also actually to make another point: get a real life outside of this website. the way this website encourages you to constantly seek out problems with everything and to be in a constant state of wearing yourself down trying to appear as a perfect progressive activist all the time so people donātĀ ācancelā you isnāt healthy. a lot of the discourse people get into on this website does not exist in the real world. your friends and family are not going toĀ ācancelā you if you donāt parrot back everyone elseās opinions perfectly. you are not obligated to put every single thing you enjoy under a microscope.Ā
this website really encourages black and white thinking in terms of other people, ourselves, and the things we enjoy, and itās not healthy. itās good to be critical and conscious, but not so much so that you tear yourself down for not being perfect and canāt let yourself just have fun and enjoy stuff.Ā
