Alright, Iâm gonna be the first one to say it. Because I can feel and just know the vibe coming from this community has weighed a lot more lately on the negative and grim side of things. This may be controversial, it may not be, but take it as you will.
I get that this community is not what it once wasâhellâeven far less than it was just even a year ago. Iâve seen a massive uproar of drama of men being so rude and disgusting over women which causes them to leave, and actually, men have left as well because of this negative impact with the rise of disgusting remarks and AI slop. Itâs disgusting, itâs heartbreaking to a community thatâs actually fallen apart, but at the end of the day, whatâs adding to the negative going to solve? Leaving is the part of the issue. Itâs leaving more of a space for those toxic people to override this community instead of pushing back harder with love in our own spaces. Now, I get that the harassment is unacceptable and half of the time very hard to deal with, and thatâs fine. I donât blame anyone for leaving due to harassment. But why leave when certain people arenât affected? Weâve got to help these people and rise back up again or else itâll be just fading into the abyss with AI slop and toxic blogs who only give a shit about boobs and all that.
I say this from my heart because I am passionate about it. I know my words will only go so far in this community and choices are not up to me, theyâre up to you. But this place is honestly where we can just talk about the same thingâabout hearts and how fascinating they are and how much that organ keeps us alive. You talk about that elsewhere and people will straight up start avoiding you and call you a freak when youâre not. But thatâs what this community is for. And it seems to me that a lot of people in this community have even forgot about the good things about it because of the negative energy.
And before anyone begins to tell me âthereâs a discordâ I know there is. Iâve never been invited to it first of all, but second of all, Tumblr is a place where you can create and connect. Discord is just a place of connection and maybe deeper intimacy since everything is more close rather than just shouting to the wall for the hell of it. Basically, Tumblrâs the equivalent to talking to yourself and being creative while Discord is straight up talking to others directly. Thereâs not much creativity behind it. Where would writers talk about their writing? Where do you post images? What if you just want to talk to a wall and vent. If that discord server has channels for that, then Iâll go there, but Tumblr has that creative control that my brain likes. Iâve always loved creating things, and thatâs why I like this app (ON THE GOOD DAYS. Overall this app does suck lol).
But anyway, my point is, can we just spread love more often and focus more on our own beating hearts? The choice is in your hands and Iâm just yapping, but at the end of the day, thereâs too much negativity lately and thatâs actually driving peopleâs passions away and nobody talks about that. In other words, donât let these negative things drive you away from doing what you love. This is such a niche interest so itâs very fragile. What makes it stand strong is pushing harder with passion and love. Iâm driven by passion so things like this just make me want to vent it out. For an interest being so intimate, it feels like itâs more depressing than not and thatâs not how it should be, or ever should be. It should be comforting, peaceful, hell, even invigoratingânot unsafe, judgemental, and more negative.
Thank you if youâve read this far. I had to get it off my chest.
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