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First off, let me be clear that i am not using the term faggot in a pejorative sense. One of the most effective ways of taking the sting out of a word is to re-appropriate it from the haters, and redefine it yourself. This must of course happen in a supportive environment, among those who accept you as you are. That enables you to defiantly and bravely own up to what you are. And to realize that there are appreciative Alphas/Men out there who would love nothing better than to have their own personal fag. Don’t let others keep you from living the life that fits you best. And without shame.

In this re-appropriated meaning, the following are some pretty strong indicators that you are a faggot:

1. Your primary sex organ is not your penis.

Most males (gay or straight) derive most of their sexual pleasure from their penises. Men love to ejaculate, and they find great satisfaction in the power of their ejaculations. They take great pride in their penises and in phallic symbolism.

Faggots, on the other hand, are often embarrassed by their penis. It may be relatively small. Many have weak erections. Some have low testosterone levels. On the other hand, faggots generally take great pleasure in their butts and assholes. They are compelled to play with this area, stimulate it using fingers, dildos, or butt plugs, and learn to have prostate-induced anal orgasms rather than (or in addition to) penile orgasms. For faggots, their asshole becomes their primary sex organ, not their penis. Most regard their mouths as a primary or secondary sex organ. 

2. You are unable to top.

In general, Men are born with a natural desire to penetrate and ejaculate. It is their prime instinct. Men love to watch their cocks slide into their partner, love to hear their moans as they fuck them, and enjoy the feeling of pumping their warm seminal fluid into them.

Faggots, on the other hand, cannot see themselves as anything other than a receptive hole for a Man’s cock. A faggot will never penetrate anyone else. The idea has no appeal, and there is no motivation to do so. My penis does not get aroused at the thought. It remains flaccid.

When being fucked, faggots typically feel little or no motivation to touch their penises, preferring instead to focus on the penetration. Many faggots remain flaccid while getting fucked, so focused are they on their asshole as primary sex organ. 3. You dislike receiving oral sex.

From my first sexual experience with another male, I noticed that I did not enjoy receiving oral sex. My penis remained flaccid, and the experience was embarrassing and made me intensely uncomfortable. That is not atypical. There are at least two reasons for this. One, already described above, is that a faggot’s penis is not experienced as a primary sex organ. Another is that the position of power a blowjob bestows upon the receiver is antithetical to the true nature of a faggot. 

Almost all Men (gay or straight) love to receive a good blowjob. Faggots are the exception. They typically recoil from the idea. Now that I’ve come to understand my true nature, the very thought of receiving a blowjob fills me with disgust and horror. I’ve heard the same from many faggots over the years.

4. You are service oriented.

All gay bottoms are submissive to some degree; taking a dick up the ass requires at least a degree of submissiveness. But most are submissive only in the bedroom, and their bottoming is how they prefer to get off. In other words, there is a reciprocity. They seek their own orgasm as much as their partner’s. They consider themselves on a level plane to the Man who is fucking them. This is very similar to how most women view their relationships with Men.

A faggot is not only not equal to a Man (except in certain fundamental human rights as a human being), but the faggot itself knows and acknowledges that it is not equal. A faggot doesn’t focus on its own pleasure at all, in or out of the bedroom. At all times a true faggot focuses on the Man’s pleasure. Its own pleasure is merely incidental, and in no way central. 5. You have certain fetishes, and open to deeper forms of submission.

Certain fetishes tend to distinguish faggots from conventional gay bottoms. For instance, almost all faggots seem to have fetishes for aspects of a Man’s body that denote masculinity and power asymmetry. 

Faggots tend to very willingly kiss and lick a Man’s feet. They also tend to their lust for the smells of a Man. A Man’s used underwear might disgust most people, but a faggot typically desires these items. Faggots love to sniff and lick musky balls and armpits. While gay bottoms may enjoy such aspects, too, they rarely have the worshipful lust faggots reserve for them.

These fetishes might drive faggots to do things that ordinary gay bottoms would never do, such as swallow a Man’s piss, or get spanked.

6. You derive satisfaction from service.

Faggots achieve emotional satisfaction from serving a Man through menial tasks. A faggot finds great satisfaction while cleaning a Man’s bathroom, doing a Man’s dishes, or washing a Man’s laundry. Very few women or other gay Men exhibit this level of servitude, nor do they seem to derive pleasure from such tasks. 

In addition, a faggot does such chores without the expectation of reward. Contrast that mentality with women and gay Men, who often perform chores for a Man in the expectation that they will be rewarded in some way. Faggots do not have such expectations. Their reward comes from performing the service itself for a special Man.

Summing up, you are a faggot if: • You are more interested in your ass as your primary sex organ • You seek only the sexual satisfaction of the Man, not yourself. • You are attracted to the power of a Man • You are attracted to a Man’s intimate scents and, and not repelled by his spit and piss • You can derive pleasure from serving a Man through menial tasks

(Most suggestions assume there is a bull in the relationship)

  1.       Make him wear panties every day.  Make him go to the store and pick out panties that only he will wear.  Make him wear sexy lingerie when he is allowed to watch you and your bull. 

      2.       Make him shave all of his body hair.  You may have him leave a little just above his little clit if you prefer the look

3.       Put him in chastity….that simple. Tease him often but rarely let him cum.  Take pictures of his little caged clit.  Threaten to show your girlfriends.  If it all possible, show a friend then tell him all about her reaction.

4.       Plug his boi pussy often and train him to take an increasingly larger plug. Have him wear a plug a couple hours at least 3-4 days a week.   Fuck him with a strapon often.  Tell him this is now sex for him and that he should learn to orgasm from anal penetration.  To add to the humiliation, make him fuck himself.  Suction cup dildos work great for this.  Tell him he needs to practice for the real thing.  Say things like “you really love having cock in your ass don’t you?”

5.       Make him suck on your strap on or a dildo.  Tell him he needs to practice for the real thing.

6.       Make him eat his cum.  Make sure he knows he will have to eat it if he cums.  Tell him he needs to learn to enjoy the taste. 

7.       Give him some time out of chastity and instruct him to fill a shot glass with cum or ‘x’ number of loads. Keep it in the freezer.  It’s easy to warm it up for play by putting shot glass in hot water.  Once that task is complete lock him back up.  Tell him the next time you release him for teasing he will have to hold all of the cum in his mouth the entire time.  Give him the option after 10 minutes or more to either swallow the cum or spit it out.  Reward for swallowing could be another tease session, a few stokes inside your pussy, or something you think he would enjoy.  Penalty for spitting it out could be increased time until he is released for even a tease, added time to his next scheduled orgasm date, sex with your bull that he doesn’t get to watch.

8.       Make him lick your bull’s cum off of your body or from your pussy.  If possible, have him suck off your bull so he can take the bull’s cum straight from the source.  Make sure he swallows it all.  Take pictures of your cuck  sucking cock.  Show the pictures to him when it’s just the two of you and tease him about how much he seemed to enjoy sucking cock.  Threaten to show one of your girlfriends the pictures.

9.       When you have sex with your bull, hopefully your cuck can be there.  Make eye contact with your cuck often.  Make a lot of noise/moans of pleasure.  Tell your cuck “thank you for letting me get fucked by a real cock”.  If he can’t be there, call him on the phone then put the phone down so he can listen while you are ravished.  Take pics and send them to him.

10.   Texting him anytime is good.  Easy way for you to remind him about what is happening to him.  Text “I bet you’d be jerking off right now if I didn’t have you locked up”.  “My pussy has been so wet today, can’t stop thinking about fucking (bull’s name)”.  “Go put a butt plug in your ass…I’ll let you know when to take it out”.    Take a pic of your pussy and send it to him with a note that says “it’s going to be a long time before your little dick gets any more of this”.  Simple texts do wonders and get him thinking about what he can’t have (as if he wasn’t already, ha)  Things like “horny?”  “how are your little balls feeling?”  “When was last time you came?”  “How many days is it until you get to cum again?” (“wow that’s a long time, I wonder how many times I will cum between now and then”)  “Are you craving my strap on yet?”  “Take a pic of the panties you have on today and send to me, a friend doesn’t believe you are really wearing panties”  The possibilities are endless obviously but keep something going as much as possible.  It will keep you both horny and anxious for your next adventure.

11.   Constantly tease him about being a cuckold with simple lines. Mix it up.  Here are a few suggestions:  While masturbating “I wish I had (bull’s name) cock right now, I need to be fucked”        “I hope you like being in chastity because I’ve gotten to the point I prefer you locked”

“Thank you for helping me find (bull’s name) It’s nice to not be sexually frustrated all the time.”

Take him out of chastity and say “I think your little dick is actually getting smaller”

12.    Only give him handjobs.  No blowjobs.  Very rarely let him have pussy.  Tell him you are saving your pussy for your bull.  Ask him if he regrets becoming your cuckold. (he will say “no”)  Tell him “there’s something about (bull’s) cock that makes me want to suck on it but I don’t really have that urge when I play with yours”

13.   Make him service you orally often.  If you enjoy it in the least bit, have him spend extra time on your ass.  Say to him “if it wouldn’t be so frustrating for me, I’d let you fuck me right now”

14.   When/if you allow him in your pussy, don’t let him think he is actually bringing you pleasure.  For some, this won’t be much of an act.  Tell him, “you just can’t make me cum like (bull).

15.   When you allow him to cum, pick on him about his small load.  Tell him it’s about half as much cum as your bull normally produces.  Say “that’s probably because your little balls are about half the size of (bull’s name)

16.   Send sexy pics of yourself to your bull.  Make sure your bull let’s your cuck know about the pic but don’t always share the pic with your cuck.  This will drive him crazy and it’s just one more thing that the bull gets that he doesn’t anymore.

17.   Send him pics of your bull’s cock. Say “Been thinking about this all day” This is good to do especially on days that you are planning to see your bull later.

18.   Have your bull save up some cum. Several loads.  Bring it home to your cuck and have some fun with it.  Have him lick it off of you.  Pour it in his mouth and make him swallow it.  Put little bits at a time on a dildo and have him suck the dildo clean over and over.

19.    Give your bull a key to his chastity lock.  Have him shoot several loads of cum into a shot glass with the key in it.  Freeze into a cum ice cube.  Make cuck hold the cum cube in his mouth to retrieve his key for a release.  Make sure he swallows the cum but tease him about making sure he doesn’t swallow the key. (maybe key should be on key chain, hehe)

20.   Punish your cuck’s clit and balls.  Crop, slap, pinch his clit.  Slap, punch, squeeze, his balls.  Show that you are amused by doing these things.  Tell him “this is the most fun I can have with your clit”  or “I need to get properly fucked but (bull) can’t tonight so I’m taking my frustration out on your pathetic clit”  The fact that you are showing him the attention will be heavenly for your chastitized cuckold.  There are all sorts of creative ways to torture and tease.  A few others include: Toilet brush masturbation (make him fuck the hole in the brush or secure him and do it to him), wrap his balls with an Ace bandage.  The compression will become extremely intense.  Tens units are great on the cock or balls.  Clothes pegs. Suspend weights from his ball. On his hands and knees, make him drag something heavy through the house by his balls. (time him, every minute is a day until his next release)

21.   Ruined orgasms are a wonderful way to excite your cuck and leave him extremely horny.  You should ruin at least 3 orgasms in between each full orgasm you allow him.  Of course make him eat any cum that dribbles  out or save it for him to eat later.

22.   Wear his chastity key around your neck in public as much as possible. IF anyone asks, tell them exactly what it’s for.  If possible make him show them his caged clit.

23.   Have him start a blog and update it daily about his predicament and feelings.  Make sure you read it even if you don’t bring it up often.  This will be the best way for you to gauge where he is at mentally and physically.  He will write things that he would likely never tell you. Also, when you don’t mention that you’ve read it very often, he will let more and more of his true feelings out. 

24.   When you do release him for a tease, talk to him about his next orgasm.  Discuss dates way into the future.  Even talk about your plan for the next year even.  Tell him, “I like giving you blue balls so you always are reminded of the control I have over you.” 

25.   When you tease him, make sure he knows he isn’t allowed to cum.  To let you know he is close to cumming and can’t hold out much longer, make him say “please lock me back in chastity”.  In fact for any type of play, that should be his only way of telling you that he would like for it to stop.  Doesn’t mean you have to stop.  Take a break maybe and work him up to saying it several times.

  The most important thing is to try to be creative.  The fact that you are putting forth effort at all will mean a lot to your cuckold.  If you can keep him engaged and feeling like he is participating in your adventures then he will most likely be more than willing to help you make time for your bull.  Have sex with your cuckold often unless you and your bull agree to something different but incorporate some of the things I have outlined above.  Let your cuck know that you love him and none of this would be possible without him.  A little reassurance goes a long way.  You will know if you are on the right track by what he records in his blog.  Most likely, if your cuckold is the one that has guided you into this lifestyle, his greatest thrill is knowing that you are being sexually satisfied.  Cuckolds take ownership and pride in knowing they are helping you.  Nothing worse for a cuckold than to have a hotwife that becomes sexually stale or uninterested in his fetish.  A cuckold wants his wife to dress sexy, flirt, pick up guys, and be adventurous.  Don’t feel guilty for enjoying your bull…that’s the point, that’s what makes it hot for your cuckold.  If your bull does not make you happy and put you in a good mood then your cuck will likely start looking for a replacement because a happy wife equals happy life!