Where you live is shaping your life.
This is my family watching the sunset on the Isle of Man. My son was born in Belgium, my daughter in France, but currently, we all live on the Isle of Man.
I have never lived in the same place for more than 5 years since I was born. Initially, I had no control over it (I followed my parents who were transferred to various places) but later, not staying around for too long became our family’s lifestyle.
It helped me understand a key distinction between visiting a place and leaving in it, apart from the obvious. Once you visited a place, it becomes a blurry memory. Once you lived in a place, it becomes part of you. I am far more excited about moving somewhere new rather than going somewhere for a trip. Living somewhere is like reading a whole story. A vacation is barely reading the synopsis, although reading the synopsis is what leads you to read the book. Nowadays, people seem contempt reading lots of synopsis because they’re scared about reading entire stories...
You might go on holiday and discover a place that you love and feel connected to. Sometimes you love it so much that you wish you could stay forever. Yet, you come back home and stay there instead.Â
What you need to understand is this: the place you live in shapes your entire life. It is that important. Year after year, it dictates what you see, what you smell, who you meet, how you feel. It influences your mood, creativity and ambition. It models how you think, how you speak, how you interact with others. The place that you choose has a major impact on your destiny.
Leaving might be easier than you think. This is a central theme at Royale Maps, the brand I’ve co-founded with my partner. One of our mission is to empower people into exploring new possibilities. I’m only touching on the subject through this post, but if you’re interested, head over the Royale Maps’ Journal where we interview people from different backgrounds who made the jump. They share their experience and hopefully, if that kind of adventure ever crossed your mind, they will inspire you.












