I consider myself a trans woman in part because of your posts and I don't have bottom dysphoria (not sure if I have any physical dysphoria, though I do plan on taking HRT). Hearing that having physical dysphoria or dysphoria about your genitals isn't a requirement for being transfeminine is affirming so thank you. The state of intra-transfem discourse on this site unfortunately seems p dire.
and for what it's worth, i'm going to do my due diligence (and tell you what i tell every trans girl who comes to me and says this): even if you think you don't have any dysphoria/don't have a specific type of dysphoria, i encourage you to think at great lengths about what kind of body you would have in an ideal world, and then i encourage you to look into what might help you actualise that. if you don't have any dysphoria, then that's awesome, it definitely isn't a requirement, but gender affirming surgeries are so targeted by transphobic society that lots of trans women become numb to the idea before even considering whether it's something that would make them happy.
whoever you end up being, we're here for you sister
