diapers and me

When losing all privileges you are required to be padded with a booster at all times, and sleep with a cover over your diaper and water proof sheets. Bathroom will be locked 24/7 and you will only be allowed in there to brush your teeth or take a shower/bath. Every 3 months you will be allowed to try and get your potty training back. However!!!! Even during this time the bathroom will still be locked and you must ask to use it. You will step down from diapers to pullups once you can wake up for 1 week not wet or messy. And you will stay on diaper probation until you can go one week without peeing your diaper. However!!!!!! You will not be allowed out of pullups for 3 months. And you will still be required to wear a diaper to sleep for those three months. If you make it to underwear during the day but have accidents while you sleep than you will be kept in diapers when sleeping or on long trips. If you have even 1 accident in your underwear you will be put back in pullups right away. And begin diaper probation all over.

Fun trick for a night!!!!!!

First. Go #2 clean up and than put a

"hollow plug in" than get nice

"and drunk"!!!!

Anyone else notice the treatment of gender in abdl is different between the two? What I am getting at is for females it tends to be soft and kind and loving, while being stern when they act up. As for males I've noticed that treatment leans towards punishment 24/7 and generally for no other reason than the poor baby exists.

For example. 2 babies wet them selfs and wake up sad because they are wet. The female baby will be comforted and told everything is ok. While the male baby will be scolded and told he is bad for having an accident.

These are just simple examples. would a baby girl be punished by having to wear ugly or overly sexualized clothing because she used her diaper? No! However things like "forced sissyfication" and general discomfort along with humiliation are used regularly on male babies.

THE POINT I HAVE FOR THIS IS, EVEN IN SAFE SPACE AND REGRESSION FOR A MALE, HE IS NOT SAFE AND FORCED IN TO HUMILIATION. Even more so than that, I can't remember the last time a cg for a male abdl talking to their little and discussing a "safe word" with them?!

Do gender roles blend in to the abdl world so badly that even HERE we have no safe space? I want a caring and loving cg. Whether or not we are together as a partner can be separate. But that doesn't change the fact that when I regress I NEED love and care and not humiliation and degrading words from my cg.

SIDE NOTE. SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS FOR BOTH SIDES SHOULD ALWAYS BE DISCUSSED AND FINALIZED "BEFORE" ANY ENCOUNTERS OF THAT NATURE HAPPEN.

And even there it is not a safe space for a male. I give an example. It is discussed and the two agree that the cg chooses when they can have play time. Somehow a safe word is almost always left out. It's been weeks now and the male baby is starting to get frustrated down there because lack of release and not being allowed to do that himself because it's up to the cg to do that part "either with or for him". Making every diaper change at this point frustrating and humiliating because there is no way to hide the fact that he is horny. In some cases the cg will fix this using the old used diaper. Other times the baby is forced to go around in a cummy diaper until it is changed. But the most likely case happens when it gets extended for months and now the baby is putty in the cg's hands and will do almost anything to get a relief. At this point things like humiliation and forced anal on to the male baby happen. And the baby agreeing to almost anything at this point just so he can have a release. It's not always a good thing.

TO FINALIZE