hey i genuinely mean absolutely no disrespect or aggression or anything, but i saw your reblog of a post about trans man lesbians and, why are we in the big 2026 arguing over how people identify? especially during pride month. not to be "that guy" but. people are dying, and y'all are out here arguing with nobody about trans man lesbians? and especially at age 27. i feel like we all have things more important to think about and discuss. they're part of our core as a community, by the way. i really suggest the book stone butch blues by leslie feinberg, its a beautiful piece of lesbian literature that can highlight your ignorance and maybe shed light on some stuff you havent thought about before. hopefully this doesn't sound rude, i mean it genuinely and kindly as possible and wish you luck on your journey
it turns out no matter how old you get or how long youve been out of your college GSA, some 21 year old dyke will always be there to recommend you read stone butch blues and wish you luck on your journey like you arent years older and years further into your transition.
anyway. trans masc lesbians, lesbians on T, lesbians who use he/him, all real, valid, etc. but like. lesbian who is a Man cant be surprised pr offended when people who’s sexuality is defined by “liking women” dont include him in that category. I regret to inform you that transition is real and trans men are, in fact, men.
Beyond that, my main critique remains that we’ve (yes, “we,” because ive been advocating for tmasc lesbians longer than youve been on T) spent years arguing for the inclusion of trans masculine people in lesbian spaces and identities and yet trans feminine individuals are still routinely excluded from and marginalized within lesbianism, often by yhose same tmasc dykes.
Recommend stone butch blues, sure, ive read it, but I in turn am gonna recommend whipping girl, a brief history of trans misogyny, and like, any girl blogger on this website.















