100 Attraction Principles from âWhy Men Love B!tchesâ
1. Anything a person chases in life runs away.
2. The women who have the men climbing the walls for them arenât always exceptional. Often, they are the ones who donât appear to care too much.
3. A woman is perceived as offering a mental challenge to the degree that a man doesnât feel he has a 100 percent hold on her.
4. Sometimes a man deliberately wonât call, just to see how youâll respond.
5. If you start out dependent, it turns him off. But if it is something he canât have, it becomes more of a challenge for him to get it.
6. It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.
7. Act like a prize and youâll turn him into a believer.
8. The biggest variable between a ***** and a woman who is too nice is fear. The ***** shows that sheâs not afraid to be without him.
9. If the choice is between her dignity and having a relationship, the ***** will prioritize her dignity above all else.
10. When a woman doesnât give in easily and doesnât appear docile or submissive, it becomes more stimulating to obtain her.
11. Being right on the verge of getting something generates a desire that has to be satisfied.
12. A man knows which woman will give in to last-minute requests.
13. Whether you have terms and conditions indicates whether you have options. Almost immediately, you present yourself as a doormat or a dreamgirl.
14. If you smother him, heâll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect his freedom.
15. Whenever a woman requires too many things from a man, heâll resent it. Let him give what he wants to give freely; then observe who he is.
16. A ***** gives a man plenty of space so he doesnât fear being trapped in a cage. Then..he sets out to trap her in his.
17. If you tell him you are not interested in jumping into a relationship with both feet, he will set out to try to change your mind.
18. Always give the appearance that he has plenty of space. It gets him to drop his guard.
19. More than anything else, he watches to see if youâll be too emotionally dependent on him.
20. He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. Only then will he perceive you as an equal partner.
21. If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, heâll not only perceive her as more beautiful, heâll also take him time to appreciate who she is.
22. Sex and the âsparkâ are not one and the same.
23. Before sex, a man isnât thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and the woman isnât.
24. Every man wants to have sex first; whether he wants a girlfriend is something he thinks about later. By not giving him what he wants up front, you become his girlfriend without him realizing it.
25. A man intuitively senses whether sexuality comes from a place of security or from a place of neediness. He knows when a woman is having sex to appease him.
26. Bad habits are easier to form than good ones, because good habits require conscious effort. Waiting encourages this effort.
27. If you pull the sexual plug at the last minute, heâll label you a tease.
28. If he makes you feel insecure, let your insecurity be your guide.
29. A quality guy fantasizes about a woman who genuinely loves sex.
30. Any time a woman competes with another woman, she demeans herself.
31. When there is that undeniable âspark,â there is only one key to the lock.
32. Let him think heâs in control. Heâll automatically start doing things you want done because heâll always want to look like âa kingâ in your eyes.
33. When you cater to his ego in a soft way, he doesnât try to get power in an aggressive way.
34. When you appear softer and more feminine, you appeal to his instinct to protect. When you appear more aggressive, you appeal to his instinct to compete.
35. Heâll let a woman who becomes his doormat pay for dinner on the first couple of dates, but he wouldnât think of it with his dreamgirl.
36. The token power position is for public display, but the true power position is for private viewing only. And this is the only one that matters.
37. If you give him a feeling of power, heâll want to protect you and heâll want to give you the world.
38. When a woman acts as though sheâs capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything.
39. Men donât respond to words. They respond to no contact.
40. Talking about the ârelationshipâ too much takes away the element of the âunknownâ and thus the mystery.
41. Men respect women who communicate in a succinct way, because itâs the language men use to talk to one another.
42. When you are always HAPPY; And he is always free to GO; he feels LUCKY.
43. If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, youâll create a void. Then, to replace what you give up, youâll start to expect and need more from your partner.
44. Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves.
45. A woman looks more secure in a manâs eyes when he canât pull her away from her life, because she is content with her life.
46. The second a woman works overtime to make herself fit his criteria, she has lowered the standard of that relationship.
47. You jump through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious youâre giving your âall.â
48. You have to keep from being sucked down into quicksand. Unless you maintain control over yourself, the relationship is doomed.
49. Jumping through hoops often has a negative outcome: He sees it as an opportunity to have his cake and eat it, too. But when you stay just outside his reach, heâll stay on his best behavior.
50. The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself.
51. The relationship may not be right for you if you find yourself jumping through hoops. When something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless.
52. When you nag, he tunes you out. But when you speak with your actions, he pays attention.
53. When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still âright there.â
54. When the routine becomes predictable, heâs more likely to give you the same type of love he had for his motherâand the odds that he will take you for granted increase.
55. Negative attention is still attention. It lets a man know that he has youâright where he wants you.
56. When you treat him casually as though heâs a friend, heâll come your way. Because he wants things to be romantic, but he also wants to be the pursuer.
57. A little distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he may be losing you.
58. A man takes a woman for granted when heâs interested, but will no longer go out of his way.
59. When you nag, you become the problem, and he deals with it by tuning you out. But when you donât nag, he deals with the problem.
60. If you take his chores away from him and praise someone else for doing it, heâll want his chores back.
61. When you nag, he sees weakness.
62. He perceives an emotional woman as more of a pushover.
63. In the same way that familiarity breeds contempt, a slightly aloof demeanor can often renew his respect.
64. Heâll forget what he has in you, unless you remind him.
65. Many women talk a lot out of nervousnessâwhich is something that men will often perceive as insecurity.
66. Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work. When heâs with a woman, he wants it to feel like fun.
67. Forcing him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, heâll pay even less attention to your feelings.
68. In the beginning, the only thing you need to pay attention to is whether he keeps coming around, because heâll only be able to suspend or hide his emotions for so long.
69. Men treat women the way they treat other men. They âplay it cool: because they donât want to appear weak or desperate.
70. The element of suprise both inside and outside of the bedroom is important to men, and it adds to the excitement.
71. Donât always do the same thing over and over in the bedroom. Vary it so that it doesnât become a predictable routine.
72. Most men tend to disrespect a woman who appears to be too malleable.
73. Donât be afraid to stand up for yourself or speak your mind. It will not only earn his respect, in some cases it will even turn him on.
74. Men often automatically assume that a *****ier woman will be more assertive in bed, and that a nice girl will be more timid.
75. When a man falls in love, suddenly heâll go out of his way and think nothing of it. Heâll do things for this woman he wouldnât have done for anyone else.
76. Heâll never respect you as being able to hold your own unless you can stand on your own too feet financially.
77. You have to show that you wonât accept mistreatment. Then you will keep his respect.
78. Your pink slip is maintained when you can stand on your ownâwith him or without him. He should never feel that you are completely as his mercy.
79. When a man views a woman as a âlittle girlâ or a sister he has to take care of, the passion diminishes. He doesnât want to make love to his sister.
80. The ability to choose how you want to live, and the ability to choose how you want to be treated are the two things that give you more power than any material object ever will.
81. In a relationship of any kind, if one person feels the other person isnât bringing anything to the table, he or she will begin to disrespect that person.
82. Financial neediness is no different than emotional neediness; in both instances, he can still get the feeling that he has a 100 percent hold on you.
83. Regardless of how pretty a woman is, looks alone will not sustain his respect. Appearance may pull him in, but it is your independence that will keep him turned on.
84. When a man is very consumed with not being taken advantage of, this is a sign that heâs âon the take.â
85. People will show you they have self-respect simply by virtue of the fact that they want to carry their own weight.
86. The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.
87. If you make it too obvious that youâre excited to get something, some people will be tempted to dangle a carrot in front of your face.
88. When you alter the routine, your not being there is what will make him come around. Men donât respond to words. What they respond to is no contact.
89. Donât give a reward for bad behavior.
90. He simply wonât respect a woman who automatically goes into overdrive to please him.
91. If he doesnât give you a time, you donât have a date.
92. Often the best way to adjust or fix the problem is by not letting him know itâs being fixed. When you alter your availability or change a predictable routine, it will mentally pull him back in.
93. Once you start laughing, you start healing.
94. You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face.
95. A man feels heâs won, or conquered a woman, when she eats out of the palm of his hand. At which point, he begins to get bored.
96. The tension that arises with a slightly *****y woman gives a subtle feeling of danger to a man. He feels slightly unsure because she is never in the palm of his hand.
97. A âyesâ woman who gives too much sends the impression that she believes in the man more than she believes in herself. Men view this as weakness not kindness.
98. Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.
99. Truly powerful people donât explain why they want respect. They simply donât engage someone who doesnât give it to them.
100. The most attractive quality of all is dignity.
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