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you can call me ghosty! i am a minor, so please do not discuss sexual/inappropriate topics about/with/to me on this blog, i am not comfortable with it.
i will gladly take requests for fanfiction and fanart, but if i take a while to finish something i ask that you please be patient with me :)
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My tag system:
#ghosty rants = rambling about a hyperfixation, often lu
#ghosty draws = any digtal art ive posted
#ghosty writes = my fics or other writing
#spoopy asks = my askbox answers
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i will have content warnings above the cut for anything i write, but a few things you may want to be wary of are gore, major character death, themes of trauma/ptsd, themes of mental illnesses, general angst, arguments, fight scenes, and horror aspects
requests are open but i have rules:
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what i will do:
headcanons for characters
character(s) x reader
character(s) x oc
character(s) x character(s)
queer relationships
queer platonic relationships
polyamorous relationships
minority group character(s) or themes (eg: black people, people of color, religious groups, queer people, trans people, aro/ace people, disabled people, etc)
hurt no comfort
major character death
fluff
angst
crack
fight scenes
au's
gore (nothing involving finger/toenails or eyes. pretty much everything else is on the table.)
horror (i specifically like psychological horror, but i'll do regular horror too!)
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what i will not do:
anything involving non-consensual activity
gore involving nails or eyes
nsfw of any kind, i am fine with fluff and things like kissing, cuddling or romantic moments but no sexual things
nobody below the age of 18 will be involved romantically anywhere
i won't do things involving bigotry in a fic, mentions of it are okay but i won't write actual dialogue or action scenes with it
suicide (exception: if it's only suicidal thoughts, no plans/actions, and it's hurt/comfort)
self harm
incest, including emotional incest
eating disorders (exception: character is recovering from an eating disorder, and it's hurt/comfort or just comfort)
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This. Please. Whether I'm avoiding spoilers for a show or people promoting eating disorders, if I block a tag it means I don't want to see it. Spell your fucking tags properly.
When asked, Ms. Frizzle denies that she “knows everything”
However, Ms. Frizzle always knows what her students are up to, knows the answer to every question they ask her, and never shows fear even when in extreme mortal peril, as if she’s experienced this all before
Although we know she was in a rock band called the Frizzlettes and was a Shakespearean actress, Ms. Frizzle’s childhood remains mysterious
Ms. Frizzle is EXACTLY the sort of person to travel back in time to teach herself, and is in fact the most likely fictional character to do so
Nobody is ever named “Valerie Frizzle” at birth
Ms. Frizzle dresses queerly and laughs at her own bad jokes
A lot of the series is about Arnold learning to take chances, make mistakes, and get messy - that phrase is more or less targeted at him as a student
One of the medications used in hormone therapy for trans women (spironolactone, which counteracts testosterone) has the side effect of, putting it crudely, making you have to pee all the goddamn time. That causes dehydration and loss of electrolytes.
Pickles and pickle juice turn out to be a fairly convenient and flavorful way of satisfying an electrolyte craving. Those who’ve been on spiro a long time can develop a nigh-spiritual bond with ‘em.
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One of the most important things I learned in my Language and the Law class is that law enforcement will intentionally misinterpret every type of statement asking for a lawyer as not asking for a lawyer. Even directly saying it like this “I will not speak to you without a lawyer” can be taken as a simple statement of fact rather than a request for a lawyer. You literally have to state “I am now invoking my right to a lawyer” and every time they try to proceed with an interrogation you have to answer every question with “I am invoking my right to have a lawyer present”. You can’t just tell them you won’t talk without a lawyer or that you want a lawyer. You have to state that you are invoking your rights. Otherwise they could just say “well they just said they wouldn’t speak without a lawyer present. That’s not invoking their rights to a lawyer. It’s just stating a fact.” even just stating your right to a lawyer doesn’t count!
PLEASE share this addition. I am a lawyer who works in criminal defense, and this is one of the most avoidable things that people consistently get wrong about the Miranda rights.
Here are some more “ambiguous” phrases which courts have found DO NOT invoke your right to a lawyer:
“Maybe I should speak to my lawyer first.”
“I might like a lawyer.”
“I think I should have a lawyer present for this.”
“Could I speak to my lawyer first?”
“How long until my lawyer gets here?”
And perhaps most egregiously – “Get me a lawyer, dawg – ‘cause this is not what’s up.”
Here are the magic phrases which you need to know if you want to invoke your Miranda rights:
1) “Am I free to leave?”
It’s worth asking this even if the answer is obvious. Even if the officer does not let you leave, by forcing them to admit that you are not free to leave, you are creating a record which your attorney can use to prove that you were in custody. Miranda rights only apply if the interrogation is custodial, meaning that police officers will frequently claim that their suspects were “not in custody” to get around their Miranda rights.
2) “I am invoking my right to remain silent.”
Simply staying silent will not invoke your right to remain silent. As absurd as this is, you must explicitly say that you are invoking your right to remain silent in order to invoke that right.
3) “I am invoking my right to an attorney.”
As stated above, you must be not only clear and unambiguous, but clear and legally unambiguous. Don’t get cute. Don’t get sassy. And on the flip side, don’t get intimidated and use verbal ticks to minimize your request. Say the line with those words exactly – say it clearly, and say it once, and then say nothing else.
Because even after you’ve done all this, the police can still try to get you to talk. They’re not supposed to interrogate you, but they’re allowed to make casual conversation, and if that conversation just happens to circle back around to the thing they wanted to question you about, well, that’s really your fault for talking after you said you wouldn’t, isn’t it? Can’t possibly fault the poor officers when you initiated – if you really wanted to have your rights respected, you wouldn’t have talked to them in the first place.
The police know this, and they will mercilessly exploit this loophole. So, once you’ve successfully invoked your Miranda rights, any and all conversation you have with police officers will put those rights back into jeopardy.
Putting it all together:
Ask: “Am I free to leave?”
If they say no, say: “I am invoking my right to remain silent and I am invoking my right to an attorney.”
And then shut up and do not say a single thing to them for any reason whatsoever until you have actually spoken to an attorney. Yes, even if it takes hours. Yes, even if they start talking to you about something else.
Finally, a very important disclaimer:
I may be a lawyer, but I’m not your lawyer, and I cannot guarantee that what I’ve just laid out here will always work for every situation. We didn’t get to this bizarre and absurd place overnight – we built this ridiculous system piecemeal, by deciding on a case-by-case basis that certain phrases were “too ambiguous” or certain types of questioning weren’t actually questioning at all. The law is still in flux, and is still fundamentally out to get you, and willing to bend plain meaning beyond all recognition to do it. Even if you invoke your rights perfectly, exactly as I have specified above, there’s a chance that your invocation of rights will be disqualified on some new technicality that no one’s even thought of yet – and that’s precisely the problem.
I am begging my followers to please watch this video from start to finish. I know it’s long, but it is incredibly valuable information that everyone needs to know, especially if you’re involved in any form of activism.
Every single cop lies. Every single cop lies and manipulates and twists the situation around to get a confession. Even when they know that the person is innocent, even when they know that what they have isn’t enough to convict someone, even when they know that that confession has been made under duress or manipulation. All they care about is getting anything to put someone behind bars.
It doesn’t matter how eloquent or innocent or experienced you are. Do not talk to cops.
The video is a doozy. Aside from all the good advice, the racist dog whistling from the officer really jumps out. In fact, his whole segment was pretty effective to drive home the point that officers are literally trained to manipulate you and fuck you over. He does say he doesn’t “try” to put innocent people in prison, but he never says he tries to keep them out either. He also explicitly states that he destroys material that could be helpful to you.
ALL cops are out to get you. They do not care about you, not do they care about proving your innocence. A cop’s primary concern is painting you as the villain and getting you behind bars so they can look like the fucking hero.
All cops are the fucking enemy, they will take any sound you utter and use it against you.
But... this is true, though, for the most part. Don't be an asshole about it, sure, but yeah, you really can't. You can try and counteract some of the effects, with variable rates of success, but ultimately it's a hormone. It's gonna react with your body the way a hormone would normally react, there's just more of it.
But can we talk about the psychological effects of testosterone though? The physical effects are always what people talk about, but that shit fucks with your brain, too.
Don't start it without a therapist to talk to and a doctor who knows what they're talking about. Seriously. The anger, the inability or difficulty accessing your emotions, the irritability, the sex drive spike. Yeah you'll look like your dad, but in a lot of ways you'll act like your dad, too, for better or worse, unless you have a system in place to help you with that.
Some things are meant to be thought through.
Some things are meant to take time.
Not to sound like one of the uncool old people here, but slow down. Please. Get some help first, you can't do this alone. Having a system is important.
warning: long post, ranting because i’m tired of people saying shit like this
might get cancelled for this, but y’all. you do realize that anger-issues, sex-obsession and lack of emotional awareness are mainly caused by the way some men are raised by society, right? not testosterone. like yeah the hormones will alter your brain chemistry a little bit but not like that.
i’ve seen way too many posts talking about how ‘men are emotionless monsters who only crave sex and violence’ or ‘men can’t feel love, they’re incapable of wanting genuine connection’ and all sorts of blatant misandry.
listen. some people, especially men, are told their whole lives that emotions are weak, that sex is a core value, and that anger is strong. they can internalize this belief, but they are not born that way.
it’s a societal problem, not men being inherently evil. it’s sexism (which heavily impacts everyone!).
taking testosterone won’t turn you into a violent horny monster. growing up being told that’s all you’ll ever be will.
i don’t mean to ignore men who do act horrible, i just don’t want little timmy growing up thinking he’s destined to be horrible and can’t change it. because honestly, most men are perfectly good people. if you go outside, 90% of the guys you see are average, honest, kind people. (note: this can vary a bit depending on the area, but my point stands: most people are good or neutral, we just don’t hear about them much online because they farm less engagement.)
some people suck. many people don’t. this applies to everyone, regardless of gender. being born with a Y chromosome or taking testosterone doesn’t make you a misogynistic asshole, it just makes you have certain physical characteristics.
i’m begging y’all, hate the individual, not the group. (also, this is coming from a nonbinary person who was born female. i’ve experienced the misogyny and violence, but i still stand by my statement. 95% of the men i’ve met have been perfectly fine.)
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Binary folks: What's the non-binary equivalent for yaoi/yuri? yaori?
Me: We have trixic (enby/women), toric (enby/men), enbian (enby/enby), and diamoric (enby/anyone). Please don't use yaori to refer to diamoric ships as it is not a word that came from the QL scene like yaoi and yuri did and was made up by people who don't know anything about QL and is just butchering a language.
Binary folks: Um AcTuAlLy [insert whatever bs excuse to not use non-binary centric terms for nonbinary ships]
Why do people have such an issue with non-binary terminology? We have our own words USE THEM!!!
Hey if you See This can you reblog this or comment on this with a character you headcanon as aromantic, asexual, or both. It can be canon it can be founded on absolutely nothing I just need more aroace stuff on here #yay
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