Norman Bates SFW Alphabet
A ctivities - What do they like to do with their s/o? How do they spend their free time with them?
Reading books, watching TV, walks around the area... it's all great but you appreciate most doing typically domestic things together - like cooking, washing the dishes, cleaning home, working in motel. You can always depend on Norman's help and vice versa.
B eauty - What do they admire about their s/o? What do they think is beautiful about them?
Norman thinks that you're all beauty, no doubt about it, but your voice make his heart melting. It can be so soft and soothing. He would like to listen you for hours. Moreover, you are one of the few people who can calm him down when he's in his "mood".
C omfort - How would they help their s/o when they feel down/have a panic attack etc.?
He doesn't really know what to do so he will just hold you close and kiss you in the forehead.
D reams - How do they picture their future with their s/o?
Norman has in mind picture of you happy in his house, running his motel, maybe having a child... ideal life from american dream.
E qual - Are they the dominant one in the relationship, or rather passive?
Norman treats you like a goddess and thinks that you are probaly an expert on each field. He asks you about everything so you lead in this relationship.
F ight - Would they be easy to forgive their s/o? How are they fighting?
In your relationship there are practically no arguments. If you have different opinions about something it's very possible that Norman will immediately agree with you. Harmony in relationship is for him more important that winning an argument.
G ratitude - How grateful are they in general? Are they aware of what their s/o is doing for them?
He's very thankful for everything you do for him. Norman doesn't have many friends he can brag before but he will often tell you about his gratefulness and try to repay.
H onesty - Do they have secrets they hide from their s/o? Or do they share everything?
Norman tries to keep you away from his mother. First of all he doesn't want you to get hurt, moreover he's worries that you will be afraid or discouraged of him.
I nspiration - Did their s/o change them somehow, or the other way around? Like trying out new things or helped them overcome personal problems?
Since he met you, Norman became more confident and out-going. Maybe he isn't leader of the group or party king, but you definitely made him more eager to talking with people and trying new things. The best proof is that one day Norman proposed himself to go on a board games marathon in town.
J ealousy - Do they get jealous easily? How do they deal with it?
Very jealous but he's not sure what to do when some guy talks with you or even dare to - Lord, please, watch over his poor souls - flirts. Probably Norman will break later and give than man an unexpected visit.
K iss - Are they a good kisser? What was the first kiss like?
Altough his lack of experience, he's suprisingly good kisser. He always takes his time and kiss you gently.
Probably you kissed him first one day, it was just quick peck but he blushed. And - no doubt - was very glad.
L ove Confession - How would they confess to their s/o?
It took long time for Norman to confess his love. He was afraid that you will reject him but finally he came to you and invited you for a dinner in his house.
M arriage - Do they want to get married? How do they propose? What would the marriage be like?
Norman always wanted to get married and make better family that his mother did so when he found you, his proposal was only matter of time. And Norman's self-confidence. He wasn't sure how to propose so eventually he did it traditionally: bought nice but not too expensive ring and asked you on one evening while you were reading a book. Marriage would be very modest: only you two and priest in near church.
N icknames - What do they call their s/o?
Just great classic - darling, honey, my love, dear, sweetheart.
O n Cloud Nine - What are they like when they are in love? Is it obvious for others? How do they express their feelings?
Norman can great hide his emotions when he wants to do so. Probably no one will know about his love until your marriage. He becames really affectionate when you two are alone.
P DA - Are they upfront about their relationship? Do they brag with their s/o in front of others? Or are they rather shy to kiss etc. when others are watching?
Norman is rather shy and he prefers to don't show his feelings in front of other people. There is one exception from this rule. If someone try to flirt with you, Norman will with no doubt kiss you or at least hold your hand - anything just to show that you're together and other guys should rather go away.
Q uirk - Some random ability they have that’s beneficial in a relationship.
He can immediately notice your mood change and if you're sad or angry he has to know why (he's also a bit concerned if it can be his fault).
R omance - How romantic are they? What would they do to make their s/o happy? Cliché or rather creative?
Norman will be romantic if you want it and ask him. He would do just anything to make you happy.
S upport - Are they helping their s/o achieve their goals? Do they believe in them?
He's like the most enthusiastic cheerleader when it comes to you. Norman believes in you probably even more than you do it. If you want something, it's certain thay you can do it.
T hrill - Do they need to try out new things to spice out your relationship? Or do they prefer a certain routine?
Certain routine with you by his is peak of dreams for Norman. He likes his peaceful life, especially that he can spend it with you. He doesn't need any thrill or adventures.
U nderstanding - How good do they know their partner? Are they empathetic?
Norman is an attentive observer and has great memory. He remember almost everything what you told him and he knows many little facts about you. What are your fears, where are you come from, what's your favourite color etc.
V alue - How important is the relationship to them? What is it’s worth in comparison to other things in their life?
I would say that Norman is that type of guy who - when loves - loves somebody absolutely to death. His strong feeling is amazing but at other hand, "love to death" has two meanings in his case. If you tried to leave Norman... well, breaking his heart wouldn't turn out well for you. If he can't live without you, you won't live without him neither.
W ild Card - A random Fluff Headcanon.
Norman always shares his food if you. And when I say 'always' I mean 'a l w a y s': breakfast, supper or dinner which you eat together - he asks you if you want more from his portion. He buys a candy bat - you get half. Little snack at 3am - he wakes you and regales. Just in case you are hungry.
X OXO - Are they very affectionate? Do they love to kiss and cuddle?
Kisses and cuddles are main basis of your life. You could lay on the couch and hold each other for hours but unfortunately you still have to run a motel.
Y earning - How will they cope when they’re missing their partner?
Have you ever seen sad puppy? That's how Norman looks like when you aren't near him for long time (like, one day?). He calls you every hour to make sure that you're safe and sound. And ask you if you really can't come back earlier.
Z eal - Are they willing to go to great lenghts for the relationship? If so, what kind of?
Anything you can need. You want breakfast or some help? Done. You need emotional support? No problem. He would even trade his life for yours.
I should learn or go to sleep
But fuck the sleep fuck my life
Thirstiing slashers all the time
