if you’re reading this
i’m getting fucking married tomorrow. i, along with many other women, have thought about my wedding as a “you’ve created a successful adulthood” milestone. but, i still don’t feel like i’ve gained the magic key to a successful adult life. in a way, i feel at peace with this. the idea that there is no such thing as a perfect way to be an adult is freeing. even on the biggest days of our lives, we are all just winging it and hoping for the best.













