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I LOVE this question and how it was so professionally presented like its some interview lol <3But to answer your question;

I use to hate how I looked too. But what I did to get out of it really was, I started a relationship with my body. I would be naked and just lay and just be. I would treasure myself with what I deserved. I allowed myself to be sensual. I allowed my self to be a woman. I allowed myself to enjoy pleasure without fear. I allowed myself to be cocky. And I understood this. No matter what? You’ll be ugly to someone even if you glowed up, and beautiful even when feeling down. Its inevitable. And another thing. I conquered my fears I had cus of society. I thru away double standards and did as I should. And I got to know myself and I found true confidence. That helped me feel beautiful from within and helped me get comfortable with my body tho flaws will always be there.

And to help with losing weight if that’s what you’re talking about, first you have to have a positive mindset. You have to have faith and hope that you’re going to lose the weight. And you have to have drive motivation. Without it your efforts will be missed. And you have to be consistent. This is something I myself need to learn cus I want to get fit too.

And for your social anxiety, just be aware that you can’t run away from rejection. Once you are comfortable with that then you can talk to anyone with no fear. But all you need to know is that you are an amazing individual, so anyone should be thankful to be your friend. If you realize the reason for your anxiety then that can help as well, cus me I hate feeling intimidated, and when I know I feel that way, I use it as a stepping ground to be bold. Or when I’m shy and I know, I use it as a stepping grown to be confident. Same thing with being afraid of what ppl thing, I use that fear, turn it around and do what I want. Because this is your life, your happiness, all that matters is you, the ppl who love you, and your maker (if you believe) that’s all that matters.