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9/8/2020

Size: 34” -42 1/2” = 34H

Dose: 20mg a day

Goal: “L”cup

So far this week has been quite hot, even for September. Progress has been slow but definitely manageable. I have to put more of my focus on finding some work now but that’s a different issue. Gotta pay for supplements somehow!

Besides taking Domperidone, I’ve also been focusing on taking care of my feminine side as well! It really helps with maintaining motivation :) As of late, I’ve made some effort in going braless or possibly wearing undershirts underneath my regular outfits. It certainly feels more freeing and less constricting around my abdomen. Granted I know I can’t go without wearing bras forever, (gotta wear a sports bra when exercising ) but at least I’m not restricting them when I don’t have to. 

I’ll keep this post short and put some cool links below!

This link has some good lactation cookie products:

http://themilkboost.com/breastfeeding-diet/the-best-lactation-snacks-you-can-buy/

This link has some good tips on inducing lactation:

https://redandhoney.com/7-ways-to-naturally-increase-breast-milk-supply/

This is a link to a good lactation cookie recipe that you can easily make:

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I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Education is 🔑 Knowledge is 💪🏻

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Smitten – Your Breasts, Our Memories by smitten - on www.marriageheat.com/2014/01/25/smitten-breasts/ January 25, 2014/17 Comments/in 46. Mature sex / My wife and I are in our sixties and have been married 40 plus years. Before I met her, and not having had a serious girlfriend, and just like most teenage boys, I thought for sure the lower half of a woman was interesting but breasts were mesmerizing, hypnotizing. The first time that I saw my future wife’s breasts was when we were teenagers. It has been a lasting image that has tethered me to her all of these years; something that we reminisce about. We were searching for a place to be alone for the first time, as I drove us down a narrow lane surrounding a cornfield (There are lots of cornfields in Illinois) and stopped at the secluded far end. As we exited the car our eyes met and I felt her nervous excitement rippling into mine as though our gazes were emitting erotic molecules that danced across the distance between our trembling bodies. The grass was green and soft where we sat, the mature cornstalks concealing, and the late afternoon sunshine seemed to soothe our jitters. She stretched and laid on her back, her gaze calling to me. Not being experienced at this sort of thing, I had some difficulty raising her dress and unhooking her bra. Then as I exposed her breasts with an enticing jiggle, the soft rays of the setting sun illuminated her moderate pink nipples and my eyes took in their wondrous beauty, their mystery, as they seemed to be begging me to partake. I was smitten by an awakened instinct, a biological imperative, a deep yearning to gaze, fondle, and then to suckle. As if an invisible force from her breasts had lassoed me and was rhythmically nudging me closer, and gazing so closely at the real thing, I surrendered to their needy calling and slowly sucked in her left nipple until it filled my mouth, my tongue rhythmically pressing upward and working from back to front. Then a euphoria came over me that was so overwhelming that it has always summoned me back for more. It was the day that we imprinted. A few years later, we married and had children that were each breastfed for a year. Our focus was on the children’s welfare as our world became harsh and unforgiving. If the thought of sharing in my wife’s bounty of milk ever did cross my mind it was quickly squashed by the severity of our circumstances. Years went by quickly and our lives became easier and gentler as our children grew up and left home and we retired. As we aged we discovered the serenity and comfort in extended foreplay, and though we are healthy and enjoy sex often, her breasts became more and more important and satisfying to me as she loved having me give them the extended attention. Now the sublime nursing on her breasts and her freely and joyously giving me her milk is no longer solely a part of foreplay but an integral part of every day. We are calmer, intimately closer, and experiencing serenity that many older couples seem to be missing. Entwined by the electrifying connection of lips and nipples and meeting of the minds we agree that time seems to expand, the world around us vanishes, and for a while we are the only two people in the universe. At our age the end of the line can be fully visualized and, instead of withering away to an unfulfilled senior existence, we have reawakened and found again those very same intoxicating emotions that we experienced as young lovers.

They are meant to show your devotion. They are not a race. Make out with his cock. Make fucking love to his cock. Take him to the very precipice and back over and over. Make him so out of control that grasping your hair is all that is keeping him tied to the earth.

Lick, tickle, tease, warm, swirl, devour, adore, cherish…

His dick is a meal to a starving woman, and his essence is a part of him. Clean it all up. Every last drop. Know that you are a goddess, because YOU drew that from him. YOU pushed him over the edge and demanded he show you his magnetic attraction. Animalistic adoration.

Be his fantasy, be his desire. Answer all of his unspoken questions, and if he is a man… He will take you there in return.

Only because the person putting it out like a good helpful friend is a CATFISH and has been for years!!!

I guess he needs to know where people are going so he can keep up his bullshit!!!

Anyone remember…

DEVI8TED??? What about…

Solitary-tear??

I am sure he has used countless others!!!!

Now in almost five years here I have never called anyone out like this so you better damn well believe I have proof!!!

It sickens my stomach to watch this bullshit!!! It’s disgusting and I can only imagine how many women he has hurt and now his making sure he can follow his unknowing victims to other sites!! Fuck that!!

If you don’t believe me ask for a live pic of him orrrrrrrr google search a pic he has sent you!! He is stealing them from the internet!! This is pathetic and I had to say something! Though it won’t stop this sociopath maybe just maybe a few of you will realize what is happening!!!

FUCK YOU MICAH…

or whatever your made up name is today!!! Stop this shit! What I’ve learned about you and what you have done is absolutely heartbreaking and disgusting!! You should be ashamed and everyone should avoid this man at all costs!!!!

Please reblog and Boost!!!

A New Hope

I’m not sure at this point if a post like this is just screaming into the void or not (what even happened today here?!? I can’t even keep up at this point…), but there are still important things to say. If people see this - great - if not - then it is what it is.

I’m going to begin by saying how I have been so impressed with the way we - the NSFW / adult content bloggers - collectively as a group - have helped and supported each other through these last few very shocking, confusing, and trying days. This in most ways has been a supportive place (though not always perfect as we all know), and it’s good to see that manifest itself in this new way as well - even in a bad situation.

There have been a lot of posts I’ve seen about the various different platforms - and I know we all seem to be scrambling to find the best one.

I’ve also seen it said that none of them “are Tumblr” - and I happen to think that’s both good and bad. Good because of what Tumblr has turned into this week, bad because while we’re moving onto other adventures in other spaces it won’t be what we had here.

Or is that actually the case? I’ll confess this has been an overwhelming few days thinking of having to leave this space, lose our blog, lose much of what we shared (all our pics were already backed up - I’m meticulous about my organization regarding our pics) - not to mention the daily roller coaster of changes they seem to keep throwing at us. It’s come to mind more than once to just quit. No more photos, no more blogs, no more sharing. I’m sure we’re not alone in this. 

Then it hit me when I was driving to work this morning and saw the Alliance Starbird pictured above dangling from my rear view mirror. I keep it there as a reminder of many things that are important to me - and because of it - I had a moment of clarity today: the realization that Tumblr isn’t a “place” - at least not anymore. It’s us collectively - the community - the NSFW / adult content content creators - we are the people that really “made” Tumblr in many ways. To be clear - coders, developers, staff, executives built a template - a mechanism - which in the end is just “thing”. To be fair, it was “a thing” that we used and were grateful to have had for over the last 5 years.

That being said - in the midst of creating content, re-blogging, supporting fellow bloggers - we collectively as a group of people willing to share some part of ourselves - with some measure of luck - created our own community. Some may see what we did as just posting “explicit” or NSFW content - but that’s not really understanding fully what it was that we all did.

So whether we are on this physical site or app or not anymore doesn’t matter in some way, because the physical site of Tumblr is just a “thing” - and that thing is each day becoming closer to Verizon / Yahoo’s version of Alderaan. We as a community whether on Tumblr or not - our connections and friendships - those things as a sum are greater than just this one “thing”.

Over the last few days we’ve begun to spread near and far like the rag-tag rebellion resistance moving onto remote bases like Hoth and Yavin 4, as we move onto Twitter, MeWe, Sharesome or OnlyFans, and other far flung ends of the social media galaxy.

My point to all of this - we are in contact with each other - supporting each other - doing our best to move on, and at the same time keeping going some slice of what we have created here. It goes with us because we all helped to make this place what it was for our community of diverse but like minded people.

Normal people, who were open to sharing a part of themselves with strangers - some who became confidants and friends - and who are now helping each other keep those connections going. That’s us as this larger group - that’s not this “thing”.

Wherever we all end up, we represent - A New Hope - and Rebellions Are Built On Hope.

Like the representative symbol of the rebellion pictured above - the Alliance Starbird - we are - our community that we collectively formed here - we are the Phoenix rising from the ashes - wherever that may be.

The Force is indeed strong with us.

May the Force be with us all.

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I started on Tumblr soon after it was created with a vanilla blog. Since then, hardly a day has gone by that Tumblr wasn’t a part of my life. I have made excellent friends on Tumblr over the years. In fact, MOST of my friends came from relationships I made via Tumblr. The precious, bubbly cupcake that is in my bed? Tumblr. So you can imagine how painful Tumblr’s announcement has been for me.

I love seeing the marginalized communities that are shunned elsewhere on Planet Earth have a safe place to exist and be themselves. It always made me smile when I see a Tumblr blogger ease out of their shells, steadfastly into the world.

Well, that shit is no more.

As some of you may have noticed I started a community effort to rescue these communities. I want everyone involved because it will be our garden, our club, our safe space to be ourselves.

And the new site (name to be withheld until we have something to show) is not just for kinksters, I want vanillas too; artists, witches, horror writers, brewmeisters, budtenders, book sluts, fandoms of all types, beat poets, wilderness photographers, Burners, vampire hunters, Dungeons and Dragons players, and rocket scientists. Hell, I want people who just want to blog about cats and cabins in the woods.

What we won’t tolerate are bullies, minors, Nazis (and their fucked up allies), abusers or trolls. They can fuck right off to a cesspool of their choice.

I am putting up the cash to get this started PLUS I am making this a community effort, that is why I am being so transparent about the process with our Discord planning group. Yes, it is chaos. We have taken on an INSANE project to get done in less than 2 weeks. Well, 9 days now.

This isn’t my first rodeo. I am actively trying to keep my anonymity as long as I can, but I know it will soon be spugged out in due order soon. You will then see what I have done in the past and learn about a very vanilla project that has been near and dear to my heart. You have probably heard of it and maybe even participated!

The beta site will not be perfect. It will be good but not perfect. Hell, we have been suffering with “far from perfect” with Tumblr now for years. It is my hope that our community can put up with our rough edges for a little while.

Where we are tonight is pretty good. We have selected a host, got our software loaded, installed the Linux packages required and are now getting those packages to play nice with one another. We had it working for a bit until a small issue with the registration page required some elbow work.

I am working on the branding and marketing with a bunch of really smart pervs in our Discord group. I am really proud of all of our volunteers and want to thank them all. 

If you want to volunteer or simply eat popcorn and watch the porn riots, please use this invite link: https://discord.gg/jVempgb

Remember, Discord is just the site we are using for planning, not the actual site we are moving to.

Many of you have asked about the Library For Kinksters, it will be archived and placed on the now site.

We plan to allow you to import your Tumblr blog over to our new site but Tumblr may have other ideas. Other services have been using Tumblr’s API for exporting and now Tumblr now seems to be shutting down that API functionality.

That is all for now. Keep your heads held high and remember you are ALL FUCKING AMAZING PEOPLE!

- Dominant Life

P.S. Please reblog the shit out of this. Santa may drop a slutty elf off at your house for Christmas!

Many people have been telling me about these new platforms and I am so happy that everyone is finding their new places. On Friday I posted that life has been throwing me curveballs and it SO has!! Big curveballs that demand my attention. Monday Tumblr announces the changes and everything in my amazing little naughty corner blows up! Another fucking curveball!!!!

So here is the thing, I am only one person with limited time. No one has cloned me yet, that I know of, so until that happens, it’s just me!! I don’t have the time, brainpower and fight in me right now to devote to learning multiple social media platforms!

The grass is greener wherever you water it! Real life is demanding my attention so that is where I will be pouring out my love and attention! I will remain active here as much as I can. Sharing stories and whatever else is around after the big change. I’m excited to see what it will look like.

I have set up the onlyfans because I know I will get the itch to be naughty! I know I need that outlet. It’s so fun for me to share. Real life adventures are presenting themselves and I would love to share stories here and pics/videos on my onlyfans!! The fun is just beginning for me and I appreciate everyone that has been and will be a part of my naughty corner (both versions)!!

As always my sexy friends, thanks for reading this and touching my life!! Thank you for making this girl feel fun, sexy and loved!! I will be around as long as the Tumblr gods will have me!!! Please keep in touch and remember to stay kind and kinky!!!