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people always talk about the problem of coffee showing up in fantasy or scifi, like do you call it kaff with a wink or coffee with a stare into the camera or just make up a drink that is exactly like coffee but Totally Different I swear
But what about sandwiches
that's just one particular guy. that's a dude and his aristocratic title. Where's the high fantasy where all the characters eat slices of meat held between two slices of bread and call it a ravensrook, after balthazar the high wizard of ravensrook who wanted something he could eat with one hand while he pondered his orb
It is a curious fact, and one to which no-one knows quite how much importance to attach, that something like 85 percent of all known worlds in the Galaxy, be they primitive or highly advanced, have invented a drink called jynnan tonyx, or gee-N'N-T'N-ix, or jinond-o-nicks, or any one of a thousand variations on this phonetic theme.
The drinks themselves are not the same, and vary between the Sivolvian 'chinanto/mnigs' which is ordinary water served just above room temperature, and the Gagrakackan 'tzjin-anthony-ks' which kills cows at a hundred paces; and in fact the only one common factor between all of them, beyond the fact that their names sound the same, is that they were all invented and named before the worlds concerned made contact with any other worlds.
Douglas Adams, The Restaurant at the End of the Universe
I feel like I should share Father Nathan Monkâs words on Charlie Kirkâs death, because they really resonate with me.
Transcript below:
In the quest for nuance, empathy, and understanding, be careful not to inadvertently help sainthood Charlie Kirk
Very rarely do I narrow the scope so tightly on whom I am speaking to in my essays, but this is going to be one of those cases. I am writing this quite specifically to those who were not frequent targets of the words of Charlie Kirk. This is for those of you who might have never heard of him before today. Even if you align yourself with words like âprogressiveâ or âleft-leaning,â he might be a new figure in your world, though he wasnât for a lot of people. Perhaps you are new to this fight for social justice, and you canât wrap your head around why someone, anyone, would have a reaction any less than immediately saying, âThere is no place in a civil society for thisâŚâ
If you can not understand why someone would have a visceral reaction to the loss of someone so vile, then you are one of the lucky ones.
Perhaps you werenât someone who lost family members to his rhetoric. But so many others were. I have seen his vile words slither into the minds of people I was once close to. Even now, I am seeing folks that I had no idea held his views as valuable mourning him and quoting him. So many of us are having to realize that people we thought were safe are not. This is being piled on after nearly a decade of already losing so many people to his malignant despotism.
So, you might be sitting here watching folks shrug off the death of another and saying, âHow can you lack empathy? How can you lack understanding?â And I am asking you the very same question. How can you lack empathy and understanding for those whom he harmed?
I recently wrote about an experience I had when my cousin died, and my instant guttural reaction was to laugh, âJust a few years after leaving the priesthood, on a not-so-eventful day, I received a call from my mother letting me know that my cousin had died. Moreover, he had been murdered. A sense of relief flushed over my body, knowing that I would never have to see his face again. That he could no longer lurk in dark corners or harm anyone else. At the news, I laughed instead of cried. I had been released from my own personal Hell, whose flames nipped at my heels anytime the specter of possibly seeing him would rise. Immediately upon his death, he was sainted in the media. I have visited his grave once, only to ensure that it existed. I said no words, I did not piss upon it (as I often joked I would), and I prayed no prayers. His being dead was enough.â
The context of these words was that I didnât need there to be a Hell for him to suffer in for all eternity, but I was also not obligated to mourn an evil man meeting a demise of his own creation. My cousin lived a violent life, causing immense harm and destruction anywhere that he went. As a result, he met a violent end.Â
Some of the reactions I have seen toward those who can not muster alligator tears in this moment would be like Dorthy turning around to the Munchkins, saying, âHow dare you sing that song! She was a sister, a friend, and she went to school once.â
Charlie Kirk spent his life vilifying people. Most specifically, he went after the most vulnerable amongst us. He turned their parents and siblings against them. He made using the restroom a battleground. He called Black people less than human. In the wake of school shootings, he told parents that their children dying in the hallways was a necessary casualty of protecting the Second Amendment. With his words and actions, he dehumanized anyone who was different than him and actively fought for a world in which those folks were erased. After the attempted assassination of Paul Pelosi, he said that folks should bail him out. He made heroes out of the worst people imaginable and wished harm on those with whom he disagreed. He fomented young people to become violent so that he could hide behind his words and demand nuance, only to serve himself, and never gave grace to those he saw as other.
Now, the very people that he has spent his life demonizing are being blamed for his death without cause or merit.
But because a trans teenager who is living in their car, rejected by parents over the words of Charlie Kirk, made a Tweet that said, âDing dong, the witch is dead,â you are responding from the safety of your home, demanding a nuance that you arenât willing to give them.
If you have never been on the receiving end of being a target of Charlie Kirk, and you are only seeing passive things he said that are being quoted by his allies, then you arenât seeing the full picture. I am aware that the video of what happened to him is shocking, and the guttural reaction is to have empathy for his family. I would even go so far as to say that having such empathy is good in a sense, it means you arenât as vile as he, a man who couldnât find empathy at all for anyone, and actually demeaned empathy as weakness. Yet, if you can not also find empathy for those whom he and his followers have perpetually victimized, then you are missing a major component in all of this. Every despot alive had a mother, but you will not find me crying at the graves of evil men who had their regimes toppled by those they subjugated.
It is good that you are able to find empathy in this moment; it means you arenât like him. However, it does not mean that those who do not mourn him are. That is an important distinction.
Countless people have lost their lives to the violent rhetoric of Charlie Kirk; those lives also mattered. Is it possible that he would have changed if given a longer life? Perhaps, but playing an experimental game of âwhat ifâ is also dangerous in this moment.
In the aftermath of his death, the Christian Nationalists were quick, without any proof, to lay blame at the feet of the trans community. This is the very same thing that Charlie Kirk was so well known for. He did this countless times, and by doing so, he put their lives in danger. Those who followed him are quickly taking up the mantle. Even today, Donald Trump eulogized Charlie Kirk by stating that he died because folks called him a Nazi, while at the same time lumping everyone who disagreed with him as âthe radical left.â
The writing is on the wall that this moment will be used to justify rounding up more immigrants into concentration camps. They are setting the stage to make it illegal to call a fascist what they are. And, I promise you, that a time is coming soon when anyone who criticizes this administration will be considered a terrorist. It is already happening now in other parts of the world. The mere attempt to protest is landing folks in handcuffs. We are watching our fundamental rights being stripped away from us.
Yes, we are all unsafe in this moment, but we must take a beat to realize who will suffer first: immigrants, refugees, activists, Black folks, Muslims, the queen community, and our trans siblings. They are profoundly in more danger today than they were yesterday. They are being saddled with the blame for what happened long before someone has even been arrested or a motive announced.
I am fully aware that somewhere in the world, a woman is crying because her husband is dead. She had to sit down and explain to her young children that their father isnât coming home. That reality is not lost on me. Inasmuch as I am able, I can see that scene play out in my mind's eye, and I know that they are feeling pain today. It is this idea, this true thing, that you are demanding that people also take a moment to acknowledge. I hear that. The counter to this narrative is that so many folks who this very man has harmed are asking you, âHow can you hear her cries over the children dying in the streets from these endless wars, above the tears of the trans person sobbing in their car about to lose their life, and beyond the children hiding under their desks at school?â
I need you to understand that what I have written here today will likely be read at my own sentencing someday, when they justify ripping me away from my children simply because I wrote words, asked questions, and openly challenged the narrative of my government. That is the nuance you are asking to understand.
Most of us have lived with the privilege of this type of violence happening on shores far away from us, and so seeing it playing out in our own streets and universities is jarring. But, make no mistake, this is not new. These politicians who are demanding civility now watched videos far more horrific than you saw in the last 24 hours happening to elementary school children and looked the other way to justify their political ends. They have lacked empathy at every moment from Columbine to Sandy Hook, but are now feigning shock that no one can mourn the wicked.
So, before you write words condemning those who cannot find it within themselves to shed a tear for the man who tore them apart, I am begging you to have empathy and understanding for THEM in this moment. Take a beat to read his words, to fall down a night-long rabbit hole, actually investigating the final solution that they hoped would come from things like Project 2025. Listen to the hurt and pain and reality from those whom Charlie Kirk wished to see deported, arrested, and executed.
I am begging you to do this now, because very soon, those voices will be silenced, and the only thing that you will be able to hear is propaganda being pumped by the mechanisms created and endorsed by the man you are demanding that they mourn.
You should be shocked by political violence. I desperately hope and fight for a world where no one has to see what we all saw this week. That is a noble cause and a beautiful hope. But, at this time, we must also live in reality. The real world that we are all tethered to is that Charlie Kirk was a White Christian Nationalist who promoted hate and violence. He diminished countless people. Those politicians who have spent decades saying we can not politicize the death of school children who died are now using the death of this man, who championed these tragedies, as a political tool. They said there was nothing that could be done, that nothing could stop these horrors. That there would always be a good guy with a gun. That we should trust the process. Yet, make no mistake, they will suddenly find the motivation to stop violence. But they will use violence to do so. It is only a matter of time before they start rounding up people who were never involved in his death, purely based on their identity and ideology. I need you to hear their cries.
It is good that you are repulsed by political violence. I am too. I am just begging you to cast a wider net on that outrage.
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This is probably the most culturally important thing Iâll ever seen in my lifetime if Iâm being honest. I want this affixed over my mantle, embroidered into my denim, and emblazoned into my flesh so that generations to come may never forget this 1938 gem of an illustration. Put this on my gravestone and name my children after Alfo Di Gennaro. This is what itâs all about.
Artist was obviously a leg man, but I have never seen a female alien love interest designed as THIS alien before. Sheâs uniquely hairy, bugged-eyed, lines would indicate at least a partial exoskeleton, she has escaped being saddled with the mammories that a non-mammal being would not have, yet sheâs got it bad for Space Force Leatherhead and he is so into her. I can practically hear his prose of her cabochon eyes of nebula violet, glowing with the passion to know and be known, in the starlight. The green of her body turning more vivid as discovery (and carnal knowledge) consume her conscious mind.
To suggest a red-blooded, human man could love Greedoâs cousin? Desire her??
This is fantastic, in every sense. How many lives did this change forever?
The lack of computer skills is becoming a problem. Like there was a period of time where the older workers in office jobs had to be brought up to speed on computers, but now a lot of the newer workers have the issue too.
There's a lot of assumed technical literacy because we had a whole generation brought up on desktop computers, but now it's one that was brought up on phones, tablets, and chromebooks. Phones are easier to use, but that means the users have never had to work around the daily problems presented by most desktop environments.
But our systems are still set up assuming the kids are "digital natives" who just already know this stuff. So no one teaches them. So a new employee walks into the office... and they just don't.
30-something here. And this is frightening for a few reasons.
Much of the back-end architecture will soon be more difficult to maintain, as those with the expertise retire or when the one guy volunteering to update a niche corner of some minute software function that holds up 1/4 of the computer world dies.
While products are made to be âeasier to useâ now, which has made them more accessible, they arenât made to last, contributing to tech pollution / e-waste. Many consumers donât know how to upgrade or repair their own techâŚif they are upgradeable.
Which brings me to my next point.
I bought a new low end laptop recently. Not chrome book, but actual Windows PC laptop. I havenât had a personal computer for a while and with a lot of expectation to âreturn to the officeâ because COVIDâs over, right? *heavy eye roll*, I wanted something cheap and portable. I found a deal because a lot of low end laptops are being discounted because school children arenât remote now. I was actually looking for refurbished but found what I wanted cheaper new, sadly.
Finding one that I knew would run the software I needed or that wouldnât be bogged down just with Windows? A challenge. Youâve got to know what RAM, HDD vs eMMC vs SSD, cores, age of processors, and all those specs mean.
Finding one that wasnât Windows in âS mode,â a bullshit mode that locks you into the Windows app / store for ALL software (where they take a cut of each purchase)? Even more challenging.
When I booted it upâŚI imagine most people just click yes through things because why not, just want to get right to it, right?
The amount of privileges I had to decline because of targeted data collection, for ad preferences and other nefarious reasons; the number of easy-to-miss âno thanksâ options to decline enrollment in bloatware; the number of things that wanted me to launch the free trial, where they could automatically enroll me into a monthly PAID subscription and could report failure to add a credit card to pay for it to credit agencies (!); many of these presented as the ârecommendedâ or default option⌠ASTOUNDING.
And then I still had to go into system settings and turn off additional data tracking that they didnât even present during set-up, along with bloatware bullshit programs they wanted to always run at start-up. Because I knew where to go and find that stuff. Donât even get me starting on fucking Cortana.
Technology has gotten bad. Even 10 years ago, it was a couple simple agreements not to pirate, using software at your own risk, etc. and that was it.
Now? Waiving rights, arbitration, hidden terms that could leave you owing money if you donât uninstall it, data collection to link accounts and literally track every move / your exact location / your usage, attempts to personalize ads through your specific searches, inability to block cookies unless you download a Google app!?, four pop ups for every website, as the default?
It is scary how much tech that was designed to increase productivity and make life easier has become yet another way for corporations to track us, sell to us, and sell their data on us, even potentially incriminating us.
Oh, and heaven forbid you know what youâre doing and try to upgrade or repair your equipment yourself. Warranty voiding? Should be illegal, may be illegal in some areas, but they still tell you itâll void your warranty. Good luck finding the parts. Using non-OEM parts will void the warranty tooâŚby design.
I did not survive Windows Vista era to deal with this bullshit.
How to avoid ransomware, malware, hacks, and how to maintain good data privacy.
https://www.getsafeonline.org/
^ this has intermediate information (as well as beginner info) that I think people who grew up on the internet benefit most from (so it won't tell you what a phone is, or how to press the power button to turn on a computer). I recommend all sections the personal section under the top drop down (except the one aimed at children).
https://edu.gcfglobal.org/en/internetsafety/
Same deal as above, with quizzes and additional topics.
https://www.digitalliteracyassessment.org/
^ this one is mostly video and audio which some people might helpful
HTML
https://www.w3schools.com/html/default.asp
W3schools is a well known free resource for coding. I recommend HTML because it gives basic website building capabilities, so you can create a neocities website for example or even edit your Tumblr theme. You can also learn CSS (used with HTML to make prettier websites) and Python (used to make programs).
Touch typing
Touch typing is using the home row on keyboards. It allows people to type faster than pressing individual keys one at a time, like on a smart phone.
https://www.typingclub.com/
This site has lessons, and honestly looks much nicer than the program I learned to use touch typing with.
This site has lessons and practice tests and speed tests to measure progress. In middle school I was taking a practice test about three times a week and a speed test once a week for about fifteen minutes each time, if that helps.
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These three areas are the main things people were taught in computer literacy courses.
I also recommend checking your local library or other educational resources (like local colleges, your current college/highschool/middle school etc, the college you graduated from). These can have in person instructors which can be super helpful. Feel free to send me any questions and stuff, if I don't already know I'll try to find out and share where I found it!
Helpful things I've done with my windows computer to make it safer/more efficient:
Installing Malwarebytes/enabling windows defender
Creating a backup of my computer on a hard drive
Setting permissions for apps to start on startup
Getting a password manager
Installing a web browser that isn't chrome
Changing old passwords into better, more secure passwords- especially websites that have debit card info
My partner and I cancelled our Adobe accounts today because of this. Imagine if makers of physical art media had the right to pilfer your sketchbooks because you used their pencils and paints. Thatâs basically what Adobe is trying to foist on everyone.
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my father said to me once that one of the things he deeply regretted was not putting music on for his father while he was fading away. he told me that grandpa would just sit in his old armchair in the quiet, and not until after heâd passed did my dad think of how he could have played of his favorite classical music tapes for him so grandpa could listen to something while he still could. i was very young when this happened and not much older when my dad told me this, but it always stuck with me as something important.
my mother died at home in a hospice cot, slowly shutting down over the course of about a week. when she had stopped responding, i remembered what dad told me about wishing heâd played music for grandpa, and i put the radio on her favorite country music station and kept it on for her until she died.
daddy died in hospital. no cassette players, no decent radios. the day after he was brought in, i thought again of what he told me, and i bought a little portable bluetooth speaker. even though he never woke up, was never aware, i played music for him too.
thereâs no real significance to sharing this, not really. my motivation is selfish, again: i just want to hope that someone might think of this when their loved one is stuck in silence somehow, and maybe theyâll play music for them, and they wonât have to regret not doing so. i want to hope it helps someone. and i want to hope that someone will remember my dad with me, even in just a âstory i read on the internetâ way.
Hey, OP, you actually might have done a very significant thing for your parents indeed. Hearing is the last sense to go when someone is passing away. Itâs why palliative care doctors tell patientsâ relatives to continue speaking even if the patient stops responding. So even if your mother and father could not wake or respond to you or those around you, they perhaps could have heard the music they so loved, and perhaps were comforted. So what you did wasnât selfish at all, and Iâm sorry for jumping on to your post, but itâs likely that playing music for your parents as they passed away did much more for them than you might have known at the time.
When my dad was hospitalized, I would play the music we used to listen to together, and I still canât listen to some Leonard Cohen songs without getting really emotional about it. And I had a collection of poems that I would read to him. He never responded, but I still quite dearly hope it did something for him before he died. I think thereâs so much love wrapped into this post and it actually made me cry.
"why are people suddenly saying kink isn't always sexual" hello! you seem to have picked up on something that is actually de facto considered true in IRL kink scenes and often trotted out as one of the basic foundational truths of kink in educational contexts (i.e. beginners' workshops, it'll be in guides for first-timers at dungeons, etc). come take my hand and let me introduce you to the vast and wonderful world of IRL kink.
"kink," contrary to what a lot of internet-only kinksters seem to think, is not referencing your relationship to a concept--it's referencing the concept itself. for example, "bondage" in this context is not referring to "being turned on by tying someone up/being tied up," it's referring to the concept of being tied up/tying someone up itself. this is one of the most common kinks you'll see people playing with in entirely nonsexual contexts--most rope groups have at least a handful of players who are asexual or entirely sex-repulsed, for example. at a lot of rope play sessions, sexual activity will be banned entirely & you'll generally be expected to not show signs of sexual arousal while in that space. because it's not the space for that--sexual play parties are their own thing.
so what makes something a kink vs. a "normal" interest, if it's not a sexual aspect? mostly social stigma. the group of interests considered "kinks" have developed a shared umbrella due to a shared societal pathologization of those interests in similar ways, and one of the ways that pathology manifests is by considering those interests fundamentally sexual. there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a sexual dimension to your kink, to be clear--but society sees sex as inherently disgusting, and sexualization is frequently weaponized to pathologize all kinds of people.
portraying interest in domination/submission as inherently sexual, for example, means those explicitly navigating consensual d/s play are relegated to the realm of "the bedroom" and signifiers of their relationship (i.e. a collar) are considered "obscene" and not fit to exist in public--even when equivalent signifiers of vanilla lifestyles are allowed and not considered obscene, i.e. a wedding ring. if you portray an interest in roleplaying as a dog as inherently sexual, it means anyone roleplaying as a dog in public is subjecting the public to nasty, perverted sex, it can be classified as obscene, you can arrest people for barking and wearing leashes even if they are deriving zero sexual pleasure from it whatsoever and are not exposing themselves or harassing anyone.
why are most kinks expressed sexually to some degree, or have a sexual dimension to them? because sexually active adults tend to enjoy sex. i don't know how else to explain this, genuinely. if you are a person who experiences sexual arousal and sexual attraction, then you will often be aroused by your interests in a sexual context.
like, i am really into fandom. i love a lot of different things about fandom. one of the things i love about fandom is that it's horny; i'm a big enthusiast of smut, horny cosplay, et cetera and so on. but that doesn't mean that i don't like fandom in completely non-horny contexts, or that my interest in fandom is always sexual and can never be separated from sex. just because i cosplay erotically doesn't mean that i don't also cosplay in other contexts entirely. cosplay turns me on, and i also love cosplaying at conventions and for entirely non-horny reasons.
kink is the same. sometimes the exact same person is both turned on by petplay and interested in it nonsexually. this is actually like... really common, it's not even just "sometimes," i would say it applies to the vast majority of IRL kinksters active in my local scene, and i would hazard a guess that this isn't a major outlier, it's fairly common in scenes across the world. but if you can understand "i like cosplaying, and sometimes i'll cosplay at a convention, and sometimes i'll cosplay for sex, and sometimes i'll cosplay for fun alone in my room, and sometimes i'll cosplay to jack off, and sometimes i'll cosplay for money, and none of these are The Only Reason I Like Cosplay, and sometimes when i cosplay i will do it in a way that only includes some of these reasons and not the others at all," it shouldn't be too hard to apply the same reasoning to kink.
anyway, trying to relegate "kink" to only and solely refer to "this set of stigmatized interests and relationship dynamics, but only in reference to sex specifically" is closing the barn door after the horses are gone. sorry y'all but the kink community developed in response to medical pathologization and severe social stigma. there's no post-hoc way to turn it into an ontological classification of some form--kink is messy and abstract as a category because it isn't a category based in, like, scientific observation or ontological meanings of words. it's a category based in "we think these people are freaks and we need a diagnosis for their freakishness" lol. the forcible sexualization of every aspect of kink is part of the initial classification of this loose social realm as "fetish" and/or "paraphilia." sex is not evil or scary or bad but equally the structures doing the pathologization do consider sex to be evil and that's not something you can just ignore when discussing how sex is utilized rhetorically in these discussions.
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So Iâm on AO3 and I see a lot of people who put âI do not own [insert fandom here]â before their story.
Like, I came on this site to read FAN fiction. This is a FAN fiction site. Iâm fully aware that you donât own the fandom or the characters. Thatâs why itâs called FAN FICTION.
Back in the day, before fan fiction was mainstream and even encouraged by creators⌠This was your âplease donât sue me, Iâm poor and just here for a good timeâ plea.
I worked with one of the women that got contacted by Riceâs lawyers. Scared the hell out of her and she never touched fandom again.
The first time I saw a commission post on tumblr for fanart, I was shocked.
One of the reasons I fell out of love with her writing was her treatment of the fans⌠(that and the opening chapter of Lasher gave me such heebie-jeebies with the whole underage sex thing I felt unclean just reading it.)
I have zero problem with fanart/fic so long as the creators arenât making money off of it. It is someone elseâs intellectual property and people who create fan related works need to respect that (and a solid 98% of them do.)
The remaining 2% are either easily swayed by being gently prompted to not cash in on someone elseâs IP. Or they DGAF⌠and they are the ones who will eventually land themselves in hot water. Either way: this isnât much of an excuse to persecute your entire fanbase.
But Anne Rice went off the deep end with this stuff by actively attacking people who were expressing their love for her work and were not profiteering from it.
The Vampire Chronicles was a dangerous fandom to be in back in the day. Most of the works I read/saw were hidden away in the dark recesses of the internet and covered by disclaimers (a lot of them reading like thoroughly researched legal documents.)
And woe betide anyone who was into shipping anyone with ANYONE in that fandom. You were most at risk, it seemed, if your vision of the characters deviated from the creators âoriginal intentions.â (Hypocritical of a woman who made most of her living writing erotica.)
Imagine getting sued over a headcanonâŚ
Put simply: we all lived in fear of her team of highly paid lawyers descending from the heavens and taking us to court over a slashfic less than 500 words long.
Yep I used to have disclaimers on all my Buffy fic back in the day. The Buffy creators were mostly pretty chill about fandom but itâs not like it is now. You did NOT talk about fandom with anyone except other fandom people and bringing it up at cons was a massive no no because of stuff like this.
I think Supernatural (and Misha Collins specifically) was when that wall between fandom and creators started to break down. Itâs a relatively new thing.
I remember going to a Merlin panel down in London and a girl sitting next to me asked the cast about slash and I thought she was going to get kicked out!
Oh man, let me tell you about the X-Files fandom. Lawyers for FOX sued, threatened, and generally terrified the owners of fan websites on a regular basis. God help you if you wrote or created original art set in their (expansive) universe or worse - dared to write about their characters. Even people who werenât creating fanworks, just hosting Geocities pages about how much people liked the show would be sent C&D orders or actually fined. When I was first discovering the concept, the first rule of fandom was you do not talk about fandom because the consequences could be devastating.
It was such a strange and uncomfortable experience for me when fans in LOTR and Potter fandoms suddenly started shoving their work in peopleâs faces speaking publicly about fandom and wanting to engage in dialogue with the creators and actors of the Thing they were into. Fan stuff was supposed to stay online, in archives and list-serves and zines we passed around because it just wasnât cool to talk about it and it could get you in a boatload of trouble. The freedom we have to create and gather together in a shared space, or actually be acknowledged in any way by people outside the fandom was inconceivable to my fannish, teenaged self. I want fans these days to understand how amazing modern fandom really is, cherish the community, and appreciate what it took to get us here.Â
I was one of the ones who got a love letter from Anne Riceâs lawyers. Bear in mind that up until that point her publisher had encouraged fanfic and worked with the archive keeper (one of my roommates at the time) to drum up publicity for upcoming books and so on.
I could tell such tales of how much Anne screwed over her fans back then. The tl;dr version is that she and her peeps would use fan projects as free market research and then bring in the lawyers once it was felt Anne could make money off of it herself. (Talismanic Tours being one of the most offensive examples of this.)
But where fanfic is concerned not only did we get nastygrams but one of my friends had Anneâs lawyer trying to fuck up her own privately owned business which had NOTHING TO DO WITH ANYTHING ANNE RELATED. Said friend was a small business owner with health issues who wasnât exactly rolling in money, so guess how well that went?
On top of that when yours truly tried to speak out about it I discovered that someone in Anneâs camp had been cyber stalking me to the point where they took all the tiny crumbs of personal information I had posted over the course of five years or so and used it to doxx me (before that was even a term and in early enough days of the WWW that this wasnât an easy task) and post VERY personal information about me on the main fandom message board of the time. Luckily for me the mod was my friend and she took that down post haste, but it was still oodles of fun feeling that violated and why to this day I am very strict about keeping my fandom and personal lives separate online.
Hence why those of us in the fandom at the time who still gave enough of a shit to want to keep writing fic DID keep writing fic, but shoved it so far underground and slapped it with so many disclaimers they couldâve outweighed the word count of War & Peace. It wasnât just for the purpose of protecting fic but for trying to protect our personal lives as well.
(Also would love to know who @tiger-in-the-flightdeck knew. Life paths crossing after so many yearsâŚ.)
Lucasfilm also sent cease-and-desist letters to Star Wars fanzines publishing slash.
My favourite bit I read from one included the idea that you werenât allowed to have any explicit content, of which anything queer, no matter how tame, was included, to âpreserve that innocence even Imperial crew members must be imagined to haveâ.
Yeah. The same Imperial crew members who helped build the Death Star to commit planetary genocide.
(Itâs one reason Sinjir Velus, while I still have some issues with him, feels like such a delicious âf*** youâ.)
Later on, they were apparently persuaded to âallowâ fans to write slash, provided in âremained within the nebulous bounds of good tasteâ.
(On a related note, if I wasnât quite so attached to my URL, I would 100% change it to âNebulous Boundsâ, because thatâs just downright catchy)
Anne McCaffrey had this huge long set of rules about how exactly you were allowed to play in her sandbox. Dragonriders of Pern was my first online fandom, and I was big into the Pern RP scene - and just about every fan-Weyr had a copy of these lists of rules McCaffrey wanted enforced. One of which was âno pornâ and another was basically âit canât be gayâ (and for a while âno fanfiction posted onlineâ? which??? anyway.)
Letâs not forget: the reason AO3 is called âArchive of our ownâ is because it was created in response to some bullshit that assholes were trying to play with fan creators. Basically (if I remember the fiasco correctly) trying to mine fandom creators for content which they could then use to generate ad profit on their shitty websites. When the series creators objected, the fans tried to pull their content, only to find that the website hoster resisted, claiming their content was all his now.
To this day, *talking* about writing or reading fanfiction - just acknowledging that it exists - to anyone other than people I know are in fandom as well, feels like a dangerous act. The strict separation I maintained between my real life identity, my online identity, and my fandom identity (yes, they were separate, because some of the most vicious and mocking people were fellow nerds) has broken down a bit these days, but I donât think Iâll ever be able to integrate them as freely as some younger fans do.
Everybody should know that AO3 is just one project of the Organization for Transformative Works. Their mission is much broader than just hosting a (very good) fanfic site. They do all kinds of fandom history archiving and publish an academic journal, but most importantly, they perform legal advocacy to protect the fair use rights of people who make fanfic or fanart.
The OTW Legal Committeeâs mission includes education, assistance, and advocacy.
We create and post educational materials about developments in fandom-related law on transformativeworks.org and on archiveofourown.org.
We assist individual fans when their fanworks are challenged, we answer fansâ questions about law relevant to fanworks, and we help fans find legal representation.
We partner with other advocacy organizations and coalitions in the U.S. and around the world.
We advocate for laws and policies that promote balance and protect fanworks and fandom.
And much more!
I havenât been involved in fandom stuff all that long, but I find this stuff so fascinating!
whew, i feel old, but thatâs mostly bc i was on forums way way waaaaay too young. but this? yes. all the way. people had password protected forums on the weirdest, most unconventional websites. before you could even be approved by the mods they would search your blog, your other accounts, question you, everything, all because we were broke teens and preteens trying to do something for fun and if someone got in who could doxx you or send your work over to a lawyer? that was it, you were OVER. thatâs also part of where fandom wars and the defense of fandom came from: quote unquote âenemyâ fandoms would infiltrate just to hurt you. @theglintoftherail makes a very good point: ao3 is a goddamn haven. and theyâre a great team of lawyers and people dedicated to protecting fanworks! part of the reason itâs so great is because they know thereâs no one like them out there. they also go to the ends of the damned earth to protect you and to be inclusive, which is why thereâs shit like tentacle porn and underage and dubcon. because theyâre dedicated to protecting readers and creators to the death. they donât advocate for it and they have the extensive rating and tagging system because of that (legit the best tagging system iâve ever seen) but they donât know if youâre dealing with trauma or if you need to get something out. do not forget your fandom, kids. jesus
Iâm just the right age to remember the disclaimers and to have HEARD about the Anne Rice, Anne McCaffrey, and X-Files fiascos, but I was never in any of those fandoms and I was more or less on the tail end of that. I canât imagine having to be scared to tell people I write fanfic. So glad weâve come so far.
Every time I start reading fanfics, I thank all of you people whose neverending resilience and the drive to be creative made it possible for me to consume content freely and without worry đ¤
My older fics have the disclaimers. Heck, my older fanart has disclaimers in the descriptions. FFN and DeviantArt were those times, AO3 and Tumblr era I stopped finally.
Since itâs happening again now, letâs not forget the purity brigades of the late-90s and early-2000s who took it as their duty to roam fan fic sites in their fandoms and report anything they deemed unsuitable. And if they couldnât get them removed, thatâs when the flame comments would start, where they would screech abuse at you in the comments boxes.
Back then, this could include anything from the ship they didnât like (look up the ship wars from Potter fandom. The feuds were horrendous and hateful) to something as simple as a g-rated slash fic because âthis of the childrenâ. Hell, when strikethrough happened on livejournal, it was everything/anything which - sadly - also included a lot of fantastic support communities for queer kids and SA survivors and the like. All because the site decided to crack down on âlewdâ/âdeviantâ content and didnât pause to think what else might be tagged under queer and SA content.
A lot of the writers in a lot of the fandoms I was in included content warnings for slash because if people felt spiteful or hostile when they stumbled on it, they could report it to fic hosting sites and have it taken down for any number of excuses. I lost fics on fanfiction.net because some big weirdo deemed them as inappropriate and had their friends all report it at the same time.
This is why Archive of Our Own is so special. If someone doesnât like what youâve written, they donât have the power or right to remove it or erase it because it offends their specific sensibilities. Yes, they can still comment and be a dick, but now we can block and/or report them if they continue to do so.
June 10, 2024 - Palestine Action and Shut the System targeted 20 Barclay's Bank locations across Scotland and England in retaliation for their investments in the Israeli arms manufacturer Elbit Systems.
Explaining their action Palestine Action said "We will cost Barclays more than they gain by investing in genocide". [link]
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