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Do not use your credit/debit cards to pay for ads. DO NOT DO IT.

Consider this a sexworker PSA: If you live in the US and pay for ads (Eros, Tryst, Pandemos, etc.) do not pay for it with a credit card/debit card. The credit card companies and banks can close your accounts. Without notice. Without warning.

Let me repeat that: DO NOT PAY FOR YOUR SW ADS WITH CREDIT/DEBIT CARDS. THE BANKS CAN CLOSE YOUR ACCOUNTS.

Instead, use a prepaid debit card (such as Bluebird, Greendot, etc,). I would even take it a step further and only use a prepaid card from a bank/credit card company that you never plan on using in your personal life. For example, if you have Visa and Mastercard credit/debit cards, use a Discover or American Express prepaid card; and only use it for SW related business.

Okay so as of right now i’m playing a VERY dangerous game of casually hooking up with an ex, and girl you already know i CANNOT afford to catch feelings! So it got me thinkin, i’m sure my fellow thotties out there would appreciate a post on how to avoid catching feelings for someone who should be nothing more than a casual hook up. First things first, you’re with this person to get laid, not to get emotionally involved with. You have to go into this with the mindset that you want nothing to do with this person other than sex. Don’t spend too much time together. You shouldnt be hooking up every day or even every other day. Try seeing the person you’re hooking up with maybe 2-3 times a week. If you’re constantly hanging out, feelings are hard not to develop. That being said, dont text the person or wait for a call from them. Youve GOT to make yourself less available. Distract yourself and stay busy, maybe even get a second hook up buddy (But please! If youre going to have multiple sex partners (even if its just one), please please please get tested, use protection, and stay safe)

Secondly, if you’re biologically ‘female’ (meaning you have a vagina) keep in mind the chances of getting attached increase if you’re engaging in sexual intercourse. During sex, the female brain releases a hormone called oxytocin. Sometimes known as the attachment hormone, oxytocin can induce feelings of love and closeness, so even if you had no romantic interest in your hook-up, your body might trick you into thinking that you do. If you start feeling somethin romantic for this person, the only thing you can really do is avoid talking to them/talking about them for a couple of days, and dont even DARE stalk their social media accounts.

Lastly, keep your expectations low. The person you’re fucking is not yours and you are not theirs. Dont get pissed when they forget your birthday or how much creamer you like in your coffee. They owe you nothing but good sex, just like how you owe them nothing but the same. This is about having fun and shamelessly enjoying yourself, dont make it complicated by getting feelings involved. Easier said than done, I know. But if you cant casually hook up without feelings developing, maybe hooking up just isnt for you, and thats okay. It isnt for everyone.

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I hate giving tips to newbies but one of my only ones that I give is to stay humble.

There’s this whole idea that you need or should have a Birkin or BMW’s or Cartier and honestly that’s so so so SO fucking stupid.

Pay your bills, help your family, get a nice apartment, get a good reliable nice car, travel to paces you really want to see, have experience that mean something.

Save all the money you can. Be realistic with the location you’re in. It’s a little too much to have high class expectations living in a city that just became mid class or whatever. Accept a realistic offer, save your money and travel….to make even more money.

For example} all my money made here in my town, is saved to spend vacations in Miami or so, and meet more new people and make more money. It’s like the old saying, you gotta spend money to make money.

Spend your money on clothes that will attract the right crowd of men. Look classy, but sexy. Be mysterious. Put those heels on, walk with confidence.

Dont be sad about making no money. Think for yourself. Give a flying fuck about what other people think. Never announce your moves. Move in silence. If you’re afraid that you’re being “lowballed…” You’re only being lowballed if you announce it on tumblr and other girls are telling you so. If he wants to pay you 250/300 per meet. Whatever take it. You already know that it’s just sex and you can dip after. That’s not sugar daddy material but turn him into a regular or something. Trust me, that’s better than nothing. WHO CARES! People start from the bottom and work their way up. It’s experience.

PLEASE take precautions when talking to and meeting POTs. Here are a couple tips that I wish I would have known before I entered the bowl.

1. Never EVER use or send a picture that is connected to your social media, reverse image search is a powerful tool. 2. Make sure your social media pages are set as private as possible. I don’t have a main Instagram pic and even my FB profile pic is set to friends only and is only my first and middle name. Social media is the easiest way for men to track you now a days. 3. Always use a fake email and phone number and for the love of god PLEASE USE FAKE NAMES WHEN SETTING UP AN ACCOUNT! Do not enter your real name and birthdate to create an account, use a fake birthday and your fake name. 4. Use an app like Betternet (it’s free) that changes your phones IP address so you aren’t traceable. 5. If you’re going out to dinner, bring whatever you want but never leave your purse/wallet unattended, it takes them 2 seconds to look at your license or name on credit card while you are in the bathroom. Even if you know these guys, don’t bring anything with your personal info on it when you visit them one on one in a private setting. Again, all it takes is you going to the bathroom to learn your real name. 6. As many of you have recently heard, Siri can tell someone a lot of info when your phone is still locked, turn that shit off.

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•Look up the where the economical hooker posts in your city it varies from place to place

•See how much the other girls charge for what services your offering and make your prices around the same price

•Post in the morning or right at the lunch area. The later you post at night you generally get the cheaper rude clients

•Join verifyhim its free and you can do background checks on these guys just with their telephone number(dont take clients who have blocked numbers)

•Get the trucaller app it will let you know whose calling if not you can still search their number up online. And you can see notes about the phone number like its spam or something

• When you get a call to a motel always look up everything you can on the guy. And what stop me from being busted was I would ride by the motel 30 min. Before I said I was coming. You will see cops busting another girl before your arrival

•Trust your gut! Never ignore it in this business it can cost you your life

•Never trust these guys some cops will say shit like o Ill pay you extra if they know you were about to turn them down. Dont trust it at all

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•Dress down if your going in a hotel. Wear regular clothes nothing tight or flashy. If your going into the marriot at like 1am just get your phone out and act like your talking to a girlfriend or something. Majority of the time since thats not an expensive hotel the workers wont be at the front desk

•Know where the all the entrances and exits are in motels and hotels.

• Bring a weapon for safety reasons

•Take a deep breath before you go in you can do it. Never let these men take advantage always say no if you dont want.

•I never think its good to be too nice people will take advantage you have to let these men know you can leave anytime

•It sounds weird but when I stop acting like I needed the money I made more. If you have a price dont be so quick to drop it when the clients says he cant afford that or whatever