

Why people mostly sometimes insecure of their own self after they see that they have no sufficient ability in their self but other people do ?

And why people mostly never see their inside soul that they are actually have the ability of something but they don't realize that everyone has a different ability ?

Why people tends to become unconfident about something that they have ?

Well actually people mostly will insecure of their own self after see other people's ability because they don't see theirs ability while they see people's ability or perhaps they don't realize that God has invented a person with a different ability so no wonder why sometimes something that we can't get or do it is able to be gotten or done by others because people have a different ability.

And people will mostly see people's ability and then they compare their own self with others "Why can they don that instead I can't" , in my opinion we musn't compare our own self to others because if we always compare our self to others we are going under bad time because remember people has a different ability.

And people will tend to become unconfident to their own becuase they've assumed that they're unable of something and then they see people's ability while thinking "How good are they but I can't do the same like they did".

We are as a human ,we have our own different skills and ability .Don't ever compare our self to others because the more we compare the less we feel confident.

Written by : Osama Maulana

Do you know who they are ? By the way someone who was in the middle is me haha ,and beside me were my foreigner friends. Do you know what were we doing there? Well actually we were on great calling . It sounds great right when we can talk ,call ,or even meet with other people from all over the world . You can talk to foreigner by online and you can use any other applications to chat or talk with foreigner easily. And I believe that you will be delighted when you are able to talk to them especially you can improve your English like what I do .They and I sometimes do calling so that we can know better and especially since we aren't born in an English country we can improve our English as a second language . They treat me really well and I hope that someday we can meet in reality ,what a fantastic stuff!!

But ,do you know that to find a foreinger friend you must be careful ?

Based on my experience TOTALLY yes!! You really must be hesitate and careful to find them ,because if you don't find carefully and then you get the bad one ,it'll affect to your life .But don't worry about me all of my foreigners are very kindhearted and well . I'd like to confide you my past story ,long long time ago I've ever gotten a foreigner from other country and at the 1st time that guy already talked a bad stuff to me ,and I start thinking "was this guy good or no?" since at that time my English was poor I couldn't understand it and suddenly he sent me a photo that must've not be sent .Perhaps it thought that I was dumb ,and then I blocked it and left it. Because for what you befriend with someone who doesn't respect or treat you well . And let me tell you something ,nowadays maybe 2 years ago I opened our chat "Me and that person" but I didnt unblock it ,since my English is improved I could understand what he wrote in a long message evidently he mocked me at that time. And since those ,I decided to be careful while finding a foreinger . After all those bad and hard times on my past ,

Right now I realize that God has sent me a good and respectful foreginers for me , Thanks so much my good foreingers you always be remembered by me. God bless you all .

And for that guy (if you probably read this and realize that I talked about you) ,I hope you can be a good person next and I forgave all of the things that you've done for me.

Written by : Osama Maulana

Do you actually realize that you are in a good friendship or toxic friendship?

Well actually it is all base on you and it is only you who can decide either good friendship or toxic friendship . Do you know that both good friendship and toxic friendship have its own impact ? Do you know what is the impact of both ?

Okay let's see !

Actually ,I believe that most of the people will choose and prefer in a good friendship definitely but they also choose a friendship which can make them comfy and feel free . And actually it is up to them ,but they don't know actually this friendship is good or toxic friendship .

Can you distinguish between good friendship or toxic friendship ?

Well in my opinion , a good friendship is an environment of friendship which can make people to be better and feel comfy and always give them support. But a toxic friendship is an environment of friendship which make people to be stray or bad person by telling them to do something bad such as stealing a money etc .

And I hope that we all always in a good friendship.

The impacts of toxic friendship :

1. Make you feel that you're not needed.

2 .Bring you to the wrong situation or ambience.

3. It will be addicting for you to be sad and it can effect your mental.

Well actually the impacts are more than 3 and you can think it by your own ,and that is actually base on my experince because I'd ever been there.

Hope that we are all always in a good friendship, a friendship that can bring you to the better future.

Written by :Osama

TOGETHER WE'RE GETTING BETTER.

Do you know what day is it ?

Today is an international tolerance day! Yuhu Happy international tolerance day for everyone!!

By the way ,do you know what does "tolerance" mean actually ?

If I open in an oxford dictionary ,It is explained as "willingness or ability to tolerate somebody/something" so it means that we can tolerate or accept or even respect somebody else or something else. Well ,do you actually realize that each of the people are just ignoring "tolerance". I mean they don't want to tolerate somebody else ,they tend to be selfish or ego into their own self.

What is the main cause that make people don't tolerate or don't do tolerance to other people ?

Well it is actually because they think that their own self are the best or better than other people and they also think that no one is better than them. And it is because of their ego ,they don't want to see people's ability because all they think is just "I AM THE BEST ONE NO ONE IS BEST EXCEPT ME ". Beside all those things in my opinion there are such as tolerations ,the example of toleration are :

Religion toleration .

Skin toleration.

Tribe or race toleration.

And actually more than those tree tolerations .

Why must we tolerance to other people ?

Definitely so that we can respect and accept the diversity , diversity ? What kind of diversity?

Diversity of skin color, Diversity of religion etc.

And I believe there are many people in all over the world have their own diversity .And as a good human ,we must tolerance ,respect ,and accept it .We musn't fight them or even kill them or even do holocaust .Remember "DIVERSITY IS BEAUTIFUL". And we can deal with "DIVERSITY" by tolerating other people that have a diversity because by tolerating other people we can make our life to be prosper. Don't ever judge or underestimate people because of their skin color,religion etc ,becasue Diversity is beautiful.

Can you imagine if in this world everything just have the same color ??? It would be just plain and there's no uniqueness right.

So we must tolerate other people .Remember

DIVERSITY IS BEAUTIFUL . Happy international tolerance day!!

TOGETHER WE'RE GETTING BETTER

By.Osama

Apakah kalian mengerti bahwa orang yang tulus atau (Loyal) itu susah untuk ditemukan sekarang ini karna kebanyakan orang pada abad ini itu mencintai bukan karna mereka benar-benar cinta dan tulus tetapi mereka mencintai karna maksud yang lain ,saya yakin kalian tau maksud saya. Mereka mencintai nya karna harta,uang, good-looking. Mereka sudah salah sebenarnya .Jangan pandang orang lain dari segi materi atau apperance nya.

Banyak orang yang sudah sering sekali menyia-nyiakan orang yang benar-benar tulus mencintai dan menghargainya .Tapi orang tersebut tidak menyadari itu ,yang mereka sadari adalah "Orang Tersebut bukan level saya,they're not deserve to be with me " . Mereka selalu berpikiran seperti itu ,seperti halnya dunia mereka itu hanya dikelilingi oleh uang,harta,good-looking dan mereka tidak pernah merasakan RASA KETULUSAN yang mereka rasakan hanyalah RASA MATERI dan RASA APPERANCE .Tanpa Kalian sadari bahwa Harta,Uang itu dapat dicari dengan cara kita bekerja dan kita mendapatkan income atau salary ,good-looking itu akan cepat luntur / disappear saat mereka beranjak tua tapi Ketulusan tidak akan pernah luntur atau disapper kapanpun karna orang tersebut telah berkomitmen pada dirinya untuk menjadi tulus dengan apaadanya dirimu.

Bagaimana perasaan hati orang tulus yang tersakiti?

Apa yang ada dibenak mu saat mendengar pertanyaan tersebut ? Apakah mereka sedih ? Apakah mereka frustasi ?

Ya pasti sedih dan frustasi ,kalian bisa membayangkan saja bagaimana perasaan anda ketika orang yang kalian perjuangkan dan kalian benar-benar tulus padanya tetapi pada akhirnya mereka meninggalkan anda ?? bisa kalian bayangkan sendiri. Tetapi setelah semua air mata dan semua rasa frustasi yang mereka keluarkan dari diri mereka .Apakah kalian tau apa yang akan mereka lakukan? well base on my experience , mereka tidak akan berharap orang tersebut untuk kembali karna untuk apa kita treating atau memperlakukan mereka dengan tulus dan setia tetapi "They do the opposite" dari apa yang kita lakukan padanya ,mereka tidak ingin meneteskan air mata lagi untuk orang tersebut dan Mereka prefer to find someone else better than them ,mereka akan mencari orang yang benar-benar tulus untuknya dan sebaliknya. Tetapi ada juga beberapa orang yang masih tetap memperjuangkan orang tersebut untuk bersamanya ,padahal mereka sudah tau nanti mereka akan diperlakukan yang sama.Tolonglah jangan pernah sakiti hati orang yang benar-benar tulus kepadamu ,sepastinya mereka adalah orang yang terbaik yang tuhan berikan untuk mu.

Ingat!!

Orang yang tulus untuk mu tersebut adalah manusia sama sepertimu ,dan ingatlah manusia itu bisa mati ,dan jika suatu saat orang tersebut itu mati lebih dulu dari dirimu dan kamu sedang berada di posisi sangat terpuruk dan kamu ingin kembali dengannya tetapi itu mustahil.Yakinlah bahwa kamu akan mengingatnya entah itu kapan,Kamu akan mengingat betapa besarnya pengorbanan dan ketulusan yang dia lakukan dulu untuk dirimu .Tapi saya yakin ,orang yang tulus itu akan lebih bahagia sekarang ini karna mereka tidak akan menyia-nyiakan airmatanya untuk orang sepertimu.

Written by :Osama Maulana