people talk a lot about detachment but at the end of the day it’s literally a normal human reaction to feel sad when someone you liked or cared about treats you poorly or things don’t work out. you cannot avoid that unless you’re a psychopath or you refuse to emotionally connect with anyone. extreme detachment is not healthy or normal. it’s okay to feel negative emotions, it’s part of what makes us human and alive… what’s important is picking yourself up and moving on























