megalovaniaphobic

(For anyone who doesn't know, omegaverse is a fetish/nsfw thing, and it's heavily rooted in transphobia and homophobia, and it cannot be made "sfw" because it's inherently a sex thing. Ew.)

(They deleted pretty much all of their posts about it, but I got screenshots tho. The actual post they made is under the readmore, so you don't have to read the actual post if you don't want to)

Here's them talking about it (fun fact, I was that anon):

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First image: A text post from Catdonfreeman reading: i hate the fact that a conversation I just had has made me genuinely wonder if I could write an entirely SFW ABO fic. I could do it, I could completely do that. What's stopping me? Morals, probably. hey everyone in the notes you do know that I'm talking about writing a HLVRAI ABO work right?

Second Image: A text post from Catdonfreeman reading: hey y'all I have no ideas for an actual, proper, real fic for this, but I do unfortunately have ideas, do y'all wanna hear my unfortunately HLVRAI omegaverse thoughts? Do you want to? Because I have them.

Third image: An Anonymous ask reading: No bc omegaverse is weird and gross full stop, why would you think this was a good idea???? Catdonfreeman replied saying: I DONT KNOW IT WAS A FULL CONVERSATION I HAD WITH FRIENDS OKAY???? DON'T ASK WHY OUR BRAINS DO THE THINGS THEY DO. The tags read: #YES I KNOW 90% OF IT IS WEIRD AND GROSS #THE POINT OF THIS IS THAT IT'S COMPLETELY SFW #AND FOCUSES ON THE EFFECTS OF A WORLD LIKE THAT

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Heres them responding to criticism and people questioning wtf they were doing:

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First image: An Anonymous ask reading: i get it. they like, wanna be allies and junk. but ur literally harassing a trans person for... recognizing that its transphobic/ homophobic and making fun of it..... THATS a little embarrassing...... Catdonfreeman replied saying: they're trying so hard, and I understand, y'all wanna ally. but this is not the way.

Second Image: A text post from Catdonfreeman reading: ANYWAYS this is a sfw (other than random nsfw jokes) blog and people already hate me for thinking about how an omegaverse world would work so I'm not answering anymore asks on this cause I'll probably legit get cancelled for thinking something nsfw is stupid and funny while also wondering how it would work on a daily basis since nsfw things like that usually fall apart when put into a daily world :) Me: how would this work in this world I wonder? Anons: you're trans/homophobic for even having THOUGHTS.

Third image: A text post from Catdonfreeman reading: Does my little jester dance. The tags read: #if i get cancelled for omegeverse thoughts im gonna laugh #people i know. its so problematic #let me think of thoughts to make it not problematic #its a fun thought experiment #let me have my thought experiments.

Fourth image: An Anonymous ask reading: its the posting about a weird ass transphobic kink and then thinking its funny for me ✋😭. Catdonfreeman replied saying: Its the 'telling a trans person who already knows this thing is transphobic and is this making fun of it because it's transphobic and acting like you're all high and mighty and not just unfollowing them for me :)

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just.. Ew. Like just listen to other* trans people** telling you that what you're doing is shit.... Take the criticism without being condescending.

*don't forget that @/Catdonfreeman IS trans, but also remember that trans people aren't exempt from doing transphobic and shitty things.

**anon there is trans! (I was not the anon tho, I just know who it was)

These are the anons I sent (that were unanswered.) One bringing up the inherent homo/transphobia of the concept, the other two asking why the fuck they were carelessly exposing minors to nsfw concepts.

[Image id: three anonymous asks reading the following:

(Ask 1) Ok transphobia or no aside. You exposed children to a fetish, in a sfw way or no, that's fucking horrific. Are you not gonna address this????

(Ask 2) Do you just not get that omegaverse is heavily rooted in homophobia and transphobia???! Hello????

(Ask 3) Oh my GOD minors follow you???? One of your most recently answered asks was sent by a 13 year old, you're carelessly exposing minors to a LITERAL FETISH. YOU ARE AN ADULT AND YOU SHOULD KNOW BETTER. end image id]

This is the apology they gave:

[image id: A text post from Catdonfreeman reading: Anyways, maybe it was my bad for answering an ask from a minor during this, even if the ask was just 'haha atone for you sins' and my answer was just 'sobs on the floor. Maybe that was my bad. But don't call me a pro-shipper or an anti anti or a pedophile for that thank you everyone. End image id]

So uh yeah this is a bad apology. It comes across as deflective. Like, YES it was your bad, No maybe about it. (Note: I don't think they are a pedophile)