Opening Up To Love ❤️

I relate to this so much. I can’t just jump right into things with people if I do not have an emotional bond with them first.

I’ve gotten through the “what would other people think” phase because I realized that no one else matters except my wife, our partner(s), and myself. Why would I have to share that with anyone else?! Especially at this point in time.

Started reading The Ethical Slut tonight. There is a list of myths and this really caught my eye.

I’ll be updating as I read and learn.

My beautiful wife and I plan on going to B&N to look for books. We are in a Kik group chat for ENM and they’re great people. They know we are new to all of this and they have been giving us so much information. They even shared a list of books that we are wanting to check out. We shall see what B&N has.

Im becoming more and more comfortable with the idea of being in an ENM relationship. The only thing I’m not sure about is who we are going to be open with. It’s like coming out all over again and the fear of rejection is high right now.

One thing I’m worried about is finding someone that my wife likes, and that likes her, but does not like me. Like we are not all compatible. I don’t want to ruin this, but I also don’t want to be left out. Is it just my insecurities ?

Been reading a lot about Polyamory vs Open Relationship and everything in between. It’s a lot of information, but the common ground is that it’s different for each relationship.

I am curious about how it will feel to kiss another woman while kissing my wife. We’ve discussed it and I am very intrigued. Having someone that will spend time with her while doing things she likes, and doing things together that I like. I can’t wait to cuddle up and watch a movie with my wife and our girlfriend.