•Finnish •03 (18+) - Header from my grandma - Exclusionists, radfems, gender criticals and other transphobes DNI and explode instantly. Neopronouns and Xenogenders are cool af and valid
Moi! I'm Elvis / E but you're free to suggest me new names. If you're more unsure/unfamiliar you can just call me Morso (tai jos oot suomalainen lol). I like horror (and bugs) and sparkly things. You can ask to tag but be mindful that my memory has it's limits (I use #trigger instead of #tw trigger, unless it's something specific)
Ask me to use tone indicators if you need them! Although I may not know all of them. I also might occasionally use finnish words or sentences every so often amongst my English, you're free to ask me to translate (or just Google them haha)
My gender is a painful topic. You can ask me how I'd like to be referred to. You can use he/him and any neos for me, but my faves are it/its, Hen/hens and e/er/ers/erself, although my preferences might fluctuate. Don't refer to me as they/them. I edit this post every now and then
Art blog: @grokebaby
Oc help/prompt blog: @creation-help
Tag stuff
#my thoughts - pretty self explanatory. If I'm saying something I feel is more thoroughly thought out or make a post I feel is important or just Long I use this.
#morso puhuu - default tag for almost all original posts.
#morso hyrisee - for some whatever posts, likely song lyrics that are stuck in my brain, interesting words or other similar. Equivalent to me verbally stimming.
#morsos plushie roster - original plush posting
#tagged for me - self explanatory
#Suomeksi - in finnish
#Bird tag - self explanatory (<3)
#Fish tag - self explanatory (<3) (may contain other wet beasts)
#niceties - talking about things to be happy about. Like a list for myself
#fav mons - Pokémon Art that features my favourites, or that I happen to wanna look at later
#Qued - my queue that I've hoarded for like three years
#(saved post) - self explanatory
#videos of ever - videos that are definitely the of all time
#fridge door - cool art :) (you may also check out #art tag)
CHARACTERS I KEEP TAGS FOR:
#morsos headcanons - you get it
#My Frommies - me screaming crying or rambling about my beloved fixation on the show From by mgm
#Arcee (transformers)
#elita 1 / elita one (transformers)
#bulkhead (transformers)
#airachnid / #black arachnia (transformers)
#optimus prime (transformers)
#megatron (transformer)
#megop (transformers)
#Goldenflower (warrior cats)
#Silverstream (warrior cats)
#Gourmand (rain world)
#smallear (warrior cats)
#jasper (Steven universe)
#pearl (Steven universe)
#yellow diamond (Steven universe)
#Garfield (Garfield)
#Sakura miku (miku)
#shadow (shadow the hedgehog)
#maxwell (don't starve together)
#mami tomoe (pmmm)
#jesus (jesus christ from the bible)
#all might (Hero academia)
#eternalberry (cookie run kingdom)
#dark cacao (cookie run kingdom)
#pure vanilla (cookie run kingdom)
#berdly (deltarune)
#carol holiday (deltarune)
#queen (deltarune)
This is because I like them and if you see cool stuff about them feel free to tag me. Parenthesis for clarification, not part of how I tag them
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“There is a cyborg hierarchy. They like us best with bionic arms and legs. They like us Deaf with hearing aids, though they prefer cochlear implants. It would be an affront to ask the Hearing to learn sign language. Instead they wish for us to lose our language, abandon our culture, and consider ourselves cured. They like exoskeletons, which none of us use. They don’t count as cyborgs those of us who wear pacemakers or go to dialysis. Nor do they count those of us kept alive by machines, those of us made ambulatory by wheelchairs, those of us on biologics or antidepressants. They want us shiny and metallic and in their image.”
― Alice Wong, Disability Visibility: First-Person Stories from the Twenty-first Century
I do think it's ridiculous how often people forget that a woman or even girl saying "I don't want to get married or have kids" isn't just something to be shamed or mocked in a lot of places, it's something that is met with violence.
There are so many people, mainly women and people perceived as women, who don't habe a choice about getting married or having children and who will suffer horifically from the people around them for not wanting that life. Being aspec or trans or anything else does not save those people from things like forced marriage, rape, and forced pregnancy, especially when the people around them only see their value in their ability to marry, to have children, to do what is expected no matter the mental or physical cost to them.
And this is not just happening as a hypothetical that you can ignore. It is happening to the people you talk to online, it is happening to your coworkers and classmates and neighbors, and in many cases it is happening or has happened to your family members. You may be the result of a woman in your family telling someone that she never wanted to have children and that person responding by taking away that choice from her. This is not a fun thing to think about. It is in fact horrifying but it's important that we don't distance ourselves from that reality. This is happening to people every single day in every single culture and community.
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I want someone to force me to be who I am. To tell me they see through that facade I spent decades perfecting to try and hide who I really was. That they don’t buy it and want the real me.
When I cry and scream that the real me is unloveable, wrong, they don’t flinch. They tsk at me and just say once more they want the real me. “I’m tired of these bells and whistles everywhere in you, what if you just relaxed?”
I’m shaking with shame, vibrating with rage for time lost. Crying because if I admit I am what I always was, I will be admitting that I wasted all that time being something I wasn’t. That all those years I could have been happy I wasn’t. I was a harlequin doll on a shelf yearning to be shattered.
As if they read my mind they take my chin and say “Every step you’ve taken has lead you to my feet, here I will give life to that part of you. I will breathe air into his lungs and give pulse to his heart.” I melt into it. I feel the stockings melt off my legs into the dirt, the makeup dripping from my cheeks. I feel the heavy weights of forced skirts and unwelcome lace seep from me.
I feel held by the ground, held by their blatant acceptance, their demand for me to be a mess. To wreck myself so they can hold me in the wreckage. I feel a little bloom of everything I could be in my chest, the hot tears I swallowed back watering the bud. Crackling earth says be reborn. Be the exposed nerve again, be the corpse alight with biological possibility for renewal.
"the concept of queerplatonic relationships originated from the asexual community" and "anyone of any orientation can be in a QPR" and "it's weird to give an overview of QPRs that mentions asexuality without mentioning their significance to so many aromantic people" and "QPRs don't need to be non-sexual" are all true statements that can easily coexist
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Big HUGE piece of advice for disabled and neurodivergent/mentally ill folks!!!!
Stop when you still feel good!
Exercise? Art? Hobby? Any physical activity? Stop when you still feel good!!!! Take a break, go recharge and eat. I've had this experience so many times where I'll go "Huh, when's the last time I ate?" while I'm doing some activity or other and I'll think I can still keep doing my activity but soon I'll start feeling alot, lot worse and when that hits it's gonna suck to go recharge and try to make myself something to eat. Many ND people have very delayed signals (or trouble reading their signals at all and being unable to tell when they feel hungry or fatigued) which is why you should estimate your break BEFORE you start feeling bad.
This has been super difficult for me to learn but with experience you can start estimating where your limits actually are bc with disability you will often be punished for excess activity alot worse later so you should not be generous with your spoons and time. We both know it Will hit you eventually, be that today or tomorrow. Do NOT loan your time. Do NOT borrow spoons from the future.
Important addition for people resisting this message:
Yes, I know it feels bad and sucks. But you know what sucks worse than quitting while you're ahead?
Burnout
Please please please do not burn yourself out for the sake of your favorite hobbies or any activity. Please just make yourself rest even if you don't want. Burnout is accumulative and I promise resting is important and good for you. Please. This is why I'm making this post.
I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.
I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.
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More people need to think about the fact that chatting about weight loss is considered neutral, mundane small talk that everybody can and should relate to. Fatphobia and diet culture are so normalized and accepted in this world that talking about the hideousness and immorality of a normal human body type is believed to be as trivial as talking about the weather. People even say diet culture shit as small talk to their employees, patients, clients, strangers. You can be in a grocery store looking at products and a stranger will make small talk with you by lamenting about how many calories are in a goddamn fruit smoothie.
Do you understand what that says about how we treat fat people in society?
