Hi! I'm Onyx. I'm Queer, Genderfluid (Maybe NB), Neurodivergent and new to Tumblr.
My Asks & Submissions are OPEN permanently for anyone and everyone, though please include your age and preferred pronouns if you're sending explicit content. DMs only for people I follow. Please read the below post in full before reaching out.
I'm taken and monogamous. Not looking nor interested.
Please don't ask me for money, I don't have any, and I'm not buying any content either. If you insult me, threaten me, or ignore any part of what I just said, as well as everything else in the post below, I will report and block you.
I experienced a lot of trauma and abuse in my youth, so besides general posting, I will be using this blog to explore my sexuality and continue my healing journey. But I won't be here everyday, just posting sporadically.
There will be explicit thoughts and themes, so if you're under 18, please leave now. If you don't, or if you're a blank / ageless blog and/or chose to engage in my posts with rude comments, contact me with threats, harass me in any way - you will be immediately blocked. 🚫
If you're rude or disrespectful, or attempt to engage me in any of the hard limits under the cut - you will be blocked. If you are disrespectful to anyone else in my posts, or come with misogyny, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, terfism, racism or any other form of discrimination and hate - you will be blocked. 🛑
If you're a decent human being, with an open mind and heart, then welcome and thanks for dropping by! 🖤
Topics / Issues I have experience with and am alright to talk about:
Recovering from sexual abuse and trauma
Recovering from physical and psychological abuse and trauma
Recovering from EDs, self harm and suicidal ideation
Recovering from substance abuse
Experimenting with and being new to different sex scenes and LGBT communities
Safe sex and reproductive education
Toys and techniques for trans and gender queer partners
Toys and techniques for partners with neurodevelopmental disorders, other physical disabilities or reduced physical mobility
Non sexual intimacy and showing care for partners with differing needs
Kinks / Play I have experience with and am alright to talk about as well as engage in:
Sex with women, transgender, intersex, gender queer and non binary partners. (oral, rimming, hand jobs, mutual or guided masturbation, fingering, fisting, intercrural, penetration, anal, felching, muffing, etc)
Topping / Bottoming / Switching (can be a stone top and a pillow princess, among others)
Rope play, Bondage & Shibari
Suspension
Sensory play, Overstimulation, Deprivation, Gags
Edging, Orgasm Control and Orgasm Denial
Kabeshiri, Forced Orgasms and CNC
Squirting, Watersports and Omorashi
Temperature, Wax play and Figging
Impact and Pain play (clamping, weighting, spanking, slapping, caning, flogging, whipping, paddling)
Electro play (internal and external)
Breath play and erotic asphyxiation
Vore and Cannibalism roleplay
Medical, Historic and Micro/Macro roleplay
Fantasy and Sci-Fi roleplay
Other types of "everyday" roleplay (open to discussion)
Toys and Object insertion
Urethral Sounding and Prostate Play
Feet, Nipple and Tickle Torture
Clit, Cock and Ball Torture
Domming and Subbing (for specific scenes)
Erogenous stimulation
Food play
Body Worship and Massages
Omegaverse and Primal Play
Monster fucking
Puppy / Bunny / Kitten / Pet play
Breeding, Cum inflation and Pregnancy play
Outdoor sex, Exhibitionism and Voyeuristic play
Somnophilia and Free Use
Dacryphilia
Possessive Dirty Talk, Degradation and Humiliation
Thribbing, Frottage and Dry Humping
Strength play and Manhandling
Cross dressing and Drag
Double penetration and Fisting
Throat, Thigh, Chest and Face fucking
Group sex and Orgies
Mirrors and Videotaping
Virginity play
Lingerie and Costumes
Hard Limits / Absolute NOs:
Anything pro-ana / pro - ED
Anything pro self-harm
Emetophilia and anything vomit or bile related
Ageplay / infantilism/ little play
Diaper play
Incest
Raceplay
Cheating and infidelity
Drug use and/or Alcoholism related fantasies
Real non-consensual anything (do NOT come to me with any abuse and/or rape fantasies!)
Ganbangs
Scat
Blood play
Knife / blade / needle play
Sadism
Bestiality / Zoophilia / Anything with animals
Grave bodily harm / Impact play that causes bleeding and serious injury / Bone breaking
Unsolicited explicit images or videos
And don't ask me for any either, I only share those in a commited relationship with a trusted loving long term partner. Not with strangers on the internet.
Being approached with baby talk or very gender specific endearments (this triggers my dysphoria and will get you nowhere)
Being addressed with a title I have not agreed to - don't just call me Mommy / Daddy / Master etc without asking first.
24/7 DS control exchanges
Sissy / Degrading feminisation kinks
Any kind of homo / gender phobic degradation
Any kind of fat phobic or ableist kinks and humiliation
Disability fetishism
Necrophilia
Enemas
Beating, fighting or wrestling
Burning, fire or branding
Forced feeding
Mummification
Mutilation and nullo
No clowns, no sex dolls and no pony stuff!!!
Robots, machines and ai
Sweat, feet and dirty underwear or things that involve poor personal hygiene
Illnesses and diseases roleplay or shaming
Religious self flagellation and punishment
Hunting and gun play
My Tags - You can use these to search my blog, as well as filter and/or block the type of posts you don't wish to see:
#Onyx Fox - For my own posts, smutty or yearning.
#Onyx Talks - For posts where I share personal stories, commentary, experiences or advice about kink, sex education and play etiquette.
#Onyx Answers - For all answered and published asks.
#Onyx Audio - For all my audio posts.
#Onyx Queue - For all my queued posts.
Please note, all the NSFT / NSFW posts on my blog will either be tagged mostly as "onyx fox" or "onyx queue" or both together, so if you don't want to see that, please feel free to block those tags, or any of the above specifically. The queue contains strictly 18+ content and will be running at night from 10pm to 6am. During the day time this blog is mostly SFW / SFT.
Audios: This is what I sound like, be nice! And remember, I do this for myself, so unless we're dating, I'm not taking requests.
Pics and Videos: Don't have any and will NOT be posting any either. My body is my own, and will only be shared in that way with a loving trusting partner in a commited long term relationship. You're not entitled to any part of it, or me. Now or ever.
On Gender and Attraction: Have posted about it here so please make note of this before you message me.
Otherwise I am pretty open, but if anything in Asks / DMs / Notes makes me uncomfortable, I will let you know and block you too if necessary. Just don't be a disrespectful asshole 🌹
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At Target this lady told her son he couldn’t have a Wonder Woman doll because “that’s for girls” and then bought her daughter the same one. It got me thinking about how often I see people bar young boys from appreciating girls/women as protagonists and heroes, and my own experience with it as a kid.
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Just called my senator and the aide said "Yeah, you're not the first person we've heard from about this today." It is 9:45 in the morning and she already had that weary tone.
there's a lot of talk about reading comprehension and one thing i think is the biggest barrier to people on this site getting better at it is simply... rushing. rushing to share something you haven't understood, rushing to have an opinion without taking the time to think about it, rushing to declare that you don't understand something
take these tags, on somebody else's post (condolences pip)
the thing is. this is what i would call an inside thought. nobody would have known you didn't get it if you didn't tell them that. if you recognised that it was important but didn't have the headspace to process it, you can reblog without commentary for others, or to come back to later. or you can save it somewhere and wait until you DO have the capacity to read it over a few more times, ponder it, consider what it might mean, figure out how to understand it, and THEN reblog it
but no. rushing to reblog while it is still opaque. rushing to admit to ignorance rather than spend the time to achieve understanding. perhaps hoping that somebody will break it down for you more simply, though to my mind it was quite simply phrased in the first place. never stopping to take the time first
comprehension is not always instant! sometimes it takes a bit of time for something to percolate after you read it; sometimes you need to read it a few times; sometimes you realise you don't have the context for it and either go and get the context or accept that it's not for you right now
please just simply slow down. you don't always have to respond to everything within a second or two. it is okay if it is not an instantaneous understanding. we all need to get more comfortable with thinking more slowly and more deeply and more carefully, and not letting our instant split second responses drive us all the time, because they are a barrier to genuine reflection
He didn't steal 10 million dollars. They made that number up as a loss, they never fucking had it. Rockstar has spent more than a billion fucking dollars on GTA VI and will likely make billions more when it gets released.
Uber is a fucking shell game of a company designed to leech investor capital and output bootleg cabs.
Nvidia posted a profit in 2023 of $4.37 billion. This is like someone stealing less than a penny from me.
And they lock this kid in a prison hospital for LIFE?
What with GTA VI going up for pre-order i'd just like to remind everyone that rockstar conspired with the UK government to lock an 18-year-old away for life for hacking them.
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Hi, these bees are babies! They’re not clumsy at all, this is what is called orientation flights. After birth and before beginning their careers as foragers (as all Honey bees cycle through all the jobs in the Hive throughout their lifespan), Honey bees take short flights back and forth, to and from the Hive, to orient themselves with their wings and their home so they can learn its location and how to get back home after foraging! Everyone has to learn, these are just smol little baby turkeys. Bees use the angle of the sun for location so adults have a better and more direct sense of location than any human
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Come to think of it, it really is insane that my entire country is burning alive and literally no one in the rest of the world cares. Thousands of Indians are dying every day from the heat, it's 45+ degrees in multiple areas, the government couldn't give two fucks, we're getting severe warnings and red alerts, and not a soul outside of South Asia is speaking about it because why would you ever care about brown people
USA folks, that is a consistent temperature range hitting 113°. Death Valley temperatures. In Banda, it hovered between 116°-118° (47°-48° C) for a week straight.
This has been happening all month with little to no international media attention. Here are a few organizations you can check out for resources or to support: