Bbw 21+

He tells me that he and his fiancé broke up, (Awwwww) a few months ago (Ooooooh). He tells me she had a mental breakdown and also couldn’t perform sexually at the pace and frequency he wanted, and it was sssssooooooo hard for him, so he broke up with her (gaslights to make it her fault). He tells me he has trust issues after her (trying to pull at your emotions, make you feel bad for him) but still finds it REALLY important that the sexual chemistry is there (he’s sssoooo hurt but still views sex as a need that you MUST fulfill). He told me at least two sex stories and keeps mentioning how we’re going to fuck on the first date, when I said that’s not my style, he says he understands and then messages “I wouldn’t be surprised if we fucked in the pool.” (completely disregards my boundaries.) I forgot to mention, he’s relatively cute, owns a successful starter up, and let’s say, young.

Why am I writing this? Bc a lot of women would believe this garbage. Many will fail to see he’s gaslighting, fail to see the red flags, and that he’s setting up the dynamic to make it so YOU have to please him and fulfill his need before anything else (you’re the prize). He’s very blunt about it too. Many will think that bc he’s cute and has a bit of money, he will spend on them AFTER they do what he wants. He won’t. Some might even think that they’re special and they won’t get played. You will. A lot of women would be thinking of ways to please him, even ask “How do I get him to spend?” Well first, you need to understand that he has no interest in spending on you. They promise you this and that, but first you need to do what they want before you get anything. You won’t get anything.