How would you advise men in the world who are shy about saying they’re into feminism? What do you think is the best way to support the cause?

“Well, they need money, they need volunteers. Action is the best way to say anything. A guy who goes around saying "I’m a feminist” usually has an agenda that is not feminist. A guy who behaves like one, who actually becomes involved in the movement, generally speaking, you can trust that. And it doesn’t just apply to the action that is activist. It applies to the way they treat the women they work with and they live with and they see on the street.“

So many online female feminists are harassed when they voice their opinions, thoughts and beliefs in an online social setting. It is a problem, a REAL problem. The evidence is on the eternal hardrive that is the internet.

When you say I should ‘toughen up’ or ‘tone it down’, YOU are part of the problem. When you say ‘not all men’-it’s not a fucking excuse for the hundreds of other men out there who are doing this to women to do so! When you say I’m ‘reading too much into this’ or that I ‘always find a way to relate everything to sexism or racism’, I will reply that ‘we live in a fucking patriarchal world, what do you fucking expect?’. When you get angry and defiant that I’m bringing up an uncomfortable topic for you-I say ‘WOMEN UP. I deal with this every fucking day.’ When you tell me women and men are equal now-I say ‘check the fucking statistics. You are WRONG.’ When you play the victim card and claim that ‘feminists hate men’, I say that ‘feminists who hate men are NOT fucking feminists. They are MISANDRISTS.’ When you close your eyes and ears and mind to the very concept of equality between the sexes, of feminism, YOU are also part of the larger problem.