Daddy's Dirty Mind

I get a lot of questions from young women about whether they're old enough to get into bdsm. I don't see a lot of men asking that question, but it's just as important.

There are a lot of people who talk about how "older men do it better" and how women want someone who's "experienced" in sex. To me, that kind of thing is sort of vague, unimportant, and very much debatable.

But if you're going to enter into a dynamic that's reflective of the patriarchy, you need to have an actual understanding of the patriarchy.

Have you ever talked to a woman/girl about how it feels to be cat-called?

Have you taken the time to understand the difference between a woman feeling pressured to serve a guy sexually and her actually wanting to?

Do you understand and fully believe that not. all. women. are. subs?