OnTheRift4Now

Pleased to see you note. It made my day. I had to take a step back for 18 mths. Major health crisis. On the mend. Should be better than be next Aug. Back active in Fetlife. New look on the platform.

Super challenging to get back in. 95% of people are in Philadelphia, PA lifestyle community. I am reaching out to pple. Some respond. A few didn't.

Tentative plan to go to a regional event in 2-3 yrs. Would be a plus to meet a local girl at the event 4 social. 2 events: M/s gathering + MSC. Master and Slave conference. Both are Dom/s friendly.

Open to voice chat. Adds depth + an interactive medium to txt which isnt practical when we all have cell phones. Looking for more than a penpal.

If anyone wants details, write to ask 4 my Fetlife.

Little to no experience required. Bonus points for a bad girl craving use on a date midweek 4 hrs min. Its the best for a slut craving more than a mind fuck or a gooner girl eager to make the grade. Once in awhile a Milf craves this no strings option. Thats one of the all time favorites 2nd to good girls craving an experience w/o strings long term. It is a plus option for a pussy girl who craves a break or a pass around girl craving hands on until its hooked on learning the difference between being used + a 3 hole fucktoy on its way 2 fucking pathetic bimbo.

Calling disrespectful if you like but I like the idea of dominating in a graveyard hence this picture hits the spot for me

I’d want it later in the evening. I’d cut her clothes off her and then use a whip hard on her body. I’d gag her because her sounds don’t matter.

Years later I worked in a funeral home in Nevada. I did billing, errands + drove family's to cemeteries. I got to know several of the veterans on staff + on call priest with Irish accent. Two emergency calls. One to transport a pet to Indigenous cemetery + one for a girl who wasnt expected 2survive the w/e. Its one of the places I go on lunch breaks + I visit a number or them when I travel if time permits to see whose resting there. Be it masonic brothers or Indigenous people or civil war and colonial people.

Perhaps she’s broke the rules or disappointed her. Or and this is the hard one, perhaps he just needs to hurt her.

This is the hardest thing for me as a Dom to admit and I also feel this is what elevates me above other doms.

Yes I’m a sadist and need to hurt my sub but it doesn’t come easy to me. I have huge levels of self control.

Remember a dom should be a dangerous man but with control. Subs will recognise this even just subconsciously

Once in awhile I come across someone who gets it. This blogger belongs in class with Instructor144. I believe his account been disabled but he was one of the few people, I talked to privately a few times.

PSA: Please teach your partner how to choke properly if you’re into that kind of thing.

The point of choking is not to crush the oesophagus, but rather to put light pressure on the carotid arteries to stop oxygen circulation to the brain. So tops, please create a V shape with your hands, which allows the fleshy part of the palm to rest against the oesophagus without causing any obstruction to the windpipe, and press down on the arteries. It’s not about stopping your bottom from breathing completely, but making them lightheaded.

This is very, very important!

Also, please don’t attempt any choking whilst under the influence because your better judgement may be impaired and you can cause some serious damage.

There's corset training and other means to change her breathing. I'll do hand over her mouth b/c lets be direct here anything goes wrong its on my as her Dominant. I spoke with Jay Wiseman. He's an EMT + defense for BDSM that winds up in court.

I won't go into details but neck injuries do happen + can wind up creating health issues for a girl that if it doesn't kill her it severely ruin her life. I've met a girl with a damaged neck b/c some wannabe Dom didn't have a clue about rough play with hair pull gone wrong. Folks who care about Their girl are those of us who talk to medical/legal professionals.

Bondage veteran Fayth had definitely seen it all.

So a full body mummification with tight vinyl tape and nylons won’t be a problem will it? Her panties, plus another random juicy pair shoved into her big mouth should keep her quiet.

Addie glared down at her captor, and if looks could kill, then the bitch who took her would be dead instantly. Just a short few hours ago, the offer of a ride home from the kindly, chubby soccer mom had now turned into hell itself…..

Addie could only grunt unintelligible curses between the wooden bit strapped between her teeth. The gag wouldn’t completely silence her, but in this dark dungeon it didn’t matter. Humiliation and control was the point of this exercise it seemed. Still feeling the effects from being knocked out, she watched as the drool escaped her lips, dribbling onto her naked frame.

The thin, coarse ropes were scratchy and dug into her soft flesh. She winced as her cheery torturer cinched a length up between her freshly shaved pussy. A few spiteful tugs and Addie yelped in discomfort as the grinding of the rope was rubbing against her clit. The woman mauled her small tits and promised her little piece of meat that the auction would be starting soon.

Addie tried to protest even further and received a stinging slap across the face for her troubles. She saw stars as she hung limply in her bonds…..and once the lights of the dank chamber began to turn on, she saw other girls just like her. They were either still unconscious, drugged the same way she was….or now just starting to come around. They were all hanging lined up in bondage, with the same wooden bit gags strapped deeply in their mouths. There was nothing she could do to help them, they would find out the extent of their peril soon enough.

Little to no experience required. Bonus points for a bad girl craving use on a date midweek 4 hrs min. Its the best for a slut craving more than a mind fuck or a gooner girl eager to make the grade. Once in awhile a Milf craves this no strings option. Thats one of the all time favorites 2nd to good girls craving an experience w/o strings long term. It is a plus option for a pussy girl who craves a break or a pass around girl craving hands on until its hooked on learning the difference between being used + a 3 hole fucktoy on its way 2 fucking pathetic bimbo.

Wanting something different from your sex life isn’t a bad thing.

But as she now stands, locked in latex, her mouth filled with the pump gag……she’s got in far too deep.

Drool spilling out from her muzzle, blind and helpless. The only sound other than her exhausted groans and the squeak of the tight rubber, is the pulsing vibe working her over and over.

Fucktoy 915 was known to be a juicy wet bitch. A bonus was she can be pushed to squirt if used properly. Plus can be put in sub space easily. If you follow me, you know a girl in my care doesn't have to be collared to me to do a session. Collared + doing a session are two different concepts.

Plus I love an audience. Typically if I am at a party + just me a girl, it requires setting terms (negotiation) even when her Dominant had stated their rules. I do that because I don't know "them". It depends on what they're asking me to do or I said I want to do. In order to play (that's the phrase people use) with a girl, collared or single. I'll touch her intimately.

* Important Concept*

U don't do that without a girls consent regardless if their Dominant said it was okay. That's Me. I know how some Doms fuck with other D's. In the realm I come from it the girls says "No". It's "No play". Her association with Her Dom. Doesn't include me. Its important to understand how lifestyle works IRL.

With Fucktoy 915, she wasn't collared to me for a long time. Yet you never know it b/c she didnt pt it out. Eventually we make it official. End of day a collar only matter if the girl wants it to matter. You learn that the longer you engage in lifestyle IRL.

I have been asked to show a Fem Dom (who was being sub to me 4 hrs) in front of her male slave. These 2 were married + known in Philadelphia, PA.

This matters in terms of who she was. I had no issue with it. They knew my ex-girl + I had a good reputation as a teaching Dom (+ Mentor).

I did a scene with a pussy hook. Normally getting a girl off is hit or miss on 1st date or in a 1st session.

If only happens its typical because girl trusts me + can relax. Fem Doms aren't girl next door. You learn that in real time 2b respectful w/ girls esp in kink.

It went well. So we'll in fact she came once :)

That's the second time in my life, I had a Fem Dom sub to me for a set time for a specific reason. The other girl was Ms Jen. I needed a girl 4 a reference for *play* since my girl ended our relationship. In certain places, a Dom needs a *play reference*. The best are Fem Doms. 2nd only to a collared girl of a known D in the community you're looking to get into. This is where who you know matters!

I would enjoy a girl as a bondage fucktoy. Not all the time because she get bored. Girls no matter sub or Dom crave variety. They get bored fast. There are exceptions. Most are Dom by day.

That being said its rare girls are into B&D. If a girl is it either a passing phase or her life is over loaded. I find their release tend to be sexual (kink) + its no strings in most cases. That's why play dates are an option. Its no strings. 4 to 6 hrs on avg. She goes home or to a hotel room alone + thats like playing golf. It has a start, a middle + an end. No emo ties.

That's an interactive medium I enjoy. Do I want more? It depends. 75% of people are too invested in work + family 2b more than a part time kinkster.

I'd consider it. It rare. Classic *just looking* if you ask a girl. They have options. It's the reason I don't share a girl. Service isn't limited to kinky sex. It is here because you have pics. Text + your view of what you want + need 2 c + images comes nextm

I enjoy a girl in ways I can't explain in words. Its an experience I value b/c I c her in ways others don't.

Bound to inspire a girl who craves the experience. No strings. Is typically what fits a girls lifestyle. Its takes a mature man to put her in restraint, get her wet + put her in a place she can't do solo at home.

If she wants more, I'm here. If not, another girl will sign up. My life full of experiences. Age doesn't matter to me, nor does her job title or education. Its one of the few times I need to know her past.

Its nor vanilla. Its one of the few places a girl can let down her hair, be sexual + passionate 4 hrs.

As is 4 to 6 hours is best for most girls. These days I enjoy hosting + sharing expenses if we hit it off. It all depends on the girl. Bound to come if she earns it *playful tone*. Ponder tied + denied in semi public or private use + immediately after taken hard, kept wet and unable to think 4 hrs after.

Patiently waiting for a sub girl to step up.