and if i said i think a perfect buildup to this and the scene of him coming to find her after bc she’s in danger would be peter having recurring nightmares of her falling off the statue of liberty and not being able to save her in the days leading up to this sequence?
i also think her still being put in danger even with peter not keeping his promise to keep her safe is perfect, and should be a catalyst for him deciding to tell her and ned the truth. especially with one of the major themes of the movie being the importance of community and how unhealthy it is to isolate yourself from the people you love in the way he has. like him coming to the realization that staying away from her doesn’t automatically keep her safe. especially if they have a heart to heart where she opens up and talks to him about feeling like something is missing/isn’t right and he realizes she remembers all her interactions with spider-man and he realizes that not only is she not safer without him she’s also not happier without him and his whole reasoning for staying away falls apart.
my other thought is that during this whole sequence there should be a moment like when she falls in nwh where she is actively in danger and he is able to save her this time to round out the whole arc. personally i think that is what’s happening in that behind the scenes footage of him webbing/hugging and swinging her around. bonus points if him saving her or her seeing him in the suit without the mask brings her memories back. personally I think he should tell her everything himself first, maybe when he comes through the window to get her to come with him, and then later on she gets her memories back after one of these scenarios.
my final thought for the moment is that this scene happens after everything with her being in danger and after she has her memories back and is processing everything and then something happens while spider-man is being given the key and she’s watching him be in danger/get hurt but knowing it’s peter this time. also i think she finds his letter at some point and personally think she should find it during this scene and then upside down kiss when he gets back.