This week at my internship, we have been thinking of ways in which we can go about settling negotiations for complete ownership of our factory building. My initial thought was to go directly to the owners and discuss the matter, but my boss explained to me that we must have a middle person to carry out the negotiation initially because of the Chinese way of “saving face.” Saving face is simply a term used to describe the importance of ensuring that one’s actions do not indicate disrespect toward the other party, or undermine them in any way. This first step, as mentioned by Professor Strother, is called pre-negotiation, a conversation in which the other party is made aware of an issue and is given appropriate information regarding what the other party is requesting. So we will send someone to bring the subject to the attention of the owners and then wait for a response.
Outside of business, life in China is full of even more strange and wonderful things. I’ve been here over a month and I feel as if every day I am learning something new about the people who live here and what life looks like on the day to day. Sometimes as a special treat, we have pig ear for dinner, getting denied by taxi drivers is a daily event, the Ayi(s) make sure I never go hungry, random strangers occasionally yell at me in Chinese and walk away, the sound of Chinese traditional music playing in the streets keeps you up at night, but part of you doesn’t mind because it is indeed beautiful, when going on an evening walk you might find yourself practicing the Chinese art of dance, fights in the street seem to always end in bursts of laughter, people are kind and might even let you follow them around a mountain all day asking them questions in broken Chinese, my boss calls me family…. Strange and wonderful things indeed.
gǎn xiè shēng huó suǒ jǐ yǔ wǒ de yī qiē , suī rán bù quán dōu shì xìng fú.
感谢生活所给予我的一切,虽然不全都是幸福。
“I am grateful for everything life has given me, even though it’s not all happiness.”
~ Chinese Proverb
Living in China is anything but easy, in fact, it’s probably one of the hardest things I’ve done. But I am thankful for every amazing and every difficult moment that it has brought me. Living here has made me more aware of what it looks like to meet others where they’re at, persevere in difficult situations, and more than anything understand my limits as a human being and recognize the need I have, that we all have, to be able to lean on others for help from time to time. Thankful for this country and for its people who welcomed me into there homes, taught me valuable lessons and supported me every step of the way.
Zaijian China and my beautiful Chinese family! Till next time <3











