a hot messpacito

this is just a reminder to quit the jokes about wanting to die and anything else along those lines. it is actually seriously harming you, you just can’t feel it because you’ve numbed yourself to it. it isn’t a healthy coping mechanism and it is only hurting you, whether you realize this or not. words have impact. do not forget this.

say what you actually want instead. did you just say “ugh i wanna die” because you’re really tired and would rather be at home napping? then say “ugh i wanna take a nap.” say what you really want or need, because i’m gonna be honest with you chief, you probably don’t really want to die. maybe you want the situation you’re in to end, but death ain’t the answer to that. it’s never the answer. there’s always another option, i promise.

i’m trying i’m trying i’m trying i’m trying i’m trying

in my head theres a little mouse wearing a little apron and she makes all my emotions

she needs to read a fuckin recipe this bitch is just making a MESS

realising more and more that the only limits in life are the ones you set yourself. I’m not too old to start things, not too shy to talk to people to try new things, I’m capable of literally anything and I’m not going to be the reason I don’t do all the things I want to do

can’t wait ‘till ive graduated uni and got a job and a flat so i can adopt a rescue dog that’s the dream folks

in therapy my therapist and i were talking about my own feelings of self worth in relationships. and she asked me to say qualities about myself that someone else would be attracted to, on a romantic and platonic level. so i named some things like compassionate, empathetic, etc. and she said “you named things that you can give someone. ways you can serve, rather than ways that you are” and y'all..my mind was blown that’s gonna stick with me forever like she then proceed to tell me actual innate qualities about myself that she liked and thought anyone else would like as well and i hadn’t even considered those because like she said i was focused on things i could do outwardly to attract and maintain connections rather than who i was as a person..goddamn!!! thats tea!!!

you have beautiful eyes

me: thinks abt c*ddling for 2 minutes me @ myself: shut the hell up u aren’t in a John green novel. grow up and move on.

reblog with your star sign and the age you started to drink coffee… it’s for science

this website is so toxic 

With a taste of your lips I’m on a ride

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