yoursecretobsession

You deserve a healthy love with someone who hears you, sees you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. Someone who is patient, communicates clearly, and creates a calm safe space to heal, grow, and bloom together. A love you don't have to heal from.

an old drunk man told me to enjoy my life and have fun because I’m only 24 and I have so many years and so much life ahead of me and then he went “and you know what? in ten years when you’re 34 you’ll still be young and have your whole life ahead of you” and it was really comforting to me

Your soul knows. It will always tell you when it's time to distance yourself from those who no longer align with you mentally, emotionally, physically, or energetically.

The man I marry will be a considerate , affectionate, secure, emotionally intelligent safe space for us and our kids

Gold accessories on a Black Woman makes me feel in the presence of royalty.

You are attracting the things you keep complaining about. Focus on what you want and believe that it is yours.