A serious note because it seems to cause some issues for some reasons and I would like to fully explain some of my reactions toward Urbosa. Urbosa is very dear to me. She's way more than a "cool character I have a crush on".
She's tied to so many of my troubles and life achievements. I grew up with a mother who was abscent a lot of the time due to work, so I really do see Urbosa like a mother figure or at the very least someone I look up to. She was also the character that made me realize my sexuality.
She's my comfort character in a way were if i'm at my worse, just thinking about her help me. And my version of her that I have is also a way for me to help me process some of my issues: the mother and sister I gave her, my disabilities etc...
And general speaking the gerudo as a whole, that idea of a woman only tribe, where women aren't oppressed and where they can all be strong.
Due to this, I can react quite strongly shall one of your opinion/headcanon of her doesnt align with how I see her. I will never attack anyone over this, I am well aware that everyone is allowed to have their own opinions and that's ok ! But it just makes me uncomfortable that's all.
I will however express my discomfort, which may be seem as rude for some. I do usually try to express it in the best way possible but this may happen that I react strongly if i'm seriously disgusted by something.
My reactions may varie depending on what you might say: could be "oh alright *leave*, *leave silently*, "hey I dont find it funny", "You're making me uncomfortable sorry", "OH EW NO"
I kindly ask that you please respect my boundaries, I do not take lightly whenever someone disrepect her, even as a joke. As an example of what i'm talking about:
A while ago I was a dm of a dnd session with old friends from high school. Not to vent but they were heavily toxic but I still managed to convince them to play dnd with me. I made a botw dnd and so Urbosa was in here. And they made gerudo ocs where their whole lore and personality was about hating Urbosa for no reasons other than the fact they knew I cared about her. (do note that I do not say a gerudo cannot hate Urbosa, i have multiple who does, i'm just saying that if the owner of the design is just insulting what I like through their character). And well it ended up with them insulting Urbosa nonstop during the whole session with an excuse of "but it's in character so it's ok!" and I just had to end the session because I ended up genuinely crying over it.
I can especially get pretty disgusted when people ship her with male characters, it seriously makes me ill especially when most of those ships are hella weird to begin with (like shipping her with Rhoam or Ganondorf).
It does also includes making critisism disguised as "jokes" regarding her physical appearance or lore.
Once again, you are allowed to have opinions that clashes with mine but kindly please be mindful when sharing them with me ! I am not against all headcanons clashing with mines but be alright with me potentially turning you down if I dont vibe with your headcanon !
