My Boyfriend's Secret

That’s not a question for me to answer as you have to look inside yourself for that answer. I would first start by asking yourself, “Why do I want to cheat?”, “If my bf finds out and is hurt, am I ok with the that and the potential fall out my cheating could cause?” and finally, “Will I be ok with myself if I cheat?”

For me it was really tough when I found out about my bf cheating on me with his ex. I was hurt. Big time. The difference is that those feelings eventually became ones in which I became turned on by the idea of my bf cheating. That is certainly not the case with everyone.

Have you and your bf talked about opening up your relationship and inviting a third in or even having someone watch you and your bf have sex? That could be a good way to start things and open up a dialogue. You both might surprise yourself by what you are open to and what you have been scared to talk about with one another.