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You are very open about your feelings regarding your relationship with D and the lifestyle.  Your honesty about engaging in the lifestyle only because of D’s desire; and giving it up the moment he no longer desires it crystallizes how much trust and communication is needed by both partners to make it work.  What is it about your desire to please D that allows you to manage your feelings/thoughts/emotions and engage in a lifestyle you would not choose yourself?

This is a great question, and it really has a pretty vast and varied answer, to be honest.  First, let me preface by saying that I don’t “hate” the lifestyle and there are some very fun and sexy things about it.  With that said, if he wasn’t into it anymore or if I was, just a for instance, in another relationship, it wouldn’t be something I would choose to bring up - I guess it’s not “my fantasy”.  So, I don’t want it to come off that I’m being pushed into doing this thing I hate just because my partner wants it, because I don’t hate it and my partner would never push me into anything I wasn’t willing to do.  There are aspects of the lifestyle that I wish were a little different, but I guess those are things I can put aside.  

The real reason that I engage in being a Hotwife is because of D and his fantasy.  I feel like we need to please our partners to our best abilities when we’re in a relationship, and I know this has been a big one for him.  He lived in a marriage for 5 years before me where he wasn’t even allowed to speak of any of his fantasies, look at porn, nothing like that, so I guess I feel like I have to make up for that in some way?  I don’t want him to feel stifled or held back, or that his fantasies are going unfulfilled or that he doesn’t have what he needs to feel that erotic surge of pleasure that I know he loves so much.  I want him to be happy, plain and simple - I want him to feel like I was the best choice he has ever made in his life.  

Then there is my half of the fantasy…the things I get out of it FROM D.  I get a man who has extra sexual energy, gives me more romance, more attention, more focus, isn’t out looking for sexual gratification in other areas, etc.  This keeps him focused on me just about 100% when it comes to sex and sexuality, and that’s a good feeling.  I get the “above and beyond” that a lot of women don’t get in relationships after the initial dating stage.  So, that’s my “selfish desire” or “my fantasy” - to have a man who is completely devoted only to me, has no desire to ever be with another woman, doesn’t even want to watch porn because he is so into watching me and thinking about me to get off, to have a man who goes above and beyond in the romantic gesture areas, etc.  I likely wouldn’t get these things to the degree that I do without me doing “my part”, so to speak.  

So, we are essentially both getting what we need out of this, it’s just we need different things.  It works.  That’s not to say I never have “emotions” surrounding the lifestyle - guilt, fear, anxiety, worry, feeling used, etc., but I’m able to manage those feelings through lots of long talks with D and by going back to what I mentioned above - we are both getting something “selfish” and a “fantasy fulfillment” out of this, it’s just that our fantasies are different.  My “fantasy” isn’t to go out and sleep with other men, my “fantasy” is what I get back from D BECAUSE I go out and sleep with other men…if that makes sense…?  

He died a billionaire at 56yrs of Pancreatic Cancer and here are his last words on the sick bed:

“I reached the pinnacle of success in the business world. In others’ eyes my life is an epitome of success.

However, aside from work, I have little joy. In the end, wealth is only a fact of life that I am accustomed to.

At this moment, lying on the sick bed and recalling my whole life, I realize that all the recognition and

wealth that I took so much pride in, have paled and become meaningless in the face of impending death.

You can employ someone to drive the car for you, make money for you but you cannot have someone to bear the sickness for you.

Material things lost can be found. But there is one thing that can never be found when it is lost – “Life”.

When a person goes into the operating room, he will realize that there is one book that he has yet to finish reading – “Book of Healthy Life”.

Whichever stage in life we are at right now, with time, we will face the day when the curtain comes down.

Treasure Love for your family, love for your spouse, love for your friends…

Treat yourself well. Cherish others.

As we grow older, and hence wiser, we slowly realize that wearing a $300 or $30 watch - they both tell the same time…

Whether we carry a $300 or $30 wallet/handbag - the amount of money inside is the same;

Whether we drive a $150,000 car or a $30,000 car, the road and distance is the same, and we get to the same destination.

Whether we drink a bottle of $300 or $10 wine - the hangover is the same;

Whether the house we live in is 300 or 3000 sq ft - loneliness is the same.

You will realize, your true inner happiness does not come from the material things of this world.

Whether you fly first or economy class, if the plane goes down - you go down with it…

Therefore.. I hope you realize, when you have mates, buddies and old friends, brothers and sisters, who you chat with, laugh with, talk with, have sing songs with, talk about north-south-east-west or heaven and earth, …. That is true happiness!!

Five Undeniable Facts of Life :

1. Don’t educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be Happy. So when they grow up they will know the value of things not the price.

2. Best awarded words in London … “Eat your food as your medicines. Otherwise you have to eat medicines as your food.”

3. The One who loves you will never leave you for another because even if there are 100 reasons to give up he or she will find one reason to hold on.

4. There is a big difference between a human being and being human.

Only a few really understand it.

5. You are loved when you are born. You will be loved when you die. In between, You have to manage!

NOTE: If you just want to Walk Fast, Walk Alone! But if you want to Walk Far, Walk Together!

Six Best Doctors in the World

1. Sunlight

2. Rest

3. Exercise

4. Diet

5. Self Confidence and

6. Friends

The Hotwife / Cuckold fantasy is one of the fastest growing fantasies out there.

More and more men are finding the thought of their wives and girlfriends sleeping with another man arousing for a large variety of reasons.

This post is not about why men want this or why women should do this. This post is about the respect your wife or girlfriend deserves, whether she decides to go along with your fantasy or not.

I see post after post from men asking how they can convince their significant other to have sex with other men, but you also need to know how to handle it if she doesn’t want to have sex with other men.

My wife knows about my fantasies and agrees that the idea is hot, but she has not agreed to act on the fantasy in real life. I love my wife and would never force her to do anything she is not comfortable with. So far my wife teases me about having a boyfriend and lovers, as well as some light MFM role play in the bedroom. While I hope that it goes father one day, I am okay if she stops here.

You can’t let this consume you or get in the way of your relationship. If you love and respect each other, then you have to also respect each other’s boundaries. Don’t get mad or upset id she says she only wants to be with you! What a great honor to have a woman who loves you so much that she is willing to forsake all others.

The bottom line is she is your wife or girlfriend, not a piece of meat for you to whore out.

Please love each other and share your journey together. No one should ever be forced to do something they might come to regret. They will resent you for it in the long run. That resentment will be a cancer in your relationship.