duniamarya

Hello there!

Thank you for dropping me a message and reading my blogs. Seriously? You read my blogs? All of them? Why though? :P 

Let me guess, you’re an Indonesian woman as I am? And you’re probably not sure how to act or react to some issues in your surroundings, especially when it comes to sex? 

About your question about whether I’m a virgin, I think you could already take the conclusion through most of my blog post right? No, I am not. The boat has sailed a long time ago. *lol*

What’s my thought when I decided to have sex with guys? Well, given the fact that most of the guys I’ve had sex with, they’re just some kind of friends with benefits, I think it’s all about consent. I mean, when I feel like to have sex with them and they feel the same, things just happen I suppose. 

Does my Mom know about my sexual activity? No, or maybe not that I know of. I mean, I’m not the kind of girl who acts like a holy daughter either but neither I am bold enough to tell my Mom that I’ve had sex with 10++ guys. I’ve never tried to lie about it, but I’m not really open up about it with my Mom. 

For example, the last time I traveled, I had sex with 2 different guys. I told my Mom that I would go out with these guys, but I didn’t tell her the details of what happened with these two because I don’t think it’s necessary, no? 

Hallo Zarira! Ini kamu kirim pertanyaannya kapan? Aku baru bacaaaa, maafkan! :/ 

Hmm, apa yah? Aku sebetulnya dari kecil mimpinya simpel, pengen keliling dunia. Dari dulu aku emang pengen jalan-jalan, liat gimana rasanya di luar negeri karena aku sayangnya ga dilahirkan dari keluarga yang suka jalan-jalan. 

Di jalan ke tempat terapi ketika lagu Maksim Mrvica yang Croatian Rhapsody main di iPod saya.

H: "Teh, ini lagu cuma musiknya doang yah?"

M: "Iya."

H: "Pindahin napa Teh, kaya musik buat ibu hamil."

H: "Teh, nama cucunya Jokowi tuh siapa?"

M: "Jan Ethes."

H: "Ntar nama anak lo juga gitu yah, Jan. Tapi bukan Jan Ethes, nama anak lo ntar sesuai kepribadian: Jan Feses."