I feel the phrase βAro/Ace people can still date/have sexβ has just morphed into a new version of βyou just havenβt found the right person yet.β
Yes we can. But itβs our call if we do. And itβs certainly not gonna be with anyone who tries to use the fluidity of our experiences as a clap back to break firmly set boundaries.
And that fluidity doesnβt make sexual/romantic repulsion that some of us experience any less true or valid.
Iβve never had sex and I never will. The sheer concept of it viscerally disgusts me.
Iβve never experienced any form of sexual attraction and know at this point i likely never will. I have zero framework for it when people talk about it. It confuses me.
βLittle to no romantic/sexual attractionβ has a no in it for a reason. Because aro/ace people who donβt experience sexual/romantic attraction at all regardless of circumstance are in fact real.
Other ace people have different experiences. Theyβre allowed to. Their experiences arenβt mine or anyone elseβs to make. Nor are mine theirs.
Sexualities are complicated and often fluid sure. But one thing theyβre not is negotiable.
Ace peoples boundaries are ours to make and yours to respect. No ifs or buts. You donβt get a say in it.

























