UK Beta Husband

This is useful advice. Keeping him horny... and then denying him. The ignoring him part is absolutely the worst thing you can do, and yet it feels appropriate as a punishment sometimes, yet it never works. It just immediately builds resentment.

Which means that I, as the keyholder, have work to do. It doesn't have to be a lot, but each day I give him a little feminine energy, a little tease, a little tit, a little ass, so to speak.

That is really what this seems to be about. Feminine energy. He wants it, needs it, and if you keep him from cumming, he has a delightful ache and frustration that is energy, good good energy, and he uses it like a younger man, trying to please you, to get you in bed. He's courting you, and that's a fantastic place to be. He likes that, and actually doesn't want to cum, because all the fun goes away. For both of you.

1. You are not punishing your man - you are protecting him from his perfectly normal lack of self-control…

2. You are not denying him sexual pleasure. In fact, when you do release him from his male chastity belt, sex will feel better for him and his orgasms will become much more intense…

3. You are not denying yourself the sex life you deserve. While he’s locked up he’ll use his mouth and fingers to provide you with sexual satisfaction on a regular basis. And, there are ways that you have satisfying penetrative sex while he is still under lock and key…

4. Men will try to claim they need to have regular orgasms to stay healthy. This simply isn’t true. They do need to have ejaculations every so often; but you can make this happen in a matter of minutes without him getting an erection or having an orgasm…

5. Hundreds of thousands of married couples are in the male chastity lifestyle. It’s not kinky. In fact, the odds are that several of your friends already have their husband’s crown jewels locked away…

6. When done correctly, your man will feel more loved by you than he did before male chastity became a part of your life. In fact, most men eventually thank their wives for insisting on the lifestyle…

7. While at first you’ll only keep him locked up for a few days at a time, eventually he should be restricted to eight to 12 orgasms a year. This is more than enough…

8. Over time he’ll start to feel like more of a man, because he’ll know that all of his sexual energy is going towards pleasing you. He’ll like the fact that he no longer feels like a little boy who can’t help but play with his little pee-pee when you are not looking. Instead, he will be saving himself for you…